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Personality traits that turn you off from dating someone?

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  1. Spiderstalker

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    So, we all know stage 1 is when you check out someone you like or feel attracted to and you hook up with that person, let's say you have your first conventional or unconventional random date with that person, you obviously at first are appealed by the ''looks'' and you like her/him physically but what specific traits might turn you off from that person from continuing doing your moves:

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    -Arrogance
    -chat reveals uncommon interests
    -weird behaviors on social net
    -Friends surrounding her/him
    -attitute/overconfident or lack there of

    what turns you off from seeing that person as a potential something (personality wise)?
     
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    1. If they smoke, or have close relatives/friends who smoke
    2. If they do drugs
    3. If they are alcoholic
    4. If they are prejudice (believing all X are Z, because they are X)
    5. Want to hold hands/kiss/sex before am I ready and repetitively ask
    6. If I find it hard to have a conversation with them
    7. If they expect me to put all the work into the relationship
     
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    1- Smoking/doing drugs/drinking a lot
    2- Religious
    3- Judges people a lot
    4- Too clingy
    5- Too emotional
    6- Can't take a joke
    7- Opposites on the political spectrum/too much clashing values
    8- I consider them too stupid (can't hold a conversation/too ignorant/unwilling to learn)

    That's all I can think of right now. I generally am attracted to people who show a lot of confidence in themselves and are passionate about what they love.

    The above traits would probably make dating with them impossible or very unhealthy.
     
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    -judgemental/narrow-minded
    -arrogant
    -inconsiderate
    -can't hold a conversation with them
    -flirty with other people (just no)
    -overly talkative
    -poor personal hygiene
    -no common interests/completely opposite personality wise
    -feeling like they're not putting as much effort in me as I am in them

    hmmmm yeah that's all I can think of right now.
     
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    Someone who doesn't have any hobbies
     
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    Smoking cigarettes
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    Arrogance
    Flirting with other people....just... Just..just don't
    Bad hygiene
    Complete oppostites
    Too self deprecating/ self loathing
    Extraness
    Narrow minded/ ignorant
    And that's about it.
     
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  7. sunshine360

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    - Arrogant
    - Judgmental
    - Overly shallow
    - Little intelligence
    - Very religious
    - Poor hygiene
    - Rude
    - Entitled

    I have more but those are all I can come up with.
     
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    -Oversensitive

    -Too much arrogant

    -Poor hygiene

    -No manners

    -Opposite ideology

    -Defeatist
     
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    ( I like how most of you guys are straight edge X )

    1.Drugs

    2.Smoking

    3.Alcohol

    4.Pushy

    5. Can't admit when the're wrong.

    6. Is constantly on social media websites.
     
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    ~ Arrogant people who think....no, are absolutely convinced they know everything about everything when it's obvious they actually know jack shit.

    ~ Uncaring, selfish people.

    ~ Smelly people. I mean, how much does a bar of soap cost?

    ~ those who dislike someone so they try to rally others to their cause to fall out with them aswell. You know the sort.
     
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    Arrogant, constantly late, no sense of humor, overly sensitive, Republican, smoking/drugs, too critical, doesn't seem to have friends
     
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    Damn! I'm surprised! Some of them seem obvious, but others...:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    *Judgemental
    *Rude
    *Selfish
    *Inability to say shit the way is it. In general I like people who are blunt.
    *Inability to admit they are wrong
    *Constant pity parties
     
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    A lot of the above apply to me as well, but one thing that really puts me off is if they are boring. Nothing worse than someone that doesn't have anything interesting or intelligent to say.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Too Serious
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    Corny/Super Cheesy .. but sometimes that can be adorable.
    Arrogance
    Blatant Rudeness
    Pessimism
     
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    -Arrogance
    -Homophobia/biphobia/etc.
    -Judgmental
    -Poor hygiene
    -Entitled
    - If they can't talk on a sophisticated level. If I were to talk about politics and they brush it off by saying "oh i'm not really into that sort of thing."
    -Complete opposites.
    - If they come on to me too strong. Example: saying they want to be my partner after talking for a week.
    -Religious
    -If they flirt with everyone they talk to.
    - Too clingy/emotional
    - If they can't keep a conversation going

    I know it seems like a lot but as a Virgo I'm kind of picky
     
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    -Too pushy
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    -Too "macho"
    -Too religious
    -Bossy/ "do everything my way"
    -Overuses drugs/alcohol

    I highly doubt anybody without any of these would be gay and interested in me however, it's simply improbable. Some are easier to ignore than others.
     
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    -Prejudice
    -Dominance
    -Controlling behaviour
    -Being overly emotional

    ---------- Post added 8th Feb 2016 at 10:14 AM ----------

    When you read through these and most of them describe you... oops :wink:
     
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    Exactly this! Ha, I'm a Virgo too
     
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  19. Cinis

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    people that think they are superior to me or that simply assume i must be attracted to them upon first meeting them.
     
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    Wishy-washy personality.
    Too passive.
    Unsure of themselves.
     
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