There is this guy i know at college. I don't know if he is gay or not and he doesn't know i am. He is very very attractive. Also incredibly shy. He doesn't have many friends on facebook (less than 100). He doesn't have girls all over his facebook page, and doesn't have any hot girls as friends. He has never EVER talked about girls with me before. Usually straight guys will rant about women alot. He has a few selfies with his mom and his moms friends on facebook. Anyway, he likes to pal around with me. One time we were standing there talking and i noticed another guy was staring at me. I said "why is he staring at me", and he said "He probably likes you..... don't let him touch your butt". Another time he came up to me and said "heyyyy" i didn't hear him so i said "I didn't hear you" and he said "I said heyyy..." He also has a tendency to stare at my mouth when he is talking to me and stare at my chest. I have seen him come right up to me and stare at my upper body. He will make eye contact when talking and slowly move his eyes to my mouth. A girl that knows me and him doesn't like him and said he was a "bitch" and "not very manly". what do you all think? once he said he thought i was "different" in a joking way. I said jokingly "ARE YOU THREATENING ME?" and he said "yes". I told a mutual friend that i hoped he did well and didnt get into drugs and stuff and the mutual friend said "I would have said leather bars!" ---------- Post added 1st Feb 2016 at 05:50 AM ---------- i'll refer to him as "nicky". once a friend came up to me and said "we are going to see this movie tonight. Nicky wants you to come". I went and Nicky sat next to me. It was a platonic hangout but i remember how good he smelled and that his bangs were gelled up in the front. He "cleaned up" for it a bit.
Better question: Does the guy like himself? Because if he doesn't, he certainly isn't going to be able to like you.
I offered him a peice of candy once and he said "no.. I don't wanna get fat". and I was playing xbox live with him online and he told me that his microphone kept touching his lips and was going into his mouth. It sounded like he liked that. ha! Sometimes he would have this huge grin when he was coming up to talked to me. And once i overheard him ask other people if i had went home yet...