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What do you think is sexy and not sexy?

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  1. H20

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    Personally I'm a fan of accents, but if we get to the nitty gritty, a great sense of humor of any kind is sexy on anybody or unique laughs. Physically - curly hair or bright eyes of any color. Personality: charisma & openness.

    Not sexy: I'm pretty down for almost anything usually, but seriously, I don't get animal print clothes. I like animals, but I don't think humans, male or female, can pull of other animal prints, at least very rarely have I witness someone who actually looked good in animal print. But this is my personal opinion.
     
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    sexy: well trimmed facial hairs (mustache, beard, sideburns) and pubes. sweet smile and nice teeth.

    not sexy: BODY ODOR!
     
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    I think a lot of it comes down to them as a person, so I thought of:

    Sexy: A great sense of humour, intelligent in their own way (not necessarily conventionally 'smart'), kind, a great smile

    Not sexy: Being an openly rude and disrespectful person. Stuff along those lines.

    I mean for looks it really depends and hugely varies. Usually it'll boil down to aspects of the personality to some extent.
     
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    I often find androgynous people very sexy. I also like long dark hair, small hands and feet, leg hair and big noses very much for some reason. And short people. They also shoud laugh at my jokes in order to be sexy.

    Arrogant attitude is not sexy at all. Mostly sexiness and non-sexiness comes from the inside anyway. The image of an anonymous sexy person keeps changing in my mind all the time anyway.
     
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    The sexiest trait in a human being, for me personally, is high intelligence combined with a good sence of humor and an open mind. I don't really care much about someones physique, as long someone is well groomed and at a healthy weight.

    I really don't get along with very naive and conservative/religious people, so that's a huge turn off for me.
     
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    Sexy: Me
    Not sexy: You

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    Ow, my feels :frowning2:

    There are a lot of things I find sexy, but I'll echo the person above who mentioned accents :slight_smile:

    Not sexy: Body Odur, extreme arrogance/narcissism.
     
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    My list is pretty similar to everyone elses.

    Sexy: intelligence, sense of humor, doesn't take themselves too seriously...some accents, being able to play a musical instrument well, confidence

    Not Sexy: mean or condescending to others, particularly if it's someone who can't fight back, snobbiness, excessively self-absorbed

    Also agree with OP on the animal prints. I just don't get what people see in them.
     
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    Sexy: Confidence
    Not sexy: Arrogance

    Fine line between the two, but there is such a line and I've encountered it before.
     
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    Sexy: a great mind, able to express emotions, not afraid to make the first move, some athletic ability
    Not sexy: Arrogance, belittling someone or bullying (legitimately my best pet peeve in this world)
     
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    sexy:big strong protective guys also i find it so sexy when guys get jealous abs are YUMMY!!
    not sexy: ignorance facial hair
     
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    Sexy: a lot of things
    Not sexy: guys who have the hair cut called man buns.
     
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    Sexy: Sense of humor, nice legs (strong), a nicely maintained beard, a Scottish accent

    Unsexy: poor hygiene, make-up, bodies that are shaved or trimmed, cruelty
     
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    Sexy: girls who work out enough to properly kick someone's ass.

    Not Sexy: self-loathing and constant self-deprecation.
     
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    Hey, give narcissists a chance, some of us are just better than others and cant help being honest... its not entirely an ego thing
     
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    Sexy: Someone who expresses their emotions, confidence, passion... Physical appearance doesn't mean much to me personally, as long as they are healthy and more hygienic.

    Not sexy: Disrespect, arrogance, rudeness, and large amounts of self-hate
     
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    Dirty talk is the most un-sexy thing you can do in the bedroom. Makes my (insert euphemism here) go back inside me. Yuk.
     
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    Sexy: Being unapologetically yourself
    Not sexy: Apathetic people.
     
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    Without sounding cliche, ill just go out and say that I like taller people, preferably chubby. I think people with chubby bodies are absolutely adorable. There's something about that satisfying feeling of warm, squishy body that just really gets me goin. Also, my turn off would have to be anyone cisgender and straight. If you're cis and gay/lesbian/etc, that's fine, Just keep em straight white cissies away from me ty
     
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    What I think is sexy....
    Anyone who can say they're sexy is sexy af to me. Honestly what turns me on is a man who can be weird x 100000 and not give a crap who watches or sees them.
    I also love agressiveness in men.... gentleman in the streets but a a huge dominating freak in the streets. XD