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do you prefer your men masculine or feminine?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by sleepykitty, Dec 9, 2015.

  1. sleepykitty

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    i prefer my guys masculine because, well, im a ... bottom:icon_bigg
     
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    I feel like I can be pretty into both...
     
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    Androgynous or masculine guys. Feminine guys aren't for me
     
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    Platonically: I prefer more masculine men.

    Romantically: I prefer more feminine men.
     
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    I like masculine guys, cause opposites attract and what not I guess.
     
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    I don't mind feminine men. Masculine boys are very much a preference though cause I be a bottom bitch!!
     
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    I prefer them hot. I mostly don't care how feminine or masculine they are so long as they are hot, although swinging too hard in either direction (whether hyper-masculine or extremely feminine) is a turn-off.
     
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    This is essentially my opinion. I think I might have more exception for extremely feminine men than hyper-masculine, however. I just... Have a very hard time tolerating hyper-masculine.
     
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    I prefer androgynous or masculine guys as well. Not just because I'm submissive. But because. Okay that's a big part of it. I consider myself androgynous and not feminine.
     
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    Both, preference for more feminine.
     
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    On the very shallow side of things, I am more sexually attracted to masculine men. But for a relationship, I want someone who's balanced. A masculine man who is sensitive and in-touch with his feminine side. I definitely don't want one of those guys that are insecure with their masculinity and try to avoid doing anything that makes them look slightly feminine. Huge turn-off.
     
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    I prefer nerds. No idea what that's supposed to mean gender-wise.
     
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    I prefer androgynous, though I don't ever see myself with one because I like to be the one that takes the more feminine role.
     
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    Don't judge me!
     
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    I think they are both great and would love to date either kind. >_<;
    Everyone is their own, so as long as they accept me I dont really care~
     
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    I prefer masculine men.
     
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    Either? Any? However people feel most comfortable?
     
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    I could go for either.
     
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    Umm I never actually gave it a thought until now :wink:
    I guess I don't have such a preference.
    I like balanced guys :slight_smile:
     
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    I guess I just don't really think about people in those terms all that much. It's been sort of curious to me how much people on this board really do. I like someone who is comfortable with themselves and not afraid. My gut reaction is that I like masculine guys but to me there is nothing more "masculine" than being confident and unafraid. If you can't do certain things or go certain places or express certain feelings because you're afraid you will look feminine or afraid you will look gay then my gut reaction is "man up, dude."

    So I guess my answer, would be masculine, but in my experience a lot of the guys who are the most hung up on being masculine are really just little boys at heart and not masculine at all.