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Dragged into coming out!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by faultyink, Apr 10, 2016.

  1. faultyink

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    This Thursday, I'm going to a dinner with my sister. We're sitting with a girl and possibly someone else...and I really just want to have a good time and talk about school or something, but my sister is insistent on bringing up the fact that's she's a lesbian, if they ask about boys!!

    I mean, I know that they'll ask about boyfriends/crushes, but I would be a lot more comfortable not mentioning that I'm bi, or lesbian. I told my sister this, and she said she just wanted to come out to them.

    I don't know what to do!! Even when I 'came out' it was actually my sister's coming out, and I was dragged into it because the fact that we're twins makes everyone think we're the same...which, I guess, isn't wrong...

    Anyway, does anyone have any ideas on how to avoid this boy conversation? Or how to convince my sister not to come out to people I hardly know?? :frowning2:
     
  2. earl228

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    Uhm It's entirely up to you who you tell your bi And who you don't! It sounds like your sister wants everyone to know that's her choice if you want no one to go F they start talking about guys just change the subject I hope this helps!