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Would you tell a friend that you have a crush on them?

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  1. Ameryllis

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    I have a crush on my friend and I want to tell her, but my sister is strongly persuading me not too. :icon_sad:
     
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    Well, in my life, I did tell them that I had a crush on them, except for one guy.
     
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    That really depends on the situation, why is your sister persuading you not to?
     
    #3 blueshadedsoul, Mar 11, 2016
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    I did tell my friend that I have a crush on him. Surprisingly, there is no awkwardness among us. He was just a bit shocked when I told him though.
     
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    I would not tell my friend if I had a crush on him unless I felt there was a strong chance he'd have a crush on me as well.
     
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    She thinks that if I tell my crush, things will be awkward between her and my crush too because we're all friends.
     
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    She is right..
     
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    yep... that's a tough one. What does your gut feeling say? I was in that situation in my junior year of HS and I didn't say anything but... I was still trying to figure out who I was too. Has there been any sparks? Good luck...
     
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    You should tell the woman your feelings she might feel The same about you you never know if you confront her and chat with her and tell her you've got a crush on her!
     
    #9 Seahawksfan, Mar 11, 2016
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