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When you're talking to your crush, are you more...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Steve FS, Nov 30, 2015.

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Hmm... when I'm with my crush, I think I'm more...

  1. Talkative and Flirty

    26 vote(s)
    42.6%
  2. Shy and Passive

    35 vote(s)
    57.4%
  1. Steve FS

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    Casual with conversation, confident, outspoken, and flirty?

    OR

    Shy, quiet, nervous, and anxious?

    If you can't decide, choose the option that most closely resembles you.

    (!)
     
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    Hell if I know. Never been around a crush or even a friend in real life.

    Since I deal with major anxiety and am shy, I'm guessing I'd probably lean more towards the shy and passive?
    Besides, I literally don't know a thing about flirting, so I couldn't do so even if I tried. And I'm a terrible conversation starter and conversationalist.

    Lol, Grade A material right here. :grin:
     
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    Same here. But I think I kind of know how now... And it is extremely flirtatious.
     
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    I totally relax around her, so I'm like I am with my family. I have a warped sense of humour, and I love to shit stir and tease so I can be loud lol. But I also find I'm very protective of her and I love to hear her voice, so i can be quiet too. She likes to talk things out, and I love being there for her.
    So..both? But when we are out in another town and I don't have to act straight, I don't lol. Gay me can be loud, especially when I'm in a good mood and I'm always happy when I'm with her. :grin:
     
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    Mocking and full of sarcasm.
     
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    I am a serial flirter. I do it without even knowing. i like to think I'm just a warm person, but apparently I'm coming across as a ho. Oh well, what are you going to do about it?
     
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    If anything, I like to show that I'm a fun person so I try to be more talkative, less awkward and a little flirty if I sense the other person is interested.
     
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    I'm really talkative (seriously I never shut up) and usually tell really bad jokes but I often stumble over my sentences due to nerves and anxiety and usually end up angry at myself for seemingly messing it up (even if the conversation went well) due to a massive inferiority complex that I have so I'm not sure how to vote to be honest
     
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    Not exactly flirty, but I am kinda outspoken, I suppose.
     
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    I'm extremely talkative anyway, so definitely the first one :slight_smile:
     
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    It's funny, I'm extremely flirty with everyone I know well enough except for the people I am attracted too. I cringe so hard when I think about how shy and awkward I am around people I like. They all probably think I either have problems or I just don't like them very much.
     
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    Im shy in person so Id say I would choose shy.
     
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    Actually, I can disguise such feelings easily and talk to them like any other person. You get that power after years of hopeless crushing on your straight best friend.
     
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    IMO, I don't feel I'm doing myself much good if I'm being shy.
    I'm not shy and have flirted with complete strangers.
     
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    I don't have many crushes, but I will say that I am both shy and talkative depending on their personality or who's around me. Buuuuuut, I'm more talkative in any case - especially online.
     
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    I've only spoken to my crush once (back when I had a crush on him). It was for barely a minute. I stuttered and stared for half of it and was shy for the other half. I'm sure he thought I was a weirdo. :0
     
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    A nervous wreck because I turn regular conversation into a chess game, trying to see the consequences of things to say and having to maintain the flow while doing it. I'm sort of glad I am in a relationship at the moment and don't feel that kind of pressure XD.
     
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    I'm shy/flirty/dreamy when I talk to my crush.
     
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    I'm just weird. I recite random facts and try and look clever (my form of flirting as I have nothing else to show off).