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Would you come out??

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  1. lodiug

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    Okay, so you're in the closet.
    You have a crush on a guy at school, but you don't know if he's gay.
    It turns out that he also has a crush on you, but he doesn't know if you are gay.
    After 3 weeks he can't handel the pressure and comes out to everyone. You even hear him say that he has a crush on you and that he wants to be you're boyfriend!
    Would you come out just to date him???

    P.S. I'm not in that situation, I was just thinking about it....
     
    #1 lodiug, Jan 20, 2009
  2. crystaltriforce

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    yeah i would
     
    #2 crystaltriforce, Jan 20, 2009
  3. Steve

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    me well dpened .. the moment i leave this homophobic place im out.. then hell yeas
     
    #3 Steve, Jan 20, 2009
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    If I had a crush on him, then of course.
     
    #4 sdc91, Jan 20, 2009
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    Depends where I lived, I mean, if it was a real homophobic area, than no. If not, then yes, I would :slight_smile:
     
    #5 Trumpetplyer23, Jan 20, 2009
  6. BitterEdge

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    absolutely in a heart beat!
     
    #6 BitterEdge, Jan 20, 2009
  7. n8i2c7k

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    No not really come out per se. I wouldn't come out in the traditional sense of telling people "I'm gay." I'd probably just start hanging around him more, flirting a bit untill he musters up the courage to ask me out (i'm horrible i know, but hey, he cracked first :icon_wink). Then i'd go out with him and let people figure things out by themselves.
     
    #7 n8i2c7k, Jan 20, 2009
  8. theworld

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    probably, if I like him. why not? I'm not too concerned about others think. Besides, it's none of their business, right?
     
    #8 theworld, Jan 20, 2009
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    You could befriend him and then tell him if you want to. You dont need to announce to the world if you dont want to.
     
    #9 riddlerno1, Jan 20, 2009
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    oh my god i definitely would!!
     
    #10 TheRoof, Jan 20, 2009
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    I would!!
     
    #11 whitefang, Jan 20, 2009
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    Fooooooooooor sure
     
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    I was in a situation like this, however the guy who had a crush on me was already out. I ended up coming out :grin:
     
    #13 AzThRg0, Jan 20, 2009
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    Hai :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: In a heartbeat XD But that never happened :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #14 Tim, Jan 20, 2009
  15. Tom

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    I wouldn't even have to consider that for a second, ofcourse I would
     
    #15 Tom, Jan 20, 2009
  16. Swamp56

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    I definitely would :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #16 Swamp56, Jan 20, 2009
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    I would!
     
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    Yes, certainly!
     
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    that's cool, I was thinking about that too...and I said the same thing almost everyone else said: Hell Yeah!
     
    #19 lostinthought9, Jan 20, 2009
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    lol, yeah is definitely the obvious choice, but I don't know, in my current situation, this is a distinct impossibility, as in I can't come out right now, and even though I may want to, kind of not my choice you could say...
     
    #20 joss22, Jan 20, 2009
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