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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tim, Jan 26, 2009.

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What are you attracted to?

  1. Guys in General

    44 vote(s)
    57.9%
  2. Masculinity

    12 vote(s)
    15.8%
  3. Girls in General

    17 vote(s)
    22.4%
  4. Femininity

    3 vote(s)
    3.9%
  1. Tim

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    After a topic in chat came up, I'm starting to wonder: (Poll)

    Gay Guys:

    Are you attracted to guys in general, or Masculinity? What I mean by Masculinity is: if there was a very "butchy" girl, would you consider dating her?

    Gay Girls:

    Are you attracted to girls period, or femininity? As I said, if there was a very girly guy, would you consider dating him?


    It came up after I realized that if there was a very masculine girl, I probably would consider going out with her, if she wanted. (Naturally, meaning she was a Tomboy :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)
     
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    I said girls in general. Masculine girls aren't so much my type, but I'd prefer to be with a masculine girl than a feminine guy.
     
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    I am attracted to more feminine women, but like above, I would rather date a masculine woman than a man, or a transgender male. Even the most feminine of men have a male brain!!!
     
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    if it's to look at, then guys in general
    if its to date and stuff, slightly femmey guys are my bag :slight_smile:
     
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    Hard to put this into words...

    I like guys as a general rule, but I don't like the hyper-femme stereotype. Hand flips, makeup of any kind, tight pants, lispy and whiny voices, fashion and Britney...not my thing at all. But neutral guys, not leaning really far towards either side, I'm fine with.
     
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    I like masculine guys. Ones that like sports and works out etc. I am not much into guys that are feminine.
     
  7. JurrBurr

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    I like guys in general.
     
  8. Ben

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    I'm attracted to guys. Such as I can be attracted to feminine guys and I am not attracted to masculine women. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm attracted to guys, and the more masculine the better.
     
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    its hard to say. i think girly guys are cute. but im not attracted to any men anymore.
    but i like my ladies a bit on the tomboy side.
    or not completely into like shopping and make up and the latest gossip >_<
     
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    true that...
    we were just talking in chat and I decided no feminine guys for me...
     
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    I'm attracted to femininity. I love being a female and I want to be with a female that loves being a female. I don't date girls who dress or act like guys. As far as guys go, a little androgeny is always good. <3
     
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    I am attracted to guys Period.
     
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    I prefer a feminine girl, but I'm not attracted to men at all, no matter how feminine they were.
     
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    When I first noticed that I preferred the more masculine guys, I wondered whether I could be attracted to a really masculine girl. So, I tried to find one. No luck. Although. . . there was that one kid, and none of us could tell if it was a guy or a girl. Very androgynous. Pretty cute, though.
     
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    I like girls, in general.
    I like feminine girls, masculine girls, androgynous girls, whatever, but they have to have the right attitude and personality.
     
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    Guys in general. I'd say masculinity because I do often get attracted to the hetero boys BUT the one girl I've found to consistently turn me on is a short BEAUTIFUL blonde.
     
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    I like girls. That's about it. I do prefer butch or andro girls over femme girls, especially super femme girls. I don't like make up... I do occasionally think the odd guy (by odd I mean the rare guy, not a crazy guy, lol) who from the back can be mistaken for a girl... Probably because at first I think they are, =p.
     
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    i put guys in general. I don't find masculine girls attractive. In guys i like 'pretty boys' (as a female friend of mine put it lol). So i don't like overtly masculine guys- eg really muscly and hairy. I like them to be a bit feminine, and pretty rather than handsome i guess you could say.

    Equally tho i get really annoyed by over the top camp hehe
     
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    I like guys in general, and I prefer feminine looking guys not muscle heads, as for personality ill go for masculine or feminine