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Why I am I only attracted to straight guys?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PaperInkling, May 3, 2016.

  1. PaperInkling

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    I will never be able to get about boyfriend because straight guys are so much more appealing. When my friends ask my crush I cant tell them because all my crushes are straight and everyone will think I am a perv. :tears::tears::icon_sad:
     
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    You're not the only one. I think that's pretty normal. You can't help it that most guys are straight, so naturally you're gonna like some of them. I wouldn't be too worried. You're not a pervert at all.
     
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    It's the forbidden fruit situation. People want what they can't have: it's human nature.
     
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    Most guys you like will be straight, just by odds.

    You can't tell someone is gay just by staring... Mostly
     
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    The fact that more guys are straight, so you most likely have more contact with them (or assume most guys to be straight)? Perceived masculinity? Taboo?

    But for me, it's mostly because I'd rather take a "female" role in a relationship, rather than being a "bro" for someone else. Already failed that with my brothers!
     
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    This is a topic of discussion that I've never been able to comprehend to. I know a guy who is just like you when it comes to being attracted to straight men. I've always thought that when men are having sex with each other then they are either gay or bisexual. I've even had this discussion with straight male friends who have agreed with my way of thinking on this. Nonetheless, the guy that I've mentioned above disagrees with my perspective on this issue.
     
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    Straight guys like lesbians, lesbians like straight women, straight women like gay guys, and gay guys like straight guys. :lol:
     
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    Don't forget that us bi guys tend to like straight guys AND lesbians!!!
     
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    Which can only mean that bi women like gay guys and straight women
     
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    Lol. I believe that's a correct application of the transitive property, right?
     
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    There are A LOT more straight guys than there are gays. And maybe you're just attracted to masculinity? Plus, there are a lot of gay guys who've had straight friends they're attracted to who sadly don't reciprocate those same feelings.
     
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    Hmm what about celebrities? Matt Boom, Russell Tovey, Zachary Levi, Wentworth Miller, Todrick Hall, Geoff Johns, Tiziano Ferro this list goes on.

    It is just how many different type of people we are exposed to.. I used to tell same thing and never been with a gay guy :grin: yet however all of the above are sure the ones I can't say no.