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**Helen** · 14th Feb 2009, 08:16 AM

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...cle2233878.ece

Thoughts?

Personally, I think some people need to pay a hell of a lot more attention in PSHE lessons >.<

**Rosina** · 14th Feb 2009, 08:19 AM

Hmm, I can understand the boy, he wouldn't know much, but the girl would, without a doubt >___<

What is the UK coming to?

-Michael- · 14th Feb 2009, 08:20 AM

I was amazed, or more disgusted of the girl having sex with the boy...

He's a young teenages boy... in others clueless...

she was 15 when she had sex with him...SHE should know better

**Helen** · 14th Feb 2009, 08:21 AM

Oh definitely. I mean, I have no idea what possessed them to do this >.<

It was the boy's first time as well...

BeautifulStranger · 14th Feb 2009, 08:22 AM

Helenz!
Stop telling everyone about us! >.<;;

But seriously... He looks like he's 8 and his lady looks like she's 18.

AS1989 · 14th Feb 2009, 08:23 AM

I think parents need to learn how to control their children...they are way to young to have a child in my eyes.

Shaylyn · 14th Feb 2009, 08:25 AM

That's ridiculous. His voice hasn't even broken yet? I mean...come on now.

I can't believe their parents are taking it so well.

jazzrawr · 14th Feb 2009, 08:30 AM

My god, he looks so young...

That's crazy. She looks like, 20.
Poor kid. He's not going to be able to do much with his life after this, with a kid.

DexterMorgan · 14th Feb 2009, 08:37 AM

This is crazy!! The dad looks like he could be about 7/8.

They named her Maisie Roxane? The mom loves The Police!

Remington · 14th Feb 2009, 08:41 AM

I think this is creepy.

**Lexington** · 14th Feb 2009, 08:56 AM

There's something mindboggling about the fact that someone might not be present at the birth of his son, because he's grounded.

Lex

Kat22 · 14th Feb 2009, 09:27 AM

I believe this is, without a doubt, the perfect time to consider adoption. There is no way that these CHILDREN will be able to successfully raise this child. Their baby will be in school before he graduates high school. Did anyone watch the video? The boy would not even be a good big brother, let alone a father. If they really love that child and want the best for it, they would give the baby to parents who are emotionally and monetarily ready to have a child.

pirateninja · 14th Feb 2009, 09:34 AM

Bloody hell. That's just... bizarre.

I feel sorry for the boy though. He seems too naive to understand the responsibility. I guess it's at least something that he wants to help in raising the kid than just running away though.

Dazed · 14th Feb 2009, 09:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lexington

There's something mindboggling about the fact that someone might not be present at the birth of his son, because he's grounded.

Lex

haha.

im just shocked that at 12 he got her preggers.
O_O like wow.

**Ben** · 14th Feb 2009, 09:39 AM

It's odd to think my when the baby is 16 the father won't even be 30...
I really hope the baby gets a proper upbringing.

14th Feb 2009, 09:51 AM

I think I've stopped caring. He's not the first and he certainly won't be the last. I think I might spend my time looking into new types of chav birth control. Is there a cure for stupidity yet?

ccdd · 14th Feb 2009, 09:52 AM

I'm just surprised that he was physically capable of fathering children - his voice hasn't broken yet apparently, and the child was fathered last year.

Absentminded · 14th Feb 2009, 11:11 AM

I find it to be a shame. The boy has just taken a good portion of his life, where anyone else his age will be experimenting, and discovering life itself, and thrown it out the window. There's no way that they're going to be able to parent that child, with no jobs, and with parents who already seem to have the possibility of financial strain (mostly on her side, from what I can gather). I just don't believe it's right to be a parent that young. I have a friend who became a mother at 14, and it makes me so sad.

Miles D · 14th Feb 2009, 11:21 AM

I'm sorry, but REALLY?! that baby had sex?! Literally, he isn't even a teenager, he's a baby himself!!
WTF.
I hope they all end up okay, especially the baby. Those two dumb-nuts and the people that raised them should not be raising that baby.

Cheese Love · 14th Feb 2009, 12:16 PM

There's another story about it:
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...cle2238252.ece

14th Feb 2009, 08:16 AM	#1
Helen Empty Closets Mod EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: York, United Kingdom Age: 19 Posts: 2,102 Join Date: Mar 2008	Boy becomes father at 13 http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...cle2233878.ece Thoughts? Personally, I think some people need to pay a hell of a lot more attention in PSHE lessons >.< __________________ I want a window where I can see a tree, or even water... (....and the lesbians)

14th Feb 2009, 08:19 AM	#2
Rosina An Abnormal Default EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: As out as the next straight kid Location: Surrey, UK Age: 19 Posts: 4,102 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 Hmm, I can understand the boy, he wouldn't know much, but the girl would, without a doubt >___< What is the UK coming to? __________________ Hang in there, because things have always and will always change - It Gets Better Rebecca Drysdale

