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lodiug · 20th Jan 2009, 11:24 AM

Okay, so you're in the closet.
You have a crush on a guy at school, but you don't know if he's gay.
It turns out that he also has a crush on you, but he doesn't know if you are gay.
After 3 weeks he can't handel the pressure and comes out to everyone. You even hear him say that he has a crush on you and that he wants to be you're boyfriend!
Would you come out just to date him???

P.S. I'm not in that situation, I was just thinking about it....

crystaltriforce · 20th Jan 2009, 11:27 AM

yeah i would

Steve · 20th Jan 2009, 11:32 AM

me well dpened .. the moment i leave this homophobic place im out.. then hell yeas

sdc91 · 20th Jan 2009, 11:36 AM

If I had a crush on him, then of course.

Trumpetplyer23 · 20th Jan 2009, 11:55 AM

Depends where I lived, I mean, if it was a real homophobic area, than no. If not, then yes, I would

20th Jan 2009, 11:56 AM

absolutely in a heart beat!

n8i2c7k · 20th Jan 2009, 12:25 PM

No not really come out per se. I wouldn't come out in the traditional sense of telling people "I'm gay." I'd probably just start hanging around him more, flirting a bit untill he musters up the courage to ask me out (i'm horrible i know, but hey, he cracked first

). Then i'd go out with him and let people figure things out by themselves.

theworld · 20th Jan 2009, 12:30 PM

probably, if I like him. why not? I'm not too concerned about others think. Besides, it's none of their business, right?

riddlerno1 · 20th Jan 2009, 01:27 PM

You could befriend him and then tell him if you want to. You dont need to announce to the world if you dont want to.

TheRoof · 20th Jan 2009, 01:27 PM

oh my god i definitely would!!

whitefang · 20th Jan 2009, 01:28 PM

I would!!

Greggers · 20th Jan 2009, 01:29 PM

Fooooooooooor sure

Behling · 20th Jan 2009, 01:32 PM

I was in a situation like this, however the guy who had a crush on me was already out. I ended up coming out

Tim · 20th Jan 2009, 01:34 PM

Hai :P In a heartbeat XD But that never happened :P

20th Jan 2009, 01:40 PM

I wouldn't even have to consider that for a second, ofcourse I would

Swamp56 · 20th Jan 2009, 03:38 PM

I definitely would

BlakeHarmony · 20th Jan 2009, 03:49 PM

I would!

Cool Beans · 20th Jan 2009, 03:52 PM

Yes, certainly!

**lostinthought9** · 20th Jan 2009, 06:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lodiug

Okay, so you're in the closet.
You have a crush on a guy at school, but you don't know if he's gay.
It turns out that he also has a crush on you, but he doesn't know if you are gay.
After 3 weeks he can't handel the pressure and comes out to everyone. You even hear him say that he has a crush on you and that he wants to be you're boyfriend!
Would you come out just to date him???

P.S. I'm not in that situation, I was just thinking about it....

that's cool, I was thinking about that too...and I said the same thing almost everyone else said: Hell Yeah!

joss22 · 20th Jan 2009, 06:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostinthought9

Quote:

Originally Posted by lodiug

Okay, so you're in the closet.
You have a crush on a guy at school, but you don't know if he's gay.
It turns out that he also has a crush on you, but he doesn't know if you are gay.
After 3 weeks he can't handel the pressure and comes out to everyone. You even hear him say that he has a crush on you and that he wants to be you're boyfriend!
Would you come out just to date him???

P.S. I'm not in that situation, I was just thinking about it....

that's cool, I was thinking about that too...and I said the same thing almost everyone else said: Hell Yeah!

lol, yeah is definitely the obvious choice, but I don't know, in my current situation, this is a distinct impossibility, as in I can't come out right now, and even though I may want to, kind of not my choice you could say...

20th Jan 2009, 11:24 AM	#1
lodiug EC Addict Full Member Posts: 500 Join Date: Oct 2007	Would you come out?? Okay, so you're in the closet. You have a crush on a guy at school, but you don't know if he's gay. It turns out that he also has a crush on you, but he doesn't know if you are gay. After 3 weeks he can't handel the pressure and comes out to everyone. You even hear him say that he has a crush on you and that he wants to be you're boyfriend! Would you come out just to date him??? P.S. I'm not in that situation, I was just thinking about it....

20th Jan 2009, 11:27 AM	#2
crystaltriforce raised by nintendo and sega Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but extended family Location: outside of Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 1,825 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Would you come out?? yeah i would __________________ we need masculinity....PUT ON THE "FUZZY FUZZY CUTE CUTE" SONG!!!

20th Jan 2009, 11:32 AM	#3
Steve EC's Soldier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Would you come out?? me well dpened .. the moment i leave this homophobic place im out.. then hell yeas __________________ Soldier " there is no room for that in my pocklet" commander " if there is room in your heart then there in your pocket" Soldier " i cant fit my gf in there" -r " have you tried ? until you try you dont know"

20th Jan 2009, 11:36 AM	#4
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Would you come out?? If I had a crush on him, then of course.

20th Jan 2009, 11:56 AM	#6
BitterEdge Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you come out?? absolutely in a heart beat!

20th Jan 2009, 12:25 PM	#7
n8i2c7k Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few friends Location: Hawaii Age: 21 Posts: 192 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Would you come out?? No not really come out per se. I wouldn't come out in the traditional sense of telling people "I'm gay." I'd probably just start hanging around him more, flirting a bit untill he musters up the courage to ask me out (i'm horrible i know, but hey, he cracked first ). Then i'd go out with him and let people figure things out by themselves. __________________

20th Jan 2009, 12:30 PM	#8
theworld Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 21 Posts: 209 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Would you come out?? probably, if I like him. why not? I'm not too concerned about others think. Besides, it's none of their business, right?

20th Jan 2009, 01:27 PM	#9
riddlerno1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: London Age: 29 Posts: 712 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Would you come out?? You could befriend him and then tell him if you want to. You dont need to announce to the world if you dont want to.

20th Jan 2009, 01:27 PM	#10
TheRoof True Blue Full Member Gender: genderqueer Orientation: I like who I like. Location: NY Age: 20 Posts: 1,452 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Would you come out?? oh my god i definitely would!! __________________ Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. -Diane Arbus-

20th Jan 2009, 01:28 PM	#11
whitefang EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Many but not all our! Location: Indidanpolis, Indidana Age: 19 Posts: 279 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Would you come out?? I would!! __________________ Love is painForgive is to forget

20th Jan 2009, 01:29 PM	#12
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Would you come out?? Fooooooooooor sure __________________ "It's a male duck."

20th Jan 2009, 01:32 PM	#13
Behling ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Illinois, just outside of Chicago Age: 19 Posts: 1,898 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Would you come out?? I was in a situation like this, however the guy who had a crush on me was already out. I ended up coming out __________________ "Your words are infectious Your eyes leave me breathless I think it's safe to say You're deadly in your own way"

20th Jan 2009, 01:34 PM	#14
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Would you come out?? Hai :P In a heartbeat XD But that never happened :P __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

20th Jan 2009, 01:40 PM	#15
Tom Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you come out?? I wouldn't even have to consider that for a second, ofcourse I would

20th Jan 2009, 03:38 PM	#16
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Would you come out?? I definitely would __________________

20th Jan 2009, 03:49 PM	#17
BlakeHarmony EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: queer Out Status: friends, parents, sibs, (nearly) anyone who asks Location: Calgary Posts: 895 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Would you come out?? I would! __________________ Let's eat, Grandpa. Let's eat Grandpa. Punctuation saves lives! "I would rather sit on a pumpkin and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion" Henry David Thoreau

20th Jan 2009, 03:52 PM	#18
Cool Beans Hardly ever here Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family, basically. Location: Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 551 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Would you come out?? Yes, certainly! __________________ You can call me Dan if you want.