I'm in love with my coworker, and I want to start putting myself out there and showing her I'm interested. It's a seasonal job, so we don't start full time for another 6 weeks. She hadn't been planning on coming back this summer, but I've recently found out that she is. I was thinking of messaging her and telling her that I heard she's coming back, and that I'm glad she is. Is that weird? Especially since it's a Friday night? Am I giving away too much by telling her this, on a Friday? I don't want to come on too strong, and I want to wait until I see her in person before really flirting with her. Really need some advice. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this in my life.
Well, I say go for it! The worst she can say is no, right? ^-^ You may want to try to become friends with her, let her get to know you better. I hope it works out!
Go ahead and do it. Who knows maybe she's in love with you too and she could be your future wife! (!) ride:
Just saying that you're glad she is going to be coming back is fine, it shows friendship and not a move on her. Build a friendship first so that you can assess her response, then you won't make any mistakes.
Thanks everyone! I did message her and I feel pretty confident that I came across as just a friend, and I did say that I'm glad she'll be there again this summer! I think that could be taken two ways, but if she's not interested in me then I can always say I was just being friendly. Thanks again
No I'd say go for it That's just a friendly gesture saying your excited to see her in my oponion you are not giving away anything your just trying to be a friendly coworker Amd of course you can flirt with her in person!
Do it. At the very least, she would see it as a kind gesture and become you friends. But there's always a chance she'll be interested. And I am very happy for you if she is.
