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Jack2009 · 23rd Feb 2009, 03:01 AM

Is long hair, shoulder lenghth, consider really feminine. I like the look, like the one julio Iglesias junior has. I was reading that guys prefer short hair. What do you think of it, I look a bit native American (Im not)

Shevanel · 23rd Feb 2009, 03:48 AM

i wouldn't think so

but i've got biased views as you can see lol.

Tim · 23rd Feb 2009, 04:18 AM

The only person I've actually liked long hair on (no joke ._.) Is joey XD (The dude above me of course) :P

Otherwise I prefer short hair, long hair in most cases just plain creeps me out.

23rd Feb 2009, 04:19 AM

Long hair... really depends on the type. Sometimes it can be feminine (like if you use stuff on it like a curler). But if you're talking about all natural long hair on a guy, that's masculine.

Yeah I love dudes to have long hair.

Jeimuzu · 23rd Feb 2009, 05:09 AM

I had long hair when I was overweight, so I'm kinda against it now. It depends how long it it and how well cared-for it is.

jazzyspazzy · 23rd Feb 2009, 01:24 PM

my brother has long tarzan-like hair, and i don't think it looks girly at all. if he wasn't related to me, i'd probably find him very attractive!

Brandford · 23rd Feb 2009, 02:40 PM

I looooveee Long hair, I don't know why but I just think its soo cute

23rd Feb 2009, 02:46 PM

I love men with long hair....who cares if its fem.

23rd Feb 2009, 03:03 PM

It depends on the guy... And how they take care of it. I used to have shoulder-length hair. :/ I'm glad I cut it, even though I miss it sometimes. On some guys, it looks really bad and disgusting. On other guys it looks really feminine. But some guys can pull it off and not look girly.

Daniel · 23rd Feb 2009, 05:05 PM

Depends on the face. Ja.

sdc91 · 23rd Feb 2009, 06:36 PM

I don't like long hair at all. To each his own.

Emberstone · 23rd Feb 2009, 06:52 PM

my hair is longish. its hovering over my shoulder, and that seems to be where it starts to slow down in its growing.

I was born with a reciding hairline, so I have two pronounced wideows peaks on either side of my hair... think eddie munster, but bigger. so thats why I have longer hair. it covers up my receding hairline.

I want to try to grow it out just a bit longer, and get it trimmed, nice and even, and do something with it. not big or tight curls, but something that is low maintaince, and makes it so that my hair doesnt just lay flat.

Courtneyyy · 23rd Feb 2009, 08:00 PM

Nah, long hair can be masculine. Actually, the only guy I've ever done anything (sexually) with has long hair (he didn't at the time, but I saw him the other day). It looks good. It looks good, and masculine, and very much the opposite of his (gay) brother.

Wander · 23rd Feb 2009, 09:49 PM

I have hair just past my shoulders, and while I don't style it at all or get it cut a particular way or whatever, I keep it very clean and orderly. Most people say I have a slightly feminine "cute-ish" face and that my long hair fits, but that it doens't make me look like a girl.

Sarah · 23rd Feb 2009, 09:56 PM

i lik guys wit long hair. lol. me nd my friends r always talkn about hott guy hair. nd we're always saying we HATE it when a guy from far away has hott guy hair but when u get up close, he doesnt match him hair!!! not saying tat hez lik ugly just tat he doesnt look good wit the hair. lol

VoiceIHear · 23rd Feb 2009, 10:26 PM

long hair for sure, some people don't suit short hair and some don't suit long hair

in the end tho with the slightest fashion sense u can make anything look good

23rd Feb 2009, 10:29 PM

I have a passionate hate of long hair on guys but then again I'm probably not the best person to ask on guys full stop lol

NateDawg · 23rd Feb 2009, 10:53 PM

My hair is naturally curly. I loev my hair straight and when its straigh tis long around my shoulders. i love it. though it takes to long to straighten my hair so i leave it curly most of the time.

MattyPatty · 23rd Feb 2009, 10:55 PM

I prefer like short jelled up hair or messy, wavy skater hair.

kayar · 24th Feb 2009, 02:05 AM

I like long hair on a guy a whole lot!

Taking a note from all the previous comments, whether or not it makes anyone look 'feminine' would seem to depend on how you wear it (i.e. anything resembling a 'bob-cut' for instance would probably look feminine straight away).

Also, I think some peoples facial structure will make a real difference. High-ish cheek bones and a more prominent chin will most likely maintain a more masculine look whatever the hairstyle.

Hey, go for it. You'll soon get feed-back as it grows, and it's soon cut again if you change your mind yeah?

Good luck, Kayar.

23rd Feb 2009, 03:01 AM	#1
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Long hair Is long hair, shoulder lenghth, consider really feminine. I like the look, like the one julio Iglesias junior has. I was reading that guys prefer short hair. What do you think of it, I look a bit native American (Im not)

23rd Feb 2009, 03:48 AM	#2
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Long hair i wouldn't think so but i've got biased views as you can see lol. __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

23rd Feb 2009, 04:18 AM	#3
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Long hair The only person I've actually liked long hair on (no joke ._.) Is joey XD (The dude above me of course) :P Otherwise I prefer short hair, long hair in most cases just plain creeps me out. __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

23rd Feb 2009, 04:19 AM	#4
STK Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Long hair Long hair... really depends on the type. Sometimes it can be feminine (like if you use stuff on it like a curler). But if you're talking about all natural long hair on a guy, that's masculine. Yeah I love dudes to have long hair.

