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What do you find the hardest/most anoying part about being gay?

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  1. RyFastForward

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    I hate the fact that, when you have a crush on a guy, sometimes it's more jealousy or admiration than love or actual attraction
     
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    hardest and annoying? I think it would be people expects you to be funny all the time :frowning2:
     
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    Trying to find a relationship
     
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    Aww Nobo you'll get there! Don't rush relationships.. it might feel awkward
     
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    Never knowing if your crush is gay/bi. Really, straight people have about 90% chance of having a straight crush. 10% in our cases is not looking any good.
     
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    This
     
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    A lot of the guys I find attractive are striaght
     
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    I agree. Especially depending where you live, it can be hard to actually find someone who isn't straight. I know they exist but where are they hiding?
     
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    Always having to come out to new people even when I'm already out. And not knowing what new people's reactions will be.

    And yeah, dating / trying to guess who's gay can be tough too. :|
     
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    ^^^this
     
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    EVERY guy I like it either straight or taken, sigh.....
     
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    Assumptions that because I'm bisexual that I want to screw everything in sight... Okay, so I've had my days LOL. I had a college friend say something to me that caught me by surprise but it made me wonder what kinda pheromones am I putting off? She was like.. "I bet you bang like a fairy on acid...!" OMG'ddss LOL.
     
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    Not being sure if your crush is gay or straight:frowning2: .It's like trying to solve a really difficult puzzle.
     
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    Having to go out of my way to find media that represents my demographic. I'm really into books and cinema, and sometimes I'm bitter about how difficult it is to hear a story be told about someone like me.
     
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    I hate being more feminine than most guys. Also, not being ' normal' bugs me.
     
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    That there aren't enough gay people. Let alone gay people that would date trans people.
     
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    I wish I was more feminine than I am
     
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    People just focus on the part that I like girls not the part that I like fall in love with just people and don't care about gender, but like I get what you mean about the jealousy thing.
    I have like think confused them before a lot.

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    Know the feels, I have no idea what sexuality my crush is and I am to shy to ask.

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    Totally, although I have a feeling people assume from my appearance that I am probably gay.
     
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    Having to say, "NO she is not my sister, she is my wife".


    I changed my name so we would have the same last name. I took my husband's last name when I was married to a man so I had no problem taking my wife's last name when we got married. But then people think we are sisters. UGG!!!
     
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    Eesh, this too
     
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