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Are You a Romantic?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Invidia, Mar 21, 2016.

  1. Invidia

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    Are you, perchance, a fan of romance?

    I know I am! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I'm a total sucker for romantic stuff, and I really want to believe in "the one", not in the literal sense, but in the sense of finding someone who you can really, really bond with like you were meant for each other. *squeals in excitement*

    If you are, what kind of romantic are you? The hopeless romantic? The cuddly romantic? The lovey-dovey romantic? The elegant romantic?
    I guess I'm a hopeless romantic. ^^

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    My idea of romance is writing a list of why I like them and then giving it to them in a handmade card. Then taking them out for a dinner at their favorite restaurant and maybe a light kiss. That seems weird for me to do something like that, kissing somebody, but if I was in a deep relationship with them [which I'd have to be to write the list] then it doesn't sound too scary.
     
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    I consider myself a romantic, but I hate society's depictions of romance-it's cliché, unoriginal, whitewashed, and superficial.
     
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    I'm not sure which kind of romantic I am. Torn between elegant, hopeless, and cuddly
     
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    I guess that depends what romantic and romance mean. I'm not into giving flowers, chocolate, romantic dinners and confessing undying love. I find that kind of things awfully cheesy. However, I do want to believe in deep life-lasting affectionate relationships, not necessarily romantic ones - it could be friendship or "adopted" brotherhood.
     
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    Same.
    Not sure what kind of romantic I am though, none of those seems to fit exactly? Cuddly romantic maybe. lmao
     
  7. That pretty much sums up late 2010's. :eusa_clap

    Anywho; yes, I'm an overly romantic person. :grin:
     
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    I am the cuddly type and also hooray!! Another infp I I'm on the boarder of infp + j though (!)(!)(!)

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    I have the capability to be romantic, but I'm not a fan of romance directed towards me, if that makes sense.
     
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    I usually get infp or into

    I like to cuddle and do cute things every once in a while, and mostly in private.
    I also like buying people gifts and taking them on dates to expensive resutrant. Take then to places they like and watch them light up with happiness/joy/etc.
    I have a very old, tradional take on romance and idgf if people find it cheesy.
     
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    I really love romance. If I ever got the chance to be romantic, it would be sooooo good. If I ever meet a girl who's mutually romantic, then it wouls sooo much better. I love all the gooshy mushy romance stuff. I feel like it's so cute and adorable, and lovable and would make me feel loved. It's a thing. :slight_smile: <3

    Oh, and I'd say I'm all of the types of romantics. But I'm mostly cuddly romantic. ^-^
     
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    I enjoy romance although I haven't had much opportunity to show it being that I'm only 17. But anyway, if I was given a chance I could romance the hell out of my partner! :lol:
     
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    Yes. I. Am. I'm not an effeminate man, but i liked to have a nice relaxed expensive dinner with rose petals leading to my chair ❤❤❤
     
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    I am incredibly romantic. I am the type who'll bring you flowers for no reason and will cuddle with you until the ends of the world. Unfortunately I've never had a real chance at using these romantic actions. Too anxious to get past the first date.
     
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    Soulmates!!! I do the same... except it's kinda weird since he's a top. I'm OK with him opening doors and stuff for me but sometimes I go overboard with being the protective one and being too much of a gentlemen.. He wants to spoil me. I think it's funny though because with him we kinda have This duo where I'm the more gentle one and he's the more aggressive type, but my personality cuts in and I put people in their places. I've told him, I better not catch that ass on ****** or else I'm clobbin you and that floozy you were hitting up in the face. Then I scream: I am not the bad guy here I am a delicate flower *punches hole In wall*... *starts crying* I'm so not a delicate flower..
    We're weird......:dry::lol::confused::kiss:
     
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    I'm a romantic boy, I'm a super creative romantic person because I could woo my man with my writing if I wanted to. I am pretty much every romantic, cuddly, hopeless, elegant and lovey dovey. I love romance to me that is the part I love the most.
     
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    I think I'm a closeted romantic. Romance makes me feel emotionally vulnerable, so I have trouble acting on those kinds of feelings, even in a relationship.
     
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    Yes...more than I wish I were and more than I ever though I would be, because I am quite pragmatic and cold on most issues, even my friends acknowledge this. However, yeah >,<, I can be a sucker for romantic stuff.

    I don't believe in soulmates or ''the one'', though.
     
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    Yes I want to find someone to laugh and cry with, someone to give my everything to.
     
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    An elegant and somewhat hopeless romantic am I. While of course I'd never admit to the fairer emotions in person and in fact probably appear very cold and aloof, at my core I'm dramatic as hell. I'm something of a cynic though, so I don't believe I'm ever going to "fall in love" regardless of my idealistic dreaming.

    But insofar as romance goes, like in fiction, not many impress me. Often they're too cliché and thus boring. Tell you what I like, however, is a tragic romance. Those rip my hearts apart.
     
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