1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Do you see yourself having kids one day?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kodo, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. Kodo

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 27, 2015
    Messages:
    1,830
    Likes Received:
    849
    Location:
    California
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    To those who do not have children yet, do you see yourself having kids one day? How do you imagine or hope that to be?
     
  2. Wolfie0001

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 27, 2016
    Messages:
    60
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Völklingen, Germany
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Not really. I've never been comfortable around younget children, and I don't think I would be a good father.
     
  3. Libertino

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 31, 2016
    Messages:
    1,195
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    This Side of the Enlightenment
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Yes, some day I would like to have my own biological children. As the only male child of my parents, I do seem to have some desire to carry on the lineage, and I do see myself as making a good father some time down the road.
     
  4. LizSibling13

    LizSibling13 Guest

    Joined:
    Feb 6, 2016
    Messages:
    309
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    USA
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Yes....and my boyfriend can't wait til I become a biomom...with my own uterus and eggs... But that is 10 to 15 years away...
     
  5. imnotreallysure

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2013
    Messages:
    2,937
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Leeds, UK
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
  6. justin88

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2015
    Messages:
    2,118
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Southern Ontario, Canada
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    All but family
  7. blueshadedsoul

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 25, 2014
    Messages:
    299
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Portugal
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I can see myself having kids one day, but idk if I actually will, I guess it could go either way. If I were to have kids though I'd probably like to both adopt, and have my own biological children.
     
  8. Aberrance

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2016
    Messages:
    990
    Likes Received:
    136
    Location:
    England
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Not at all. Not my own anyway. I'd possibly consider adoption in the very far future if I somehow decided I wanted them but growing up in a very dysfunctional and disrupted family has put me off bringing any child of my own into the world.
     
    #8 Aberrance, Mar 5, 2016
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2016
  9. bookreader

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 27, 2014
    Messages:
    2,748
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Suburbs
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Hell no. I don't want kids. Just me, myself, and I. And the occasional fuck buddy. Or a boyfriend.
     
  10. Jellal

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2014
    Messages:
    1,359
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Florida
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Not a chance. I never wanted kids and I don't want them now. Hell, I don't even think "wanting" them would be a good enough excuse for me to have them. These are whole new lives we're talking about here ... I don't have the responsibility for something that crazy.
     
  11. Seahawksfan

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 25, 2016
    Messages:
    155
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    St. John's
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    No thank you kids Are fun but to much work for me lol
     
  12. QueerChair

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 17, 2016
    Messages:
    140
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Zealiando
    OH HEEEELLLLLL NO. I don't want kids, I'm fine with myself, 3,000 cats, and maybe a relationship at some point later on... let's be honest, that ain't happening, I WILL be forever alone.
     
    #12 QueerChair, Mar 5, 2016
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2016
  13. loveislove01

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2015
    Messages:
    872
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    Earth, probably
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I love kids. So I'd want them in the future, however, only if I can actually have the time to raise them, and if my job is settled in one place, because moving often is a really hard thing. I'd put my music career first, and if I feel like there's enough space in my life where I can also be a good parent without compromising anything, then yes.
     
  14. DemiLiHue

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2015
    Messages:
    299
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    Chile
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I guess someday. But I don't want kids. I'll have anyway cause I know I'll wanna have them when I grow older. But having kids sucks
     
    #14 DemiLiHue, Mar 5, 2016
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2016
  15. DreamerBoy17

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2014
    Messages:
    240
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    United States
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I don't really want kids. I have 3 younger siblings which has given me everything I need to know. It's such a big responsibility, and I don't want to live my life tethered down like that.

    Plus it would be difficult for me to even have a kid with a partner. I refuse to become pregnant, and I'm mainly into women. Besides that, our family has a plethora of health diseases and mental disorders I would never wish upon a child. So I've basically already accepted I'm not going to have a biological kid.
     
  16. AwesomGaytheist

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 19, 2013
    Messages:
    6,909
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Pittsburgh, PA
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Nopenopenopenopenopenope
     
  17. larkcarmen

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2015
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    southern usa
    Gender:
    Other
    Gender Pronoun:
    Other
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Maybe I'll adopt once I tire of freedom.
     
  18. Foz

    Foz Guest

    Joined:
    Mar 17, 2015
    Messages:
    979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    You Kay
    Gender:
    Male
    Maybe it's just the internet or young ages but I am always surprised to see that so few gay people want kids! For me it's an absolute life must, my life would literally be incomplete otherwise.
     
  19. LakanLunti

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2015
    Messages:
    110
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Philippines
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    YES please!
     
  20. thepandaboss

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 22, 2015
    Messages:
    2,436
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Oregon
    I've thought about it. After all, if I stick with (cis) male partners, it'd be pretty easy for us to have our own kids. It's just I probably wouldn't be able to do it due to feeling dysphoric, my ongoing fibroid problems, and not being comfortable with hospitals.

    So...if I ever had the time or money for kids I'd probably adopt. But I came from a big family so I think I got the desire to mind after children out of my system.