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Ever since i came out as gay

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RyKat, Feb 7, 2016.

  1. RyKat

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    Ever since I came out I've had a lot of guys come out to me as curious/bi/gay

    Ever since I came out my social media sights have become more popular

    Ever since I came out I've felt so much more discrimination and hate

    Ever since I came out I've made a lot of new friends as well as had some drop me

    Ever since I came out its been easier to stop drugging because there's less weight to carry

    Ever since I came out life has been easier but at the same time harder...


    Comments???
     
  2. lyonhaart

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    Jealous, honestly, I envy a lot of people, but at the same time, I'm proud. I've already seen so many people on this site that have been open about their sexuality/gender than I have in my entire life (though I'm only 15 so that's nothing to be surprised about). I'm jealous because I feel like I'll never have the satisfaction of being able to come out to people. Parents are unsupportive, friends (not really friends, mostly people I just know) are ignorant, siblings are assholes, etc. My story aside, be sure to keep the supportive people close, they're gonna be there for you for the entire ride.
     
  3. RyKat

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    If you think this is a lot of people wait until you discover PrideFest xD
     
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    Ohhhh boy.. Time to open up Google
     
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    RyKat it's great that you're finding it easier to stop drugging! Those friends that dropped you weren't the type of people you'd want in your life anyway. I get what you mean about easier and harder. I'm not fully out but I can see a whole new set of problems that weren't there before. Really though they aren't as bad as the alternative of not being true to yourself.


    lyonharrt you won't feel that way forever. One day you will be able to come out- in your own time. You will find people who aren't so ignorant and then you will have the satisfaction of coming out.