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BeautifulStranger · 26th Feb 2009, 07:41 AM

I have a doctor's appointment at 5:15 :/
I'm finally going to find out what the deal is with my nosebleeds and ever present headaches.

I hate going to the doctors. I used to be totally okay as a child.
Then I broke my leg when I was 8.
After about 10 days of healing, I went in for a check-up and the doctor wasn't satisfied with the setting so he rebroke my leg.

I had no painkillers... no anaesthesia... nothing.
I don't think I've ever experienced more severe pain or screamed so loud in my entire life. My mom said I was squeezing her hand so hard she couldn't feel it anymore.
That experience ruined doctors for me.

In fact, the first thing I said to my mom when I got back in the car was, "I'm never going back..."

Even now... when I have to get something as small as a physical I throw tantrums and cry. I'm 17 and I'm convinced that every doctor I meet will brake all of the bones in my body.

Bleh... I hate doctors... They're like a death sentence to me.

Dazed · 26th Feb 2009, 07:45 AM

aww tyler i hate doctors too.
but you need to find out whats wrong so you dont die.
who would i girl talk with then?

:] and i may miss you if you like fell over and died haha.
<3

Greggers · 26th Feb 2009, 08:56 AM

Maybe you need to watch a show with a sexy man doctor in it? That always makes me feel better about them...

BeautifulStranger · 26th Feb 2009, 08:58 AM

I've got an appointment with a neurologist now

Remington · 26th Feb 2009, 09:24 AM

First of all, the doctor that broke your leg deserves to be shot. That was incredibly insensitive.

Second of all, doctors make me nervous as well. I've been to a lot of them due to my countless medical issues, and it's never made me comfortable with them.

I will say that my neurologist is very kind and I like him a lot, so hopefully yours will be the same.

**Maddy** · 26th Feb 2009, 04:05 PM

Whoa. Have you ever considered taking legal action against the doctor who broke your leg? That's absolutely wrong.
My neurologist is awesome, really understanding and pretty funny, so I hope yours turns out to be just as good. Good luck!

TheRoof · 26th Feb 2009, 05:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Greggers

Maybe you need to watch a show with a sexy man doctor in it? That always makes me feel better about them...

lol you stole my thunder. i was gonna say that

biisme · 26th Feb 2009, 05:34 PM

He just....rebroke it?

musican · 26th Feb 2009, 07:53 PM

That's crazy. I would have kicked his face in (with the unbroken leg of course).

Sarah · 26th Feb 2009, 08:23 PM

Is that even legal? Did your mother allow him to do that?

If that happened to me I'd be tramatized to! My gosh. When I was little i was ALWAYS sick. I went to the doctors like twice every month. And my doctor was really cool. But I was so afraid of dentists!! I'd cry everytime they came at me with those sharp pointy scraper things....

I always had cavities. And when they had that buzzy thing....I'd cry my eyes out. The only thing I liked about the dentist was the game and TVs in the waiting room and getting to pick a bunch of toys when I left. lol. But I'm ok with my denitsts now. Except, I just don't like my dentist guy, his name is Dr. Ready. Totally wierd. nd he wears like a shaded mask. Its like a welders mask but doesn't just have the one little slit, you know what i mean?

kaster · 26th Feb 2009, 11:23 PM

Thats what you're meant to do if it hasn't reset properly in a few days, because if it had set wrong there could be loads of complications now, you might not have been able to walk properly etc.
He should have maybe said he was going to do it and offered a bit of pain relief but generally it wouldn't help MUCH with the pain and may have got a young boy worked up in the first place and scared.
Try not to hate Doctors too much just because of that, think of all the good they can do too. I want to be a doctor, will you hate me?
<33 Hope everything is fine Tyler! xxx

BeautifulStranger · 27th Feb 2009, 05:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sarah

Except, I just don't like my dentist guy, his name is Dr. Ready.

When I was a child my dentist's name was Dr. Payne.
No lie...

Larry Myster · 27th Feb 2009, 05:45 AM

I know this is ganna come a little awkword, but I actually like my doctore, he reminds me alot like house only he isnt an asswhole.

Level N Human · 27th Feb 2009, 06:26 AM

Boy, I can relate. I became deathly afraid of dentists after going to a bad one for a while. She pulled teeth without waiting long enough for the anesthetic to set, and once removed a cracked tooth with no numbing at all. :\ My parents thought that I threw tantrums just because I was a kid who didn't like the mild discomfort or something and I had no way of knowing what good dentists were like since she was the only one we'd ever gone to. Since then I've switched to a good dental place and my fears are mostly gone.

Hopefully your doctor's visit goes well, and maybe being in good hands will help you get over it like it helped me.

Good luck dude.

SamAlex728 · 27th Feb 2009, 06:33 AM

My god! I know that he had to rebreak your leg, but DAMN, no anesthesia, no pankillers, not even a frying pan to the forehead to take your mind off the leg?! What a prick!

Quote:

Originally Posted by firecausesburns

Whoa. Have you ever considered taking legal action against the doctor who broke your leg? That's absolutely wrong.
My neurologist is awesome, really understanding and pretty funny, so I hope yours turns out to be just as good. Good luck!

And Maddy, in the US, you can only file malpractice suits until 2 years after the incident, any longer, you just get a "too little, too late".

Dazed · 27th Feb 2009, 06:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BeautifulStranger

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sarah

Except, I just don't like my dentist guy, his name is Dr. Ready.

When I was a child my dentist's name was Dr. Payne.
No lie...

tyler you have the weirdest luck.

my doctor was Dr.Wong

and it took him 3 times to figure out the my face breaking out was an allgeric reaction.
yea..i guess he was..Wong.*said in baby voice*

26th Feb 2009, 07:41 AM	#1
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Bleh... Doctors I have a doctor's appointment at 5:15 :/ I'm finally going to find out what the deal is with my nosebleeds and ever present headaches. I hate going to the doctors. I used to be totally okay as a child. Then I broke my leg when I was 8. After about 10 days of healing, I went in for a check-up and the doctor wasn't satisfied with the setting so he rebroke my leg. I had no painkillers... no anaesthesia... nothing. I don't think I've ever experienced more severe pain or screamed so loud in my entire life. My mom said I was squeezing her hand so hard she couldn't feel it anymore. That experience ruined doctors for me. In fact, the first thing I said to my mom when I got back in the car was, "I'm never going back..." Even now... when I have to get something as small as a physical I throw tantrums and cry. I'm 17 and I'm convinced that every doctor I meet will brake all of the bones in my body. Bleh... I hate doctors... They're like a death sentence to me. __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

26th Feb 2009, 07:45 AM	#2
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Bleh... Doctors aww tyler i hate doctors too. but you need to find out whats wrong so you dont die. who would i girl talk with then? :] and i may miss you if you like fell over and died haha. <3

26th Feb 2009, 08:56 AM	#3
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors Maybe you need to watch a show with a sexy man doctor in it? That always makes me feel better about them... __________________ "It's a male duck."

26th Feb 2009, 08:58 AM	#4
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Bleh... Doctors I've got an appointment with a neurologist now __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

26th Feb 2009, 09:24 AM	#5
Remington [Insert Witty Title Here] Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: NY Posts: 105 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Bleh... Doctors First of all, the doctor that broke your leg deserves to be shot. That was incredibly insensitive. Second of all, doctors make me nervous as well. I've been to a lot of them due to my countless medical issues, and it's never made me comfortable with them. I will say that my neurologist is very kind and I like him a lot, so hopefully yours will be the same.

26th Feb 2009, 04:05 PM	#6
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,703 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors Whoa. Have you ever considered taking legal action against the doctor who broke your leg? That's absolutely wrong. My neurologist is awesome, really understanding and pretty funny, so I hope yours turns out to be just as good. Good luck! __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

26th Feb 2009, 05:34 PM	#8
biisme Call me Katie Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Bleh... Doctors He just....rebroke it? __________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know.

26th Feb 2009, 07:53 PM	#9
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors That's crazy. I would have kicked his face in (with the unbroken leg of course). __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

26th Feb 2009, 08:23 PM	#10
Sarah my mind just blanked Full Member Gender: birth certificate says im a F(w/e tat means) Orientation: bisexual(more guys than girls) Out Status: people who hav asked Location: the place around where i am Age: 17 Posts: 527 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors Is that even legal? Did your mother allow him to do that? If that happened to me I'd be tramatized to! My gosh. When I was little i was ALWAYS sick. I went to the doctors like twice every month. And my doctor was really cool. But I was so afraid of dentists!! I'd cry everytime they came at me with those sharp pointy scraper things.... I always had cavities. And when they had that buzzy thing....I'd cry my eyes out. The only thing I liked about the dentist was the game and TVs in the waiting room and getting to pick a bunch of toys when I left. lol. But I'm ok with my denitsts now. Except, I just don't like my dentist guy, his name is Dr. Ready. Totally wierd. nd he wears like a shaded mask. Its like a welders mask but doesn't just have the one little slit, you know what i mean? __________________ "Walk Proud and we will walk with you. Stumble and we will lift you up" stilsurchin, EC member,I don't know if they thought of it on their own or heard it from someone else, but who ever said it is very thoughtful and insightful

26th Feb 2009, 11:23 PM	#11
kaster Slogan slag <3 Full Member Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 267 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors Thats what you're meant to do if it hasn't reset properly in a few days, because if it had set wrong there could be loads of complications now, you might not have been able to walk properly etc. He should have maybe said he was going to do it and offered a bit of pain relief but generally it wouldn't help MUCH with the pain and may have got a young boy worked up in the first place and scared. Try not to hate Doctors too much just because of that, think of all the good they can do too. I want to be a doctor, will you hate me? <33 Hope everything is fine Tyler! xxx __________________ This is how it works, you're young until you're not, you love until you don't, you try until you can't. You laugh until you cry, you cry until you laugh and everone must breathe until their dying breath.

27th Feb 2009, 05:45 AM	#13
Larry Myster EC 4 Life! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Extreamly Gayrific Out Status: Some people Location: Coos Bay, OR Age: 21 Posts: 153 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Bleh... Doctors I know this is ganna come a little awkword, but I actually like my doctore, he reminds me alot like house only he isnt an asswhole. __________________ Yep its me.

27th Feb 2009, 06:26 AM	#14
Level N Human Deluxe Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Fag-ette. Out Status: Most friends Age: 22 Posts: 816 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Bleh... Doctors Boy, I can relate. I became deathly afraid of dentists after going to a bad one for a while. She pulled teeth without waiting long enough for the anesthetic to set, and once removed a cracked tooth with no numbing at all. :\ My parents thought that I threw tantrums just because I was a kid who didn't like the mild discomfort or something and I had no way of knowing what good dentists were like since she was the only one we'd ever gone to. Since then I've switched to a good dental place and my fears are mostly gone. Hopefully your doctor's visit goes well, and maybe being in good hands will help you get over it like it helped me. Good luck dude. __________________ If we hit that bullseye the rest of the dominoes will fall like a house of cards... checkmate.

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