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what attracts you to guys?

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  1. gryf

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    For me it's a cute face. And geeks.
    I love the look of the "twinky" guys, even when they get older.

    What's your big attractor?
     
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    People with great hair, twinks again :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:, maybe q few muscles wouldn't hurt or is that asking too much..
    I would say hair is very important strangly
     
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    Guys who are kind/thoughtful and have a great sense of humour are cute. Having great hair is a bonus :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I'm not very picky about physicality. Rests more on personality most of the time for me.
     
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    If I'm going off just looks and not personality, like if I were asked "Is this guy attractive?" and going off a photo, then this:

    Quite slim, lightly defined muscles (not massive ones with throbbing veins), facial hair depends on the guy (although it can look really good on certain people), short hair and a cute face.

    LET'S NOT FORGET SUITS EITHER.
     
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    Check out Harry Shum Jr :wink: I think you would like him
     
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    Alder, I agree with personality stuff, fit a relationship.

    was thinking about initial attraction, before you know someone.
    Mostly curious how others felt about physical attraction.
     
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    Physically.. hairy, stocky guys with nice beards and somehow full lips, those are the most traits that turn me on. the funny thing is i have all of those traits except being thin as a stick, but it always have been an insecurity to me that i tried to change, especially since i'm extra hairy.. i don't think slim build and extra hair go well together. at all.

    as for personality, i prefer calm and calculated guys with a hint of mystery to them. unfortunately, most guys i find attractive are nothing but that, they're always one of those annoying jackasses who try to impress people with their so-called masculinity. *sigh*

    looking at it, both physically and mentally, i prefer guys who are similar to me. i guess the opposite doesn't attract in my case!
     
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    For me its their personality. I really like quiet and shy boys.
     
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    I love a guy with great hair to touch while kissing a nice smile and a nice personality I personally love geeks as well, there are also lots of surfers in my area and I love those types of guys and a little bit of abs would be great I don't like to buff but a bit would be splendid for me
     
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    Oh no it's cool I feel you! I guess great hair and a great smile always look good and are sort of the first things I notice. I don't mind him having some muscle but it's not such a big thing for me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    As far as looks go, not much. Only physical thing I really notice in anybody is their eyes. If I was actually interested in dating, the guy would just have to have a good personality, and they would have to be reasonably intelligent. [​IMG]
     
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    Oh, dear sweet Jesus on a crucifix. Yes. Yes. Yes.
     
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    Their straightforwardness, risk-taking, and protective attitudes.

    I like their physique: compared to women, more muscular, edged, less fragile in general. I'm not into super hairy, but a sprinkle here and there adds a bit of flare. Oh, and we can't forget what's downstairs...
     
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    A lean build but not fragile. Most important thing is the face. As long as the guy isn't fat the body will be OK. Body hair doesn't matter as long as they aren't gorrilas. Just cute face and not fat :icon_bigg
     
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    Tall, strong jaw line, salt and pepper hair.
     
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    Facial piercings, especially the eyebrow. Facial hair as well. Full sleeves slay me when on men too! Honestly I like a little bit of weight too. Of course if he is a firm and responsible person that helps a lot too.
     
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    There's a radio station in Detroit, 106.7....... :wink:
     
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    All this ^^^

    Dyed hair, formalwear, or dark outfits (i guess I'd call that some type of goth....?)

    All of that gets my attention, and once it's gotten, there's other stuff I look at.
     
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    Nice hair, preferably a beard and a little chub :3
     
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    nice hair, similar size (5' 3''), some mussels (enough for a 6 pack), nice personality, smiles a lot, funny (because I have a warped sense of humor), doesn't say texting languages in actual conversation, likes the outdoors, and smart. I have found the boy over summer break, and I am pretty sure he is bi, but I don't know. We go to the same district but different schools, and I don't have his phone # :cry: