Okay, so, if I talk to someone kind of attractive I get a crush on them. It makes it really hard to talk to people cause I find them attractive!! Ugh. I even dreamed about a girl leaving her boyfriend to be with me and just WHAT. NO. Like, I don't want that to happen! Does this happen to anyone else? And if so, what do you do to avoid falling for all these people? :/
Girl this happens to me a lot too. Its annoying lol. I just have to tell my brain no even when its very strongly saying yes hehe.
When it happens to me, I just try to remember that when it comes to crushes they're usually brought on by my desires for the idea of a person.
I very rarely have crushes, because I need to know the person a bit before I develop an attraction. Though, when I do have a crush, I have no chance anyway :/ Plus, I'm too scared of being rejected to really act.
Just enjoy your crushes. They are nearly always for people you will never get, are perfectly natural, just enjoy them for what they are. And if you get shy around someone because you have a crush on them, that is potentially your 'modus operandi' to pull perhaps, by being demure and 'obviously' embarrased. Try doing the exact opposite of what your body and mind are saying. When they tell you to look away, stare at them. When they tell you to say nothing, speak up. Say, 'wow, you are gorgeous. So who 's the lucky person that got you then?'. Enjoy your crush, enjoy flirting a bit, enjoy your sexuality around people you are attracted to, safe in the knowledge it is just a crush, nothing serious, and have no expectations about anything happening. If its light and fun, what harm can it do? The truth is a crush is about the unknown, and usually after five minutes chatting, the crush is entirely gone. Time to find a new one Best wishes, xxx
I've never had a crush on someone I've met or known in person. It's typically an actor that I grow fond of.
My life in a nutshell but I'm always too scared to act! Opening up more later in life but there's a co-worker I can't get out of my head! I flirt but I'm not sure she knows. Thinking whether I wanna tell her or not...... I agree with Knuckles, we're more likely to fall for our idea of a person more than who they actually are. Not saying it's impossible to work something out much love to all of you.
In real life, I never met anyone attractive :lol: My crushes are all celebrities... I wish i knew some attractive gay boys...
I completely understand, by the time they've walked away from me the first time I've planned a whole relationship arc for us I can't help it!
That sounds like a lot of fun to me! ^_^ I very, very rarely get crushes. Though I'm a little worried whether I might possibly have one now. :eek:
I know the feeling. Right now I have 3 crushes and one very very hard crush on someone that is straight. I think it's because I'm lonely and desperate :-(