23rd Feb 2009, 05:09 AM	#5
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Long hair I had long hair when I was overweight, so I'm kinda against it now. It depends how long it it and how well cared-for it is. __________________

23rd Feb 2009, 01:24 PM	#6
jazzyspazzy Esto quad es - be yourself!!! Full Member Gender: Tomboy Orientation: Guys, girls who look like guys, genderqueer people Out Status: Anyone who looks at my facebook profile Location: Somerset Age: 17 Posts: 295 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Long hair my brother has long tarzan-like hair, and i don't think it looks girly at all. if he wasn't related to me, i'd probably find him very attractive! __________________ Be the change you wish to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi

23rd Feb 2009, 02:40 PM	#7
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Long hair I looooveee Long hair, I don't know why but I just think its soo cute __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

23rd Feb 2009, 02:46 PM	#8
BitterEdge Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Long hair I love men with long hair....who cares if its fem.

23rd Feb 2009, 03:03 PM	#9
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Long hair It depends on the guy... And how they take care of it. I used to have shoulder-length hair. :/ I'm glad I cut it, even though I miss it sometimes. On some guys, it looks really bad and disgusting. On other guys it looks really feminine. But some guys can pull it off and not look girly.

23rd Feb 2009, 05:05 PM	#10
Daniel the great cheese danish Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Buffalo, NY Age: 21 Posts: 2,874 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Long hair Depends on the face. Ja. __________________ "Nobody can teach me who I am, who can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need, these are things I have to find out myself." - Chunua Achebe

23rd Feb 2009, 06:36 PM	#11
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Long hair I don't like long hair at all. To each his own.

23rd Feb 2009, 06:52 PM	#12
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,585 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Long hair my hair is longish. its hovering over my shoulder, and that seems to be where it starts to slow down in its growing. I was born with a reciding hairline, so I have two pronounced wideows peaks on either side of my hair... think eddie munster, but bigger. so thats why I have longer hair. it covers up my receding hairline. I want to try to grow it out just a bit longer, and get it trimmed, nice and even, and do something with it. not big or tight curls, but something that is low maintaince, and makes it so that my hair doesnt just lay flat.

23rd Feb 2009, 08:00 PM	#13
Courtneyyy ColbieMarie Full Member Gender: GIRL Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Mom, brother and close friends Location: Flagstaff, AZ Age: 23 Posts: 975 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Long hair Nah, long hair can be masculine. Actually, the only guy I've ever done anything (sexually) with has long hair (he didn't at the time, but I saw him the other day). It looks good. It looks good, and masculine, and very much the opposite of his (gay) brother.

23rd Feb 2009, 09:49 PM	#14
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Long hair I have hair just past my shoulders, and while I don't style it at all or get it cut a particular way or whatever, I keep it very clean and orderly. Most people say I have a slightly feminine "cute-ish" face and that my long hair fits, but that it doens't make me look like a girl.

23rd Feb 2009, 09:56 PM	#15
Sarah my mind just blanked Full Member Gender: birth certificate says im a F(w/e tat means) Orientation: bisexual(more guys than girls) Out Status: people who hav asked Location: the place around where i am Age: 17 Posts: 527 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Long hair i lik guys wit long hair. lol. me nd my friends r always talkn about hott guy hair. nd we're always saying we HATE it when a guy from far away has hott guy hair but when u get up close, he doesnt match him hair!!! not saying tat hez lik ugly just tat he doesnt look good wit the hair. lol __________________ "Walk Proud and we will walk with you. Stumble and we will lift you up" stilsurchin, EC member,I don't know if they thought of it on their own or heard it from someone else, but who ever said it is very thoughtful and insightful

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23rd Feb 2009, 10:26 PM	#16
VoiceIHear The Piano Knows Something I Don't Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 3 of my closest friends Location: Brisbane, Queensland, Australia Age: 18 Posts: 2 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Long hair long hair for sure, some people don't suit short hair and some don't suit long hair in the end tho with the slightest fashion sense u can make anything look good

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Hidden Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Long hair I have a passionate hate of long hair on guys but then again I'm probably not the best person to ask on guys full stop lol

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NateDawg EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family & anyone who asks (If I want them to know). Location: St. Louis, Missouri Age: 22 Posts: 270 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Long hair My hair is naturally curly. I loev my hair straight and when its straigh tis long around my shoulders. i love it. though it takes to long to straighten my hair so i leave it curly most of the time.

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MattyPatty Fagalucious Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Teh world Location: Vancouver Age: 19 Posts: 161 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Long hair I prefer like short jelled up hair or messy, wavy skater hair. __________________ Individuality. Respect. Difference... Stand up and make one.

24th Feb 2009, 02:05 AM	#20
kayar Movin' on up, and movin' on out! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sing if you're proud to be gay! Out Status: As of 16th March - 64 and rising, but no family! Location: East London / Essex area, U.K. Age: 61 Posts: 103 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: Long hair I like long hair on a guy a whole lot! Taking a note from all the previous comments, whether or not it makes anyone look 'feminine' would seem to depend on how you wear it (i.e. anything resembling a 'bob-cut' for instance would probably look feminine straight away). Also, I think some peoples facial structure will make a real difference. High-ish cheek bones and a more prominent chin will most likely maintain a more masculine look whatever the hairstyle. Hey, go for it. You'll soon get feed-back as it grows, and it's soon cut again if you change your mind yeah? Good luck, Kayar.