I'm a 52 yo and haven't been with a guy since I was in my late teens. I'm married for 16 years now, my story is in another thread. Now for the reason of this post. I read something I saw on facebook today about 10 ways a bottom can please their top. It got me to wondering. Is there relationships where one man only tops? Is that a selfish thing? Someone that labels them-self a top, do they ever bottom?