I'm 52, haven't been with a guy since I was 18 or 19. Only topped twice, never bottomed. So my question is how do you know whether you're a top or bottom? I'm married at the moment, but when I separate and start looking and I'm asked, I don't really know.
Try both. Figure it out as you go. Likewise, it doesn't have to be either or, you could enjoy both (vers).