Okay so i don't really know how this site works i just found it on someones youtube channel, but i guess i am just looking for people to help me find a way to come out to my guardians. My guardians are my grandparents because of family issues but i don't exactly know how to tell them that i am a ftm. They accept me as being Lesbian. i told them in 8th grade that i was and they didn't have a problem with it. They let me dress as i please and are lenient. I've told my aunt and cousin that i am trans and they totally accept me for who i am but i'm not sure about my grandparents. I mean i guess i never will be sure until i tell them but i know when i come out i will lose my brother because he has asked me if i have thought about being a boy before and told me i should just be a boy because i already dress, act, and wear mens cologne and deodorant and when i didn't answer his question as to if i have thought of being a boy before, his reaction was " what the f**k do i have a little brother instead of a little sister? thats gross" and i kinda just shut down. So i don't want my grandparents to react like that. I have typed out a letter and i have many many links, and lists of why i think i am trans but i just cant seem to find the right way to tell them. any advice???