14th Feb 2009, 08:20 AM	#3
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I was amazed, or more disgusted of the girl having sex with the boy... He's a young teenages boy... in others clueless... she was 15 when she had sex with him...SHE should know better

14th Feb 2009, 08:21 AM	#4
Helen Empty Closets Mod EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: York, United Kingdom Age: 19 Posts: 2,102 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 Oh definitely. I mean, I have no idea what possessed them to do this >.< It was the boy's first time as well... __________________ I want a window where I can see a tree, or even water... (....and the lesbians)

14th Feb 2009, 08:22 AM	#5
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 Helenz! Stop telling everyone about us! >.<;; But seriously... He looks like he's 8 and his lady looks like she's 18. __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

14th Feb 2009, 08:23 AM	#6
AS1989 Hit/Pass Thread Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: West Islip, New York Age: 22 Posts: 574 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I think parents need to learn how to control their children...they are way to young to have a child in my eyes. __________________ A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. - Herm Albright I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. - Michel de Montaigne

14th Feb 2009, 08:25 AM	#7
Shaylyn Lemurs, Man, Lemurs. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: I roll how I roll. Out Status: Family & some friends. Location: Connecticut Age: 20 Posts: 113 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 That's ridiculous. His voice hasn't even broken yet? I mean...come on now. I can't believe their parents are taking it so well. __________________ I don't think I want to spend another night with you, Feeling the way you leave me to.

14th Feb 2009, 08:30 AM	#8
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 My god, he looks so young... That's crazy. She looks like, 20. Poor kid. He's not going to be able to do much with his life after this, with a kid. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

14th Feb 2009, 08:37 AM	#9
DexterMorgan The Lonely Stoner Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Santa Monica, CA, USA Age: 18 Posts: 657 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 This is crazy!! The dad looks like he could be about 7/8. They named her Maisie Roxane? The mom loves The Police! __________________ Closets are for clothes; not me.

14th Feb 2009, 08:41 AM	#10
Remington [Insert Witty Title Here] Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: NY Posts: 105 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I think this is creepy.

14th Feb 2009, 08:56 AM	#11
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 There's something mindboggling about the fact that someone might not be present at the birth of his son, because he's grounded. Lex

14th Feb 2009, 09:27 AM	#12
Kat22 My Life is Hype, My Love is Hype Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Very much femmie...but very much Lezzie!! Out Status: Ask and I won't lie! Location: USA Age: 24 Posts: 249 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I believe this is, without a doubt, the perfect time to consider adoption. There is no way that these CHILDREN will be able to successfully raise this child. Their baby will be in school before he graduates high school. Did anyone watch the video? The boy would not even be a good big brother, let alone a father. If they really love that child and want the best for it, they would give the baby to parents who are emotionally and monetarily ready to have a child. __________________ Kat I'm old enough to know... but young enough not to say no...

14th Feb 2009, 09:34 AM	#13
pirateninja EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 Bloody hell. That's just... bizarre. I feel sorry for the boy though. He seems too naive to understand the responsibility. I guess it's at least something that he wants to help in raising the kid than just running away though. __________________ Holly the Pirateninja Ars Longa, Vita Brevis.

14th Feb 2009, 09:39 AM	#15
Ben Was Invisible. EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 It's odd to think my when the baby is 16 the father won't even be 30... I really hope the baby gets a proper upbringing.

14th Feb 2009, 09:51 AM	#16
cjtom Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I think I've stopped caring. He's not the first and he certainly won't be the last. I think I might spend my time looking into new types of chav birth control. Is there a cure for stupidity yet?

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14th Feb 2009, 09:52 AM	#17
ccdd Procrastination Queen Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: 30(ish) friends, but mostly closeted. Out to mum Location: UK Posts: 1,009 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I'm just surprised that he was physically capable of fathering children - his voice hasn't broken yet apparently, and the child was fathered last year.

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Absentminded EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: I'm a ladies kind of guy ;) Out Status: I flirt in public. Take a guess ;) Location: Vermont Age: 19 Posts: 546 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I find it to be a shame. The boy has just taken a good portion of his life, where anyone else his age will be experimenting, and discovering life itself, and thrown it out the window. There's no way that they're going to be able to parent that child, with no jobs, and with parents who already seem to have the possibility of financial strain (mostly on her side, from what I can gather). I just don't believe it's right to be a parent that young. I have a friend who became a mother at 14, and it makes me so sad.

14th Feb 2009, 11:21 AM	#19
Miles D Rude... and not ginger. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: everyone Location: San Diego, CA ⇒ Great Barrington, MA Age: 20 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 I'm sorry, but REALLY?! that baby had sex?! Literally, he isn't even a teenager, he's a baby himself!! WTF. I hope they all end up okay, especially the baby. Those two dumb-nuts and the people that raised them should not be raising that baby. __________________ Bowties are cool. Fezzes are cool.

14th Feb 2009, 12:16 PM	#20
Cheese Love EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Totally out, except for extended family Location: Minnesota Age: 20 Posts: 314 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Boy becomes father at 13 There's another story about it: http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...cle2238252.ece