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Are you competitive with your crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Vav, Feb 27, 2016.

  1. Vav

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    I'm pretty competitive with my crush for some strange reason. I always try to think of reasons why I'm "better" than my crush. This pretty much ruins any chance I have with my crush. My crush has a girlfriend anyways. I tried to approach when they were single, but I'm way too awkward. I know I have no chance with them. I'm pretty sure they never liked me. I'm too much of an awkward nerd.
     
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    Oh, wow. I'm like the opposite. I always think of all the ways they are better than me.
     
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    I do that as well. Afterwards I think of some stupid reason I'm better than them.
     
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    I'm very competitive with my crush, maybe because we're both nerds and we compete about something or the other all the time.
    Like coding, or math.

    In the end he accepts that I'm better, so yeah :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I feel like I deserve better but I feel like crap when I'm next to him :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm usually observing how wonderful she is and trying to fix some parts of me to live up to being someone worth her time... not really competing just like pathetically chasing.
     
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    I never think 'I am better than them/they are better than me', I just admire the fuck out of them, lol.
     
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    I definitely try to be better than them :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I will work and try to have better grades than them.

    However, I love when they have something I can't ever beat them in. Something like music, for example. I love passionate people :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Competitive, no, but I sometimes think I'd do what they're doing in a completely different, better way...
     
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    I am so competitive with my crush, since we both play basketball. I know she is better than me - because of her experience - but that doesn't stop me from trying to beat her in any way I can. I am always comparing myself to her.
     
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    I don't have a crush.
     
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    Im very competitive, its mostly just me showing of saying I'm top set in a certain subject and how I got 98% in a test. But he then he might retaliate with how he's top.set in English and.I'm only set 2.

    Mentally: I am just better, no argument, just better.
    Physically: I admit that I am REALLY weak.
    Overall: im better:thumbsup:

    Im not trying to show off, Im doing it subconsciously.
     
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    Fellow awkward nerd here!

    And yeah, I know what you mean. Perhaps it's something we do in order to cope with the person we're into being unattainable.