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-Michael- · 14th Feb 2009, 06:02 PM

Mine was wicked, 2am, my boyfriend has just gone home.

He actually begged me for sexytime, I refused.

I feel minging, he threw up and I still kissed him. :')

How was your day then?

Swamp56 · 14th Feb 2009, 06:44 PM

I
f**king
hate
this
holiday

My friend killed himself a year ago on this date, not to mention I have to think about the fact that I don't have a boyfriend or any sort of relationship, and probably never will.

I hate this stupid holiday.

Emberstone · 14th Feb 2009, 07:30 PM

I might care about this holiday when I have someone to spend it with.

all I had was the oregon 150th birthday celebration today. the capital was full of fat people who came hearing about free cake, hotdogs, and ice creams. oh god, nothing makes me cholstrophbic like being jammed in a confined space with 2000 people.

then radio disney was there, and they had these girls with microphones dancing... and it was like "YOUR 12, DONT GYRATE YOUR HIPS LIKE THAT!"

Mickey · 14th Feb 2009, 07:33 PM

I bought my mom flowers! Not because I don't have anyone,it's that she doesn't.
So,I'm her valentine and that's fine with her!

Emberstone · 14th Feb 2009, 07:39 PM

Next year might be different. if I can get a more steady job, I can afford to be social and dateable.

Jeimuzu · 14th Feb 2009, 07:44 PM

Eurgh. Just, eurgh. Valentines can kiss my backside.

RaRa · 14th Feb 2009, 08:34 PM

I actually had plans for valentines for the first time, but they were postponed. -_-

But i'm still not gonna let that get in my way of having fun on valetines, I got my mom flowers and a necklace and my dad a watch, and I made them reservations at a resteraunt. They're actually out right now.

True, it helps if you have someone to share it with, but I find being single on valentines isn't a reason for you to not enjoy the holiday. I learned that this time.

14th Feb 2009, 09:44 PM

My mom gave me candy so I consider it a success =]

TEres321 · 14th Feb 2009, 09:49 PM

i did stuff with my mom and best friend- so it wasnt worthless.... but the holiday is pointless, i keep feeling the urge to yell. 'HAPPY LOVE-THEMED CORPORATE HOLIDAY EVERYONE!!!!!!!'

Courtneyyy · 14th Feb 2009, 09:49 PM

I helped build a house with Habitat for Humanity and the boss man hit on the whole day.

It was successful and awkward.

Bunny · 14th Feb 2009, 09:50 PM

Eh. Wasn't that bad.

At the very least, it fell on the weekend this year, so I didn't have to watch all the delusional teenage couples making out in the hallways at school.

...Plus I bought myself chocolate. Yes, I'm pathetic.

musican · 14th Feb 2009, 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lyingfigure

Eh. Wasn't that bad.

At the very least, it fell on the weekend this year, so I didn't have to watch all the delusional teenage couples making out in the hallways at school.

Not seeing the teenagers making lovey-dovey eyes and playing tonsil hockey was a major plus.

davo-man · 14th Feb 2009, 11:37 PM

I had fun

And yes, i'm single, but meh, I just made all my mates my Valentines

And plus, one of my mates had a cocktail night, so I got INSANELY drunk...In fact, I even drunkenly asked MANY guys to be my valentine...Im yet to hear back from a few of them hahaha...Might be because the msg read "hEY it's dave happy valentines! I'm VERY drunk wanna be my valentine wooo! so drunk hahah"

Ah, yes, so classy, Dave

elitechris · 14th Feb 2009, 11:40 PM

I did nothing.
But everyday we should love our friends and family!

**Martin** · 15th Feb 2009, 06:19 AM

I helped a mate shop for his girlfriend. He literally left it all to the last minute.

There is something really ghey about standing in a girls shopping looking for ear rings. It was funny seeing how uncomfortable he looked.

BeautifulStranger · 15th Feb 2009, 06:27 AM

I got wasted
Absolutely and totally wasted

I then spent the evening in EC Chat

I also attempted phonesex with my boyfriend in the army

-Michael- · 15th Feb 2009, 06:33 AM

xD for the people who did'nt have a 'date'
you don't need one.

Loads of my friends had a night in with each other.

2 of them had a romantic candle lit meal :')
then blew up condoms :')

riddlerno1 · 15th Feb 2009, 08:20 AM

well i was supposed to go to a masquerade ball thing but it got cancelled cos the others had stuff to do! So was quite depressing spending the night at home!

**Ben** · 15th Feb 2009, 08:29 AM

I got four hugs the day before, which kept me going through the day!
The day itself was alright, no Valentine's roses/cards/gifts this year but I'm not complaining. Maybe next year.

**EM68** · 15th Feb 2009, 09:06 AM

Did nothing. I called the guy I had been dating just to say hi. He was taking a friend of his out for dinner becasue it was their birthday. He was not there and he did not bother calling me back.

14th Feb 2009, 06:02 PM	#1
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Valentine's day Mine was wicked, 2am, my boyfriend has just gone home. He actually begged me for sexytime, I refused. I feel minging, he threw up and I still kissed him. :') How was your day then?

