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Is sexual attraction really that universal?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Vav, Feb 16, 2016.

  1. Vav

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    What I mean by sexual attraction is looking at one person and knowing you want to have sex with them without questioning it. I feel that pretty rarely, but I still know who I want to date. I know plenty of straight people who feel attraction like me. I just notice people expect me to feel sexually attracted to girls and point them out, so I can prove myself.
     
  2. Jellal

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    No, I don't believe just anyone can decide "would fuck" or "wouldn't fuck" at a glance.

    For one thing, some of us are indecisive, yknow?
     
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    I'd say it's not universal: probably not everybody in the world experiences this.
    But for those that experience it, it is universal in terms of the same effect it has.

    I know that I experience this. I'm very lustful and ashamedly admit that I'm a big sucker for looks.
     
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    I don't think there's any one way that people experience attraction. Some people are more visually stimulated, others are attracted more by personality traits, smells, voices, mannerisms, whatever.

    Sometimes I can't even identify what makes a person I'm attracted to attractive.