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Bisexuals! Preference for a gender or 50/50?

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  1. Laura27

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    Bisexuality is such a big spectrum of attraction. It can be a big blend of mixes.

    I am quite attracted to women, somewhat attracted to men. But still, attraction to two genders so bisexual. I would say 5 on the kinsey scale. One of my best friends also identifies as a bisexual. She leans much more towards men and less towards women, the opposite from me: 2 on the kinsey scale. Of course attraction is not measurable like that, but I'm using the scale to be able to give some sort of indication.

    How about you?
     
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    Sexuality is so complex. I label myself as lesbian but I am minorly attracted to males. I have no sexual attraction at all to males, and the thought of me having sex with a guy almost disgusts me...but I've had real male crushes before. I'm more likely to fall in love with women though. So in terms of romantic interest- 3-4, and sexual- 6. Overall I'm a 5z
     
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    I'm very picky on which guys I think are attractive but girls I'm a lot less picky
     
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    I'm more into girls (I say I am a trans women but jury is still out on that one) but men are fun too.
     
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    I mean, I'm technically bisexual, but my sexuality is "quite gay" for a reason...
     
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    This question seems to come up a lot. Hmmm. Wouldn't that depend on the situation, the person you're attracted to, and the timing?

    I'm only starting to figure out how I'm wired, but I consistently have a strong preference for my husband. My gaze goes both ways, depending on many factors. Right now, I'm suuuuper attracted to women, but I think that's because, as I've mentioned, this attraction is new to me. I love fully my husband. I can see myself loving a woman the same way... but not right now. In a parallel life, absolutely. So, I'd say I'm more 100/100.

    And, when it comes to love and attraction, might we have more than 100% to work with?
     
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    I'm more into men. In fact, if i was worried about being more pratical, i think i could label myself as gay most of the time. I think about men more frequently, and i'm a bit lazy about women.

    However, i am atracted to the female body too, and i would be lying if i said otherwise.

    It varies, really. Somedays i'm feeling 50/50, others, 80/20. But, meh...

    I think i would consider myself a Kinsey 4.5 or 5. But i'm pretty sure i'm not 6.
     
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    Pretty close to 50/50, with changes depending on the cycle.
     
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    I'm feeling way more into women right now, but I feel like it's very changeable. I have had random days where I flip over, and generally I was more into guys when I was a bit younger. I would say I'm feeling a kinsey 4 though sometimes I feel a 3 and in the past I thought I was more of a 2.
     
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    I would say 50/50 for me. The attraction for me has been the mind and aura of the person themselves not what's between the legs
     
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    When I first realized I was bisexual I thought it was pretty much 50/50, but since then I've just been progressively leaning more towards girls. I'd say I'm about 5.5/6 romanticaly, & 3.5 sexually.
     
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    I'm sexually attracted to both genders but only really romantically attracted to boys so maybe 4/4.5 for me.
     
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    I've noticed I lean more to the same-sex than opposite-sex.
     
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    I'm romantically attracted to both genders but it's difficult for me to tell which gender is more prominent in that regard. I've had more crushes on boys but the ones I have on girls tend to be much deeper. I'm almost exclusively sexually attracted to females. Last time I tried the Klein sexuality test I got a 4.5 (predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual).
     
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    I tend to prefer boys. Though girls can get my fire going as well. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It's rarely past 35-75 in either direction, but while physically attracted to both, romantically inclined towards males.
     
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    Pretty much squat in the middle.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Preference for girls :slight_smile:
     
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    Almost 50/50. I'm a little picky with being romantically attracted to guys.
     
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    I like women a bit more. Like 65-35 (or something like that).

    But I'm still not quite sure. Maybe it'll change.
     
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