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Lesbians and Gay Guys

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by HeronsStorm, Feb 15, 2009.

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Do you get along with gay people of the opposite gender?

  1. I am a gay guy that doesn't get along that well with lesbians

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    5.8%
  2. I am a gay guy that gets along fine with lesbians

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    55.1%
  3. I am a lesbian that doesn't get along that well with gay guys

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    1.4%
  4. I am a lesbian that gets along fine with gay guys

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    37.7%
  1. HeronsStorm

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    This may seem like a weird question, but I heard this rumor (I forget where) saying that lesbians and gay guys usually don't get along. When I read this I was like 'Oh shoot, really?', because me and my gay guy friend get along well. However, I wanted to check it out from ACTUALLY lesbians and gays. So, the question is, do you get along with gay people of the opposite gender?
     
  2. jazzrawr

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    Hell yeah! I love gay guys. They make the greatest friends.
    One of my very best friends is a gay guy :slight_smile:

    It's a bit of a myth, and it may have been true a long time ago, but I think we usually get along great. Probably because we both know what it's like to be gay. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    It does depend on personality though, some people just don't mesh. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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  3. The Enigma

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    Strange. Lol Now that you mention...No. I don't. That's odd. But it may just be my homophobia. It prevents me from being around others sometimes. It also depends on my flippant mood swings.
     
  4. GlindaRose

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    I get along really well with gay guys. :slight_smile: I have a gay guy-friend at school, lots of people think he's weird (and he is tbh) but he's also a good guy and lots of fun.
     
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    I have a friend who's lesbian, and another who's bisexual. In a relationship with a gay person of the opposite gender, sexual orientation should be the last thing on our minds. After all, it's not like there's gonna be much sexual tension between us...
     
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    I wouldn't say I don't get along with lesbains but......well my sisters lesbain and she doesn't get along with me at all, she gets along better with my straight brother, so its more indifferent for me idk, I didn't vote
     
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    I get along as well with gay guys as I do with anyone else.
     
  8. MyStIcAl WoNdEr

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    that's so not true, gay guys are awesome! I get along with them just fine
     
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    I heard that rumor too..sadly, I don't have any lesbian friends...but my best friend is bi, and me and her get along really well...
     
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    i love gay men. they rock. :] i dont know why i wouldnt get along with them haha
     
  11. loving the pink

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    not that it matters in the least, but my best mate and housemate is gay, I'm a lesbian, I love him completely. Our sexuality doesn't even come into it :slight_smile:
     
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    I get along better with gay men than i do with straight men.
     
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    The only people i dont get along with are Straight guys :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    If you have boobies and/or like penis? Im sure we will be the best of friends <3
     
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    My best friend is a gay man, and I used to live with a gay guy and a bi guy. Sexuality is the least of my worries when making friends.
     
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    I like everyone,( gay or straight) unless they give me a reason not to.

    OOPS,bisexuals & trannies,too.(sorry,my bad!)
     
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    Mine too. :slight_smile:
    I get along with most people :grin:
    Unless they don't like me. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I don't think I could live without my "gay best friend" Nick (or Nickybwoii as he likes to be called :lol:slight_smile:

    Although, to be honest, I can get along with any person, any sexuality. It really depends on if they can get along with me.
     
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    I don't quite understand them, but I sure as hell love them.
     
  19. I don't think this website would run as smoothly as it does if lesbians and gay gays didn't get along. Personally, I can get along with the majority of the population.
     
  20. Alex19

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    lesbians kick ass! i dont have any lesbian friends so far as i know, but if your in trouble, a lesbian will have your back till the day you die! im gay and i love lesbians!