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littledinosaurs · 27th Jan 2009, 02:56 PM

Would you marry someone(that you really loved) if the sex was bad. This means that its not that you haven't gotten used to each other just purely that sex with them is just terrible.
We talked about it in math class and we decided that we wouldn't so i wanted to see what people here would do.

HeronsStorm · 27th Jan 2009, 02:57 PM

Err... I'm not sure I could do it. If the person could be TAUGHT, that would be a different story... A girl has her needs you know, even if I'm too young to be thinking about that. I'm looking out for my future self.

Dazed · 27th Jan 2009, 02:58 PM

if i was in love with them, yes i would. sex isnt everything. and when your too old to do it anymore im sure what a person would really want is someone to talk with and spend time with. who cares if sex sucks. love is way better.

littledinosaurs · 27th Jan 2009, 02:59 PM

Its not a fixable problem (So they can't be taught)

Adam · 27th Jan 2009, 02:59 PM

I would think it would depend on the person, a relationship is more then just sex...

HeronsStorm · 27th Jan 2009, 03:05 PM

Well, that sure stinks. I suppose if the person was great enough. I blame the hormones

sdc91 · 27th Jan 2009, 03:08 PM

If it was a great relationship without sex... isn't that like friends?

Brandford · 27th Jan 2009, 03:13 PM

Definantly

27th Jan 2009, 04:42 PM

Um... Absolutely. I don't see why not. The sex part of the relationship doesn't last forever anyways, assuming your marriage will last. And if I was getting married, I'd plan on it lasting.

Swamp56 · 27th Jan 2009, 04:47 PM

I definitely would.

kaster · 27th Jan 2009, 04:59 PM

if I loved them yeah! there are other ways to cum, you're lucky if you find true love once, take it.

Behling · 27th Jan 2009, 05:01 PM

I wouldn't. In relationships if there is no sexual chemistry or bad chemistry odds are it won't work out

littledinosaurs · 27th Jan 2009, 05:07 PM

I am honestly shocked about the amount of people who said yes.
i think they are silly

Davey · 27th Jan 2009, 05:07 PM

Sex has nothing to do with Love.

Gumtree · 27th Jan 2009, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Behling

I wouldn't. In relationships if there is no sexual chemistry or bad chemistry odds are it won't work out

Amen brutha ^^

**Maddy** · 27th Jan 2009, 05:25 PM

Sure. Love and affection are way more important to me. I'll take a loving non-sexual relationship over a sexual one with no love any day of the week.

biisme · 27th Jan 2009, 05:31 PM

Hmmm....I guess we'd just have to work on it. Practice makes perfect.

Jerr · 27th Jan 2009, 05:53 PM

If I really loved someone and the sex was still bad by time we were ready to get married... I'd have to say no.

Tim · 27th Jan 2009, 05:55 PM

Yes, Sex isn't important compared to love, as others have said.

George · 27th Jan 2009, 06:59 PM

I probably wouldn't. Sexual tension can ruin a relationship.

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27th Jan 2009, 02:56 PM	#1
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Bad Sex Would you marry someone(that you really loved) if the sex was bad. This means that its not that you haven't gotten used to each other just purely that sex with them is just terrible. We talked about it in math class and we decided that we wouldn't so i wanted to see what people here would do. __________________ Âllo Là

27th Jan 2009, 02:57 PM	#2
HeronsStorm Well Known Regular Member Gender: FTM? Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Three people Location: Sunshine State Age: 18 Posts: 132 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Bad Sex Err... I'm not sure I could do it. If the person could be TAUGHT, that would be a different story... A girl has her needs you know, even if I'm too young to be thinking about that. I'm looking out for my future self. __________________ "I think I know enough of hate To say that for destruction ice Is also great And would suffice" -Robert Frost

27th Jan 2009, 02:58 PM	#3
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Bad Sex if i was in love with them, yes i would. sex isnt everything. and when your too old to do it anymore im sure what a person would really want is someone to talk with and spend time with. who cares if sex sucks. love is way better.

27th Jan 2009, 02:59 PM	#4
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Bad Sex Its not a fixable problem (So they can't be taught) __________________ Âllo Là

27th Jan 2009, 02:59 PM	#5
Adam EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 539 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Bad Sex I would think it would depend on the person, a relationship is more then just sex...

27th Jan 2009, 03:05 PM	#6
HeronsStorm Well Known Regular Member Gender: FTM? Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Three people Location: Sunshine State Age: 18 Posts: 132 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Bad Sex Well, that sure stinks. I suppose if the person was great enough. I blame the hormones __________________ "I think I know enough of hate To say that for destruction ice Is also great And would suffice" -Robert Frost

27th Jan 2009, 03:08 PM	#7
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Bad Sex If it was a great relationship without sex... isn't that like friends?

27th Jan 2009, 03:13 PM	#8
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Bad Sex Definantly __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

27th Jan 2009, 04:42 PM	#9
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Bad Sex Um... Absolutely. I don't see why not. The sex part of the relationship doesn't last forever anyways, assuming your marriage will last. And if I was getting married, I'd plan on it lasting.

27th Jan 2009, 04:47 PM	#10
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Bad Sex I definitely would. __________________

27th Jan 2009, 04:59 PM	#11
kaster Slogan slag <3 Full Member Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 267 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Bad Sex if I loved them yeah! there are other ways to cum, you're lucky if you find true love once, take it. __________________ This is how it works, you're young until you're not, you love until you don't, you try until you can't. You laugh until you cry, you cry until you laugh and everone must breathe until their dying breath.

27th Jan 2009, 05:01 PM	#12
Behling ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Illinois, just outside of Chicago Age: 19 Posts: 1,898 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Bad Sex I wouldn't. In relationships if there is no sexual chemistry or bad chemistry odds are it won't work out __________________ "Your words are infectious Your eyes leave me breathless I think it's safe to say You're deadly in your own way"

27th Jan 2009, 05:07 PM	#13
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Bad Sex I am honestly shocked about the amount of people who said yes. i think they are silly __________________ Âllo Là

27th Jan 2009, 05:07 PM	#14
Davey Here Then There! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Upper Sandusky, Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 954 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Bad Sex Sex has nothing to do with Love. __________________ I've found true love. Davey+Bryan November 17, 2008

27th Jan 2009, 05:55 PM	#19
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Bad Sex Yes, Sex isn't important compared to love, as others have said. __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

27th Jan 2009, 05:25 PM	#16
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,702 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Bad Sex Sure. Love and affection are way more important to me. I'll take a loving non-sexual relationship over a sexual one with no love any day of the week. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

27th Jan 2009, 05:31 PM	#17
biisme Call me Katie Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Bad Sex Hmmm....I guess we'd just have to work on it. Practice makes perfect. __________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know.

27th Jan 2009, 05:53 PM	#18
Jerr Pirate! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: If I have to say, I, my friends, am homogay. Out Status: All but family Location: Hot Springs, Arkansas Age: 22 Posts: 2,149 Join Date: Jan 2007	Re: Bad Sex If I really loved someone and the sex was still bad by time we were ready to get married... I'd have to say no. __________________ My Koolaid's Flavor is Fierce! Fierce Koolaid is filled with Vitamin Gangster! That's right. I'm gangster. I'm so gangster I practically sweat Awesome.

27th Jan 2009, 06:59 PM	#20
George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Bad Sex I probably wouldn't. Sexual tension can ruin a relationship.