14th Feb 2009, 06:44 PM	#2
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Valentine's day I f**king hate this holiday My friend killed himself a year ago on this date, not to mention I have to think about the fact that I don't have a boyfriend or any sort of relationship, and probably never will. I hate this stupid holiday. __________________

14th Feb 2009, 07:30 PM	#3
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,585 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Valentine's day I might care about this holiday when I have someone to spend it with. all I had was the oregon 150th birthday celebration today. the capital was full of fat people who came hearing about free cake, hotdogs, and ice creams. oh god, nothing makes me cholstrophbic like being jammed in a confined space with 2000 people. then radio disney was there, and they had these girls with microphones dancing... and it was like "YOUR 12, DONT GYRATE YOUR HIPS LIKE THAT!"

14th Feb 2009, 07:33 PM	#4
Mickey Older and bolder! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Massachusetts Age: 50 Posts: 1,775 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Valentine's day I bought my mom flowers! Not because I don't have anyone,it's that she doesn't. So,I'm her valentine and that's fine with her! __________________ We don't choose to be gay...we're CHOSEN!

14th Feb 2009, 07:39 PM	#5
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,585 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Valentine's day Next year might be different. if I can get a more steady job, I can afford to be social and dateable.

14th Feb 2009, 07:44 PM	#6
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Valentine's day Eurgh. Just, eurgh. Valentines can kiss my backside. __________________

14th Feb 2009, 08:34 PM	#7
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Valentine's day I actually had plans for valentines for the first time, but they were postponed. -_- But i'm still not gonna let that get in my way of having fun on valetines, I got my mom flowers and a necklace and my dad a watch, and I made them reservations at a resteraunt. They're actually out right now. True, it helps if you have someone to share it with, but I find being single on valentines isn't a reason for you to not enjoy the holiday. I learned that this time. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again Last edited by RaRa; 14th Feb 2009 at 08:47 PM..

14th Feb 2009, 09:44 PM	#8
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Valentine's day My mom gave me candy so I consider it a success =]

14th Feb 2009, 09:49 PM	#9
TEres321 come open your folding chair :) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A Few Friends, mom Location: Lexington Age: 17 Posts: 101 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Valentine's day i did stuff with my mom and best friend- so it wasnt worthless.... but the holiday is pointless, i keep feeling the urge to yell. 'HAPPY LOVE-THEMED CORPORATE HOLIDAY EVERYONE!!!!!!!' __________________ Chromaggia Come take these eyes I would rather be blind

14th Feb 2009, 09:49 PM	#10
Courtneyyy ColbieMarie Full Member Gender: GIRL Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Mom, brother and close friends Location: Flagstaff, AZ Age: 23 Posts: 975 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Valentine's day I helped build a house with Habitat for Humanity and the boss man hit on the whole day. It was successful and awkward.

14th Feb 2009, 09:50 PM	#11
Bunny EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boys <3 Out Status: if they would only ask Location: Canada~ Age: 18 Posts: 430 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Valentine's day Eh. Wasn't that bad. At the very least, it fell on the weekend this year, so I didn't have to watch all the delusional teenage couples making out in the hallways at school. ...Plus I bought myself chocolate. Yes, I'm pathetic.

14th Feb 2009, 11:37 PM	#13
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: Valentine's day I had fun And yes, i'm single, but meh, I just made all my mates my Valentines And plus, one of my mates had a cocktail night, so I got INSANELY drunk...In fact, I even drunkenly asked MANY guys to be my valentine...Im yet to hear back from a few of them hahaha...Might be because the msg read "hEY it's dave happy valentines! I'm VERY drunk wanna be my valentine wooo! so drunk hahah" Ah, yes, so classy, Dave __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

14th Feb 2009, 11:40 PM	#14
elitechris i am who i am Full Member Gender: homme Orientation: homosexual Out Status: everyone Location: somewhere sunny, california Age: 18 Posts: 210 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Valentine's day I did nothing. But everyday we should love our friends and family! __________________ "The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts" - FoQ

15th Feb 2009, 06:19 AM	#15
Martin EC's Red Queen EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,046 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Valentine's day I helped a mate shop for his girlfriend. He literally left it all to the last minute. There is something really ghey about standing in a girls shopping looking for ear rings. It was funny seeing how uncomfortable he looked.

15th Feb 2009, 06:27 AM	#16
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Valentine's day I got wasted Absolutely and totally wasted I then spent the evening in EC Chat I also attempted phonesex with my boyfriend in the army __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

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15th Feb 2009, 06:33 AM	#17
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Valentine's day xD for the people who did'nt have a 'date' you don't need one. Loads of my friends had a night in with each other. 2 of them had a romantic candle lit meal :') then blew up condoms :')

15th Feb 2009, 08:20 AM	#18
riddlerno1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: London Age: 29 Posts: 712 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Valentine's day well i was supposed to go to a masquerade ball thing but it got cancelled cos the others had stuff to do! So was quite depressing spending the night at home!

15th Feb 2009, 08:29 AM	#19
Ben Was Invisible. EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Valentine's day I got four hugs the day before, which kept me going through the day! The day itself was alright, no Valentine's roses/cards/gifts this year but I'm not complaining. Maybe next year.

15th Feb 2009, 09:06 AM	#20
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Valentine's day Did nothing. I called the guy I had been dating just to say hi. He was taking a friend of his out for dinner becasue it was their birthday. He was not there and he did not bother calling me back. __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga