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| PFLAG Mom Community Liaison ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007 | I have been connecting with alot of my old high school classmates as well as old friends on facebook. I was wondering how many of your parents are on facebook? Does it bother you that your parents are on such a popular website where they can check out all your "stuff"? lol I've found that alot of the kids are encouraging their parents to join especially young adults so they can easily share photos and videos.
__________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks |
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| J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008 | Mine aren't i prefer that they stay off it, and if they joined i would not friend them and block them from seeing anything about me on facebook in general.
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| W/E Omg Im Single And Im Loving It~ Regular Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My 2 BFFs! ^.^ Location: Montreal Age: 19 Posts: 1,360 Join Date: Jun 2008 | My mom has a profile~!~! I don't really mind it though~ We are like best friends and I don't really have anything to hide~!~!
__________________ Msn conversation with my sister~! Me: Why is your school giving you a ped day so close to Winter break~? Sister: Because they are stupied~! Me: LOL~! I love how you spelled "stupid" wrong~! |
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| Member Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: everyone now!!!!! Location: North Carolina Age: 21 Posts: 86 Join Date: Jan 2009 | my mom is my friend i just have her blocked from pretty much everything and i told her the system is messed up or something. |
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| Toasty Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to two friends Location: Massachusetts Age: 20 Posts: 286 Join Date: Jan 2009 | My mom has a facebook, though my sister and I refuse to friend her, which she understands. She actually is friends with a long lost friend of hers on facebook, but other than that she has never really done anything on the site, especially not looked at my photos and such.
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| ColbieMarie Full Member ![]() Gender: GIRL Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Mom, brother and close friends Location: Flagstaff, AZ Age: 23 Posts: 975 Join Date: Jan 2009 | I'm about 90% against parents on facebook. Especially my mom and her friends. I'm friends with some of her friends (who happen to be my friends' parents). My mom won't get one. |
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| Eccentric Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm just not out to distant relatives Location: Newark, Delaware Age: 25 Posts: 507 Join Date: Jan 2009 | My Bio mom and adoptive father have one. It kind of made me feel uncomfortable like, I can't be myself but I've gotten over it. |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 539 Join Date: Oct 2008 | My mom has one, I wont friend her though on it yet, ha. |
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| My mother's considering signing up to keep in touch with an online support group she's in. My dad's not interested, but a few of my aunts and uncles are on it.
__________________ ![]() how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt. | |
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| Call me Katie Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007 | Mine aren't on, and I'm happy about it. Facebook and EC are where I'm actually me. I don't want to mix things. Plus, I swear online, and not in real life. I have problems online and "not in real life." It's less complicated this way.
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| This space for lease. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008 | My mom has a profile on myface or spacebook or what ever it is called. I don't know. I'm an old fart when it comes to the Internet (I've been on it since 92), so I don't get this whole social networking thing. I prefer to keep up with my friends by talking to them in person, and the phone with that is not possible. People keep asking me for my facebook page. It almost seems like that is the new phone number. As for Parents on social networking sites. I don't care. They are grown adults and it is their computer, so they can visit whatever sites they want.
__________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson |
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| PFLAG Mom Community Liaison ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007 | My kids were kind of horrified when I got a MySpace but they dealt with it. lol Of course they were younger then. Then I got a facebook and I guess we got past the stage of them really being afraid of being in trouble anymore. Actually my youngest is the only one that ever did anything wrong (drinking and partying lol). I always told her what was okay and not okay (drinking and driving!) and then we were fine and she was okay with me knowing everything she was doing and who she was doing it with. So me seeing her facebook is not a problem. I can totally understand how you guys wouldn't want your parents seeing your facebook if you are not out yet. That could be a serious problem. However from a mother's perspective, facebook can be a way to keep you out of trouble too. ![]()
__________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks |
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Georgia Age: 21 Posts: 197 Join Date: Oct 2007 | My dad's on facebook, but my mom's mostly computer illiterate, so no worries about her joining up. I can't say that it bothers me too much that my dad's on, as we hardly ever interact online. Except for when he started uploading all those pictures. The one's I'd rather no one knew about. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Winnipeg, MB, Canada Age: 26 Posts: 541 Join Date: Oct 2007 | My parents aren't on facebook but I don't think I'd have a problem with it. A few of my aunts are on it. The way I see it, if I had anything to hide, facebook is the last place I'll be announcing it. My friends are pretty good about using the private messaging where appropriate. |
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| EC's Resident DJ Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008 | My mom has a myspace, but no facebook and she hasn't tried to friend my me or my sister because she understands that it would be weird. My dad is too old school to have a social networking page even though he works with computers for his job, go figure.
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| Slogan slag <3 Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 267 Join Date: Dec 2008 | I want my mum to get facebook so I can talk to her more and she can see pictures of what Im up to now I've moved away.. But she wont get one cause she thinks its creepy :P My friends mum has one and he doesnt like it cause though he doesnt mind her seeing what he's up to that much all of his friends (including me) are friends with her too cause she's quite cool. AND the guy he's seeing now just added her too so she's updated with all the pictures of them together aswell and I think he finds that a bit weird...
__________________ This is how it works, you're young until you're not, you love until you don't, you try until you can't. You laugh until you cry, you cry until you laugh and everone must breathe until their dying breath. ![]() |
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| Psycho Glitter B*tch Full Member ![]() Gender: Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008 | I can't stand facebook. Myspace is where it's at :P My mom, and the 2 people I consider 2nd moms have myspaces, all on my friends list XD Mom doesn't use hers often though... the other 2 are prob. in my most active friends :P And it doesn't bug me, other than the fact I can't say something to my friends without them finding out.
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008 | Omg, mum got facebook and sent me a friend request that said "Now we can be online friends too darling! xoxoxoxox" I was like omg CRINGE!!! So embarrassing. She's pretty 'with it' in terms of technology and is better at computer stuff than me (and I'm not technologically illiterate, whatsoever...) It's kinda convenient - she sees all my photos, it's a lot easier than having to physically sit down with her and show her, and this way she feels a lot more involved in my life. I also have my grandparents, uncles, aunts and even my aunt's cousins and parents on facebook. Funny moment - my status at one stage was "f***ing hates Christmas" and my grandma and grandpa told me that they were very disappointed by my language and worried about where society was going !
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| DFTBA Full Member ![]() Gender: Somewhere between female and I don't know Out Status: Open, not out. Location: Northern California, United States Age: 18 Posts: 2,380 Join Date: Jul 2008 | I'm fine with parents having Facebook, as long as they're cool (like Becky). I would not add my mom (and deffinaly NOT my father) if they had one. Thank God my mother is such a n00b at internet that she thought it was utube.com...
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| EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member ![]() Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007 | My mom actually had a facebook before I did! I don't mind, technically because she was there first, but it still makes me wince when I find a wall message saying "TIDY YOUR ROOM!" ![]()
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