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Wishing siblings were gay?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kodo, Mar 2, 2016.

  1. Kodo

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    Has anyone ever wished that at least one of their siblings (if they have any) were gay? I catch myself thinking this all the time, while I observe my fellow younglings grow, and how I'd be the best damn brother if I had a gay sibling, what with all I've been through.

    Perhaps that is not a nice thing to wish on someone, with all the prejudice (particularly in my family). Though between you and me I tend to like LGBT people better anyway, haha.
     
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    I only have one sibling who's older, so I don't wish he was gay, but I do wonder if there's anyone else in my extended family who may be LGBT, or if there was anyone in my family who has passed away who was LGBT.
     
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    No, I just wish they'd shut up and stay out of my room.
    If you get my drift

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    No, I just wish they'd shut up and stay out of my room.
    If you get my drift

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    No, I just wish they'd shut up and stay out of my room.
    If you get my drift
     
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    Sometimes I wonder if my sister or one of little cousins is going to turn out to be queer or gender non-conforming, but I don't think I'd wish it.
     
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    I actually wish that either one or both or my brothers will be gay. I do not really know i used to think it was because my mum had a gay brother so i wanted one but it probably is not thay
     
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    Yeah then it would be easier to come out to our family together. Do twins usually have a different sexuality than each other? I know identical twins tend to have the same sexuality since they're closer together. I've seen a lot of identical twins both identifying as the same. Like both are either hetero, homo, or bisexual. But is there any research to prove this or why it happens? I know Katie and Emily Fitch on SKINS had different sexualities. Maybe they were fraternal and not identical????? IDK. I get that they're just characters and the people don't actually feel that way, however they're the only twins on television like that.
     
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    I don't have any sibilings.
     
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    Hell no. I wish my sister (only sibling) is straight so that she has an easier life.
     
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    See my youngest brother's gay and he's just as annoying as the straight one... though it is quite nice to have someone to exchange raised eyebrows with when my mum's being too heteronormative
     
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    Not really. My dad's side (him excluded) and my siblings are all liberal, and my sister and I have a lot of LGBT friends. If I have LGBT related issues, I talk to my fellow queer friends and i'm fine. To me, wishing my sibling was gay is like wishing a sibling was left handed. I get what you're getting at, your family would "have" to be more accepting if your parents had multiple gay children but that's even a given.