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Do You Find Feminine Guys Attractive?

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  1. Plattyrex

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    Hi all:slight_smile:. I was jst wondering about this. I am very feminine in nature, and as a general rule I tend to find masculinity to be attractive. It kinda makes me wonder if more masculine people tend to find femininity attractive. I would also be curious to know whether you consider yourself to be more of a masculine or feminine person, as I'm a bit curious as to whether or not there's any correlation. Anyone can answer. Gay guys, bisexual guys, bisexual girls, etc. I need to figure this out because I'm super ditzy and pathetic, but I'm also really feminine and I want to know if anyone will find me attractive.
     
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    Masculine, feminine, androgynous, whatever. I just find people attractive.
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    As a more 'feminine' gay, I feel more attracted towards masculine guys. I don't really like to class myself as feminine but I suppose I kind of am in a lot of ways. I can't say I'm attracted to other feminine guys, mind. So long as they're more masculine than me like what. :grin:
     
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    I don't find flamingly effeminate guys attractive, but still I would answer yes to your question.
    I myself don't define myself as either feminine or masculine. Rather, I just try and be me. Sometimes I'm super femme, sometimes I'm more masculine. But I don't really define myself by that much, since I think femininity/masculinity are just labels that society places on certain behavior, and I dislike feeling chained down by labels, arbitrary definitions and decisions, etc.
     
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    Not really. But I grew up in a super masculine culture that makes me want that type of guy more.
     
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    Okay, so... I'm more masculine (and not to mention female in body...) and into girls... So this is probably a little less relevant...

    BUT, I've always loved androgyny in any gender and i know that tons of other people do too.
    And I've actually always really adored and idolized effeminate guys...
    I'd honestly probably merrily hop into bed with one if they didn't have male genitals and, y'know, weren't probably still a lil' manly (in, like, hair and body and... stuff...)... (0_0 )
    There's just something about people that naturally bend the gender stereotypes, man... They're always so unique and attractive to me...
    A lot (almost all...) of my favorite characters from anime and video games are actually feminine guys so...
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    It's probably not very relevant to this particular thread, but i thought i'd share with you how much I honestly really love feminine guys.
    I hope that maybe that gave you some form of answer at least a liiiiiiittle similar to what you were looking for...
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    (Also, i'm more masculine and prefer just girls and feminine guys so... yeah... maybe there is a bit of a correlation between the whole 'masculine x feminine' thing...)
     
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    I find masculine guys into stuff typically assiciated with men more attractive, especially when they look masculine aswell, I'm not really into femmes, I don't find them attractive...

    ---------- Post added 9th May 2016 at 09:37 PM ----------

    Hey, don't we all?
     
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    It may not be relevant, but it actually does make me feel a little better about myself. Thank you:slight_smile:.
     
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    Aw, awesome... (*hug*) I'm glad i could be of at least a little help, bud! (^▽^)
     
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    Generally no, it isn't impossible though.
     
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    I consider myself more masculine and tend to be interested in more masculine activities. I also am attracted to masculine guys and that is who I imagine myself with in the future.

    However, I will be the first guy to admit there are very attractive feminine guys. I hate to say it, but sometimes I think a lot of feminine guys just have a "gay" face. I don't know what it is, but something about their face structure - maybe that they usually have a really defined jawline or cheekbones. I mean, I personally think Colton Hayes has a gay face. Anyways, I'm trying to say that they can be attractive.

    It may not be my preference, but feminine guys can certainly be attractive.
     
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    Give me a decent dose of feminine swagger in a man and I'll bite.
     
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    Yes. I love feminine guys, they're so cute! :love: I'm a pretty masculine guy too.

    Oh, and I don't find the vast majority of masculine men attractive.
     
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    Depends on what you mean. Looks wise? Yes, but I still want them to look like a guy. If that makes sense.
     
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    Totally. I personally in general am more likely to be attracted to a guy who is feminine. I'm pretty high on the Kinsey scale though for a bisexual.
     
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    I don't know what I'd consider myself, in between with a lean towards masc; but I'm more attracted to the masculine types.
     
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    I personally am more on the masculine side. I don't really like feminine guys at all and prefer masculine ones more similar to myself.
     
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    I generally like people in between