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First kiss with a friend

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PrettyPurple, Dec 6, 2015.

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Do you think it's a good idea to have your first kiss with just a friend?

  1. Good idea

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  2. Bad idea

    8 vote(s)
    19.5%

  3. It depends

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  1. PrettyPurple

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    I was a bit bored and started looking for I don't even know what online and I came across this discussion some people had about having your first kiss with someone who is just a friend, and it's and interesting topic so I wanted to know your opinions about it :slight_smile:
     
    #1 PrettyPurple, Dec 6, 2015
  2. blueshadedsoul

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    I guess it's okay if both people are into it? I personally wouldn't do it if I didn't have romantic feelings for the person though, or was at least attracted to them.
     
    #2 blueshadedsoul, Dec 6, 2015
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    everyone says "it depends"
     
    #3 VideoGAYmer, Dec 6, 2015
  4. PrettyPurple

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    I've seen a lot of people being like "NO ABSOLUTELY NO NEVER EVER" also, so that's why there are three options
     
    #4 PrettyPurple, Dec 6, 2015
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    my first kiss and well i didn't kiss any boy after that was with my BFF tucker
    he is 100% straight but i did go for it and we were young it was fast though
     
    #5 joshy the queen, Dec 6, 2015
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    Bad idea.

    If one of you regrets it afterwards the friendship is going to be very awkward.
     
    #6 timo, Dec 6, 2015
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    Or worse, if one of you develops feelings and the other doesn't. Which seems to be pretty common if this forum is anything to go by.
     
    #7 RawringSnake, Dec 6, 2015
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    Finally some sensibilities!
     
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    My first kiss was with someone who was initially my friend and then my first girlfriend; so I think so!

    But I wouldn't have kissed anyone who was just a friend.
     
    #9 MissMook, Dec 6, 2015
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    My first gay kiss was with a friend/acquaintance it worked out fine and we ended up dating for 6 months. Then again, it can totally ruin the relationship (especially if they're straight!)
     
    #10 guitar, Dec 6, 2015
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    Mine was with my best friend at the time, who I dated for about three years. I mean, I guess it depends on context. But I will be upfront and say that even though we dated, I didn't actually open mouth kiss anyone until I got with my boyfriend last year.
     
    #11 thepandaboss, Dec 6, 2015
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    Good answers. Basically what I was trying to reply with. My first kiss was with someone from school that I knew but wasn't close friends with. It ended with a lot of awkwardness in the few days following. Unfortunately we ended up becoming more distant. I think we were scared one would tell and in our small town two boys kissing was a no no.We were teens at that point so the backlash would have been a nightmare.
     
    #12 Wukie, Dec 6, 2015
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    Having had my first kiss with some random dude (which was really BAD, nothing pleasant) after having waited for so long, i'd say i would rather had had it with a friend. At least if it goescwrong you can laugh about it.
     
    #13 Taeny, Dec 6, 2015
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    It was enjoyable. Both of us were nervous but we didn't stop so it was good, yes?
     
    #14 Manix, Dec 7, 2015
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    Oh yes, that would be even worse indeed. Why did I forget about that.
     
    #15 timo, Dec 7, 2015
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    My first real kiss was with my good friend. We both enjoyed it and kissed/experimented a lot more that night haha. So if you're both up for it then sure why not?
     
    #16 Opztradz, Dec 7, 2015
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