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Guy with a beer belly vs rock hard abs?

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  1. Akira12

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    So as it says which would you prefer or date? Would you mind if the guy has a bit of a bell as long as he's healthy or would you rather date a guy with rock hard abs and 6 pack? Or both? I'm just curious on what others find attractive or turn off mostly. For me I don't care really as long as said person is healthy and keeps themselves in control and isn't to incredibly overweight. As well as being very intimate and touchy and cuddly lol I love to hold hands and be all lovey dovey. What about yours?
     
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    I'd go for the guy with the abs, due to personal preference and the fact that if a guy has a literal beer belly, he's not very healthy. :lol:
     
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    I'm incredibly turned off by abs so my decision is made for me ahah
     
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    Well true but meant more along the lines of like a bit of a belly that's hard to shake or the like but the only phrase I could think of was that when I typed this lol.
     
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    I'm going to take 'beer belly' to mean a bit chubby with no definition. I'm not overly attracted to looks if their personality is a pile of crap and the guys with great abs that I know are mostly only after sex. I've been attracted to guys that are a little overweight but healthy and also guys that have definition. One of my mates is a bodybuilder and some aspects of his body are hot like shoulders but nice to look at and 'Id date him' are two completely different ball parks. Also I've spooned with him before, body builders are not comfy AT ALL. If you're looking for a cuddle body, find someone with a little fat xD
     
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    I would have to go with abs over beer belly, given the choice. That said, even just a nicely toned chest is incredibly sexy.
     
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    ^_^ Abs are awesome! The beer belly is gross though... I cannot stand visible double chins or beer bellies... being morbidly obese just isn't sexy to me... My personal preference though, is completely flat chests for guys and small cup sizes for girls and both being skinny, maybe a little curvy for girls... :/ *Shrug*
     
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    a guy with some definition is the best for me.

    I don't like rock hard abs or a beer belly. :/
     
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    I think it would depend on their personality. I don't think I'd want to date someone that I have no attachment to, that may change at some point but meh *shrugs*...
     
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    Abs. Shows that he takes care of himself.
     
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    If I was actually interested in dating? Either; I'm not preferential. They have to actually have a personality behind whatever their looks may be.

    Sure, the abs would look good, but not if the guy they're on is an ass. :grin:
     
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    I kinda like guys who don't have beer bellies or 6 packs if that makes sense?
     
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    Just a flat abdomen, abs aren't necessary, a little bit of flab is also acceptable :grin: not too much ! All that matters is the attitude and nature of the person.
     
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    I'd go for the guy with the abs. Building muscle requires consistent work and effort. I'm attracted to people who are motivated and committed to working hard. Those are the type of vibes I need in my life.
     
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    I like lean, slim body types, although now and then, someone with a body outside of that will catch my attention. There's something called "builtfat" that I like, too.
     
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    I'd go for the abs, but I don't necessarily mind a little fat or puffiness.
     
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    What about someone like me? I'm thin, almost scrawny, but I have no abs. It's just squish down there. -_-
     
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    Whichever one has more chest hair on it. :grin:


    In reality personality takes pretty near all precedence though.
     
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    Neither, really.

    I like skinny bitches.
     
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    I'm going to go with a six pack, but I say that very lightly. Some guys look too muscular / sculptured in my opinion and it looks gross.

    And if a guy is built (nice chest, nice arms) with a little bit of a belly, I will find his body very attractive. Additionally, if he has some nice body hair, then he wins. :icon_bigg
     
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