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Why do gay guys avoid me?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by wannahavechange, Feb 1, 2016.

  1. wannahavechange

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    Hello my adorable little potatoes

    So I'll just skip to it then I suppose.

    I keep thinking in my head maybe I need to priss it up a bit...
    I don't think I'm uber masculine. I balance both of my "motherly" and "fatherly" traits pretty well. But I do curse like a sailor, love dbz/soul eater over some magical girl stuff... I watched a time bit of Tokyo mewmew and I didn't like it.. btwsies madoka magica fan here.. sayaka all the way . I like seeing people get their craps knocked in for fun ( closeted mma spectator XD) I use the word dude a lot when talking to friends...

    Then when I tell people I'm gay and their are other gay guys around and we both know we're gay. I feel like I'm being avoided because I might sound like a straight acting gay guy which I've been accused of being by some people. Idk it's just my personality. I'm pretty open about my sexuality and tend to be a huge perv when drooling over handsome boys. Do I need to flame it up a little to be more approachable. Even some of my gay friends told me they thought I was straight at first and even after finding out I was gay, they thought I was a top..
    I just want to get your guys opinions on this.(!)(!)(!)
     
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    Dont change the way you act because of your sexuality. But if it makes u feel any better, the style of your post suggests you are probably a lot more "gay acting" than you give yourself credit for.
     
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    For real, man. Not all gay dudes have to act a certain way. I'm chewing tobacco and watching sportscenter right now, listening to metallica. Guess i dont "fit in", which yeah makes it more difficult sometimes. But im still okay with myself.... and not gonna change just to meet somebody else's expectations. If anything, your straight-acting quality will probably make you more appealing to a lot of gay dudes. Works for me.
     
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    XD thank you. Perhaps I just need to travel a bit more and meet new types of people. If you eat pasta every night, you might get tired of it. (!)(!)(!)
     
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    I forbid you from changing your ways, ok? xP

    I mean, if every gay guy started to act more feminine ''because they have to'', I wouldn't have anybody left to date :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    But seriously, be you. It doesn't matter if people say you're ''straight acting''. There's no such thing anyway.
     
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    You brought up Tokyo mew mew and I was about to say I would avoid you just for that, however then you mentioned you liked madoka so all is forgiven
     
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    I'll be honest: I have no fucking idea what this means:
    That said, I will say that my nonscientific survey of people shows that the more inclined a guy is to use emoticons, the more "gay" (i.e. "girly) he is.
     
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    Go emojis then XD