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Are you a top, bottom or vers?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by scxred, Jan 31, 2016.

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What is your sexual position?

  1. Top

    10 vote(s)
    16.1%

  2. Bottom

    19 vote(s)
    30.6%

  3. Versatile

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    53.2%
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  1. scxred

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    What sexual position do you round up to being?
     
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    Whatever you want me to be.
     
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    Now there's a team player answer :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    WoW. Talk about being direct.
    No beating 'round the bush, eh. (no pun intended :wink:)

    And no, I'm asexual :grin:
     
    #5 mychemromance99, Jan 31, 2016
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    No idea
     
    #6 Vav, Jan 31, 2016
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    Technically versatile since I'm fine with either topping or bottoming and have done both at one time or another - sometimes extensively.

    However, since I don't fine anal sex to be all that pleasurable in comparison to other activities, I don't generally engage in it or have any great desire to engage in it in practice. So, would that count as 'none of the above'?

    Todd
     
    #7 AKTodd, Jan 31, 2016
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    maybe vers!?... i dont know i never had a sex with a guy. but yeah whatever makes you happy.
     
    #8 joshvolby, Jan 31, 2016
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    Top verse.
     
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    I'd probably be versatile, but because of my downstairs, I don't know :/

    Plus, it's not like I had the chance to try anything yet :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Total bottom.
     
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    Haven't tried any, but I'd consider myself more top than bottom. I'm open to trying anything though. :slight_smile:
     
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    Haven't tried since I'm only 15. I would consider myself bottom.
     
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    I'd say that I prefer being bottom, I would like the feeling of being dominated. :grin: <3
     
    #14 Natasha Elyssa, Jan 31, 2016
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    Im a top but i dont like these labels. I have never and would never bottom... However, i hate the assumption that i can't be with another dude who also considers himself a top. It's not like im gonna pressure somebody into being the bottom, since i prefer top, as if it's some kind of dominance contest. We dont even have to do said activity at all.

    Also, i agree with some of the above posters that anal is overrated. Still cool though.
     
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    THIS THIS THIS!!!:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap

    I'm a virgin tho. But still, I'm sure two tops can work it out, same goes for two bottoms. Finding a special someone is hard enough as it is, no need to make it harder by adding ''top/bottom looking for bottom/top''.

    Answering the actual question I guess I feel like a top but I can't say that I would never bottom just like I can't say that I would never eat chocolate pizza.
     
    #17 ImHappy247, Jan 31, 2016
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    I've never had sex, so I suppose my answer is completely invalid, but I can never see myself as anything other than a "top" whether with a woman or man. Despite the fact that I've never been "manly", there's something especially masculine about being the "active" partner in a sexual relationship and this is how I picture myself.
     
    #18 Libertino, Jan 31, 2016
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    Not a gay man, but It's disheartening to see so many people equate being top with a dominant act and bottom with a submissive act, which is very rigid and not true at all.

    Someone could get penetrated, but they could still spank you, choke/strangle you, claw your back, finger your ass, call you names, and direct orders....I don't think I would consider such a person submissive, even when in the bottom position.
     
    #19 Creativemind, Jan 31, 2016
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    Hm bottom as in submissive.

    But yeah true, I suppose.
     
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