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Should I wait?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Grof142007, Jun 10, 2007.

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Should i Wait?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Grof142007

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    OK My Family Basically is Crashing. My Dad Got Drunk Lost his License and his Job. Since he lost he job he has no income. So he couldnt pay for the car payment. So we lost our car. Now he pretty much sure we going to get evicted from the house. So were are starting to pack things up and going to move back with out other relatives.

    I want to tell my parents That I'm Gay But im not sure if it the Correct time seeing they have enough thing already going on. Im not sure Please give me some advice
     
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    I think you should wait until things calm down a bit. Sounds like your parents are having an extremely difficult time right now and you want them to have the best possible reaction and that is difficult to do when they are stressed out.
     
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    Yeah, I would wait untill things get settle down and life start to moving bit.

    You shouldn't bite more than you can chew...well, your family and you are chewing more than you guys usually chew, so don't bite anymore untill their mouth become empty....

    Hmm...Did I make any point??:confused:
     
  4. Grof142007

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    Yea you did
     
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    Would you psychologically be okay with waiting?
     
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    Wait... Let everything settle back into some form of a normal groove, then tell them. Given everything else that's going on, telling them now can't end well.
     
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    As things are going on in your family now, I would advise you to wait. Let your parents put down those weight on their shoulders down first. If you put more weight on them right now I'm not sure they will be able to handle it.