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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Justinian20, Mar 1, 2016.

  1. Justinian20

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    My Mom doesn't know who I am, she basically questioned why I bought pink undies and said you must want to be a girl. I'm just like what the, it's just a colour and also in my head I said, so what I have a feminine expression is there any problem with this and if she realized this is me becoming even more comfortable with my sexuality.

    Anyone have a parent like this.
     
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    So over the pink is for girls, blue is for boys thing. I assume they are men's undies?. So, what's the big deal? You picked a colour that you like.
    So my blue knickers mean I want to be a male?...
     
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    I have a friend who wears pink underwear in my gym class and no one gives him shit about it.
     
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    Not really. I don't own anything pink as my main colors are blue, black, grey, and green.
     
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    Yeah, my dad rolls his eyes at most of my clothes. There was a huge argument about this baby pink tshirt I bought, it was just a plain pink tshirt, he was like, "You wear black tshirts, what's with the pink, are you a girl?!".

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    Just to irritate him, I said that I'm gonna dye my hair pink after my exams, :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Both of my parents make fun of my clothes.
     
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    I used to just stare at them (parents) and say, "Either this or I walk around naked." Luckily my mom has finally come around to some trends and now gets skinny jeans and neon shirts.
     
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    When I was younger I thought it would be cool to start shopping in the boys department. I don't remember why but when I started doing that, my family basically wasn't sure what the hell was going on. I've always been kind of a tomboy so I didn't think this should have been a surprise to them.......? But I guess I was wrong. I suppose they've gotten used to it now since my go to outfits for anything is just jeans, tshirt, sneakers and hoodie. Idk. i think I toned it down a bit so they wouldn't give me shit for dressing like a guy??????????
     
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    That's too bad. Have you tried making a serious argument? Maybe ask your parents to sit down, and tell them not comment on your clothing. And be damn serious. I do this sometimes.
     
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    I've actually tried that but then they just go back to it the next day, but it's just annoying they keep doing it. I tell myself though that I'm just being myself and I'm not going to change at all.
     
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    That's all that matters (*hug*)
     
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    It's all new to her give her time to adjust and tell her you just got a bit of a feminine side and that comes with you being gay it's not a big deal! Be proud of who you are
     
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    I know my dad keeps making annoying comments if I just crack my knuckles or my shoulder or when I'm not as ladylike as he might want me to, for example if I'm upset and say a cussword.
    I get what you mean, it's pretty annoying when behaviour or preferences isn't accepted by and mocked by your parents
     
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    Yes... And even though I'm 27 she still gets her zingers in. Like my new hair cut is gay... It came as a shock when I told her good because I was to lol. She is sweet and loves me, she makes mistakes. Don't let it knock you back. And don't put wall up between if you can avoid it. :slight_smile:
     
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    I would've just dyed my hair in rainbow just to see how they react. They can either prefer the top or bottom. It's not like anyone's gonna see em.
     
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    Lol this is something my mom would do or say to me. Sometimes I think does she even know who I am... Yup, I can relate to your story.
     
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    I just realized I don't own anything pink..... Yet lol
     
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    Omg I wear ties sometimes and my mum starts going on abou me trying to look like a "man girl" or "your dyke look" or "are you planning on becoming one of those manly women who go around looking for other women". The last one upset me so much a made awhole thread about it. Does it all the time though. Even when I'm not wearing a tie. Polo and denim jeans "what a dyke look". I say I wanna buy more shirts "some day you need to start being a lady". Shut the fuck up!