New Year's Resolutions, anyone?

I guess New Year Resolutions are good excuses to glorify some goals and work towards them ( or simply ignore them )
My resolutions are:
I want to be happier this year.
Try and be healthier, loose some weight.

 

Nope, I'm capable of attempting positive change at any point in the year.

 

In the interest of achievable goals my resolutions this year are going to be to start smoking and gain some weight.

 

I have only one goal. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I'm healthy meaning that there aren't many options. So my only goal is that I want to kiss my girlfriend.

 

Stop binge eating and reach a healthy weight
Tell my parents about my sexuality
Focus on my studies to get 4 C's or above at AS
Get a girlfriend?
Be happy

 

Just to be happy tbh.
I have spent so long being unhappy and depressed, I truly can't remember the last time I was happy.
Hopefully moving to Shanghai this month will allow to me to start new and live life like I want to live it.

 

I might come out and star fuckin and getting tuck by a bunch of guys at once.: lol: just kiddi

---------- Post added 8th Dec 2015 at 01:28 PM ----------

Kidding

 

Actually i think new years resolutions are silly. Especially if you already forgot them a few days after. You should always work towards your goals not just because a new year comes around. But i guess if it helps people to actually find something to work towards to it's not all that silly and actually pretty useful.

So my resolution wil lprobably be to get over my fears and to be more outgoing and relaxed especially around strangers. (though i won't wait for new year to come around for me to work on that)

 

I wanted to write to stay alive for another year, but probably my new year resolution will come before the new year, and it would be to have an awesome new year's eve.

New year's resolutions are useless, and people know this but do it 'cause of the fun, same as with the Xmas postcards. I used to have those, but I finally got serious and gave up. I agree you can try to make a resolution through the whole damned year, but it won't make any difference at the end : You either want to do something or you don't.

 

I made my resolution last week - a month early! Going to the gym three times a week. It's a commitment to myself and to my health. And I told my facebook friends, a support group I attend, and my doctor, so I have a lot of people to help me stay accountable. In the end, though, the only person who can really hold me accountable is me.

 

Cliché, but since starting my job 2 years ago I've gained about 10 lbs I want to lose early next year.

I also want to travel more and potentially buy a house in the summer. So working longer hours this year is certainly in the cards.

 

I've made resolutions in the past, mostly because people would keep asking me in high school. It was generally to get straight A's, do better in band or try to stay organized. All of which I was trying to do needless of my resolutions.
This year, though? I have a few that I REALLY want go focus on.
1. Getting in better shape- walking more and lifting weights. Also trying to not weigh myself any more that once a week and adding in more veggies and fruits.
2. Learn dance moves so I can perform better while I am on stage doing drag.
3. Getting in touch with a gender therapist to get the process rolling on my transition.

 

My new Year resolution is to save money, by every week I will put money into a place at home for the entire year. How it works: 52 weeks in a year right, some people start of by putting $1 first week, second week $2 so on, Since December I would have to $49 for week 49, week 50 $50, I will go backwards and put $52 in the first week of January. How does that sound? I hope to maintain that for the year and report on it.

 

My New Years resolution this year is "again" to be in better shape. Exercise more, eating less candy and un-healthy food and sleeping early. Its been my "3 year resolution". This year though its gonna be different. I must at least start someplace because my self esteem and personal confidence is falling rapidly, from school to social and even doing hobbies and activities I love doing just no longer interest me due to my sheer size. So this year, I am definitely gonna start "actually" walking the talk. Should be fun and really rewarding in the end...hopefully lol.

 

The usual be healthier! Reality I hope me going back to school works good. Time to get moving again after some sad and bad years. Spinning wheels hasn't moved me forward. Time to go on in life!

 

don't die

















Onto my other priorities:
#2: Come out to family. All of them, uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins
#3: Start transtioning. There's a decent chance I won't be on T in 2016 (maybe a very, very slim chance near the end, like November or December), but I can still buy a binder and get a haircut
#4: Nothing gender related... I should really start learning how to drive by next year though. The last time I ever drove a car was 3 months ago in an abandoned parking lot, not that much practice

 

•Spend 10-15 minutes a day at least learning the guitar.
•Practice singing as often as possible
•Don't scrap all lyrics I wrote
•Become more confident
•Work on art
•Do things out of my comfort zone- socially
•Work harder in school, and stop putting off long term assignments

 

Having failed multiple times with my New Year resolutions. I find it better to make improvements on my own terms instead of waiting for a new year to change me life.

Haha, my motto for life.

 

my new years resolution this year is to NOT make any resolutions.