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Self sabotage a passive hatred of yourself constantly smashing your dreems.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Woveomeneon, May 12, 2016.

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  1. Woveomeneon

    Woveomeneon
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    I dont know why but ever since i was small i seem to constantly do things to make me give up and feel like doing somthing destructive to my life i cant see why i feel the need to fuck up everything good in my life and even when im feeling good i still end up make things worse for myself what should i do.
     
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    I would suggest a therapist. And please don't take this as me being snide. I think that will honestly be your best bet for finding substantial help (and answers). I don't really know what you're going through but I sympathize.
     
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    No joke, I think this is actually an extreme variety of masochism. Some people are literally tempted to make themselves fail, so it's not just you.
     
    #3 Jellal, May 12, 2016
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    recognize when ur doing this and make a concious effort to change it...its not easy thats sumthing u have to realize too, but u gotta force urself to do it without thinking about, just do it..after sum time , it will become habbit just like its habbit to do what ur doing now..this is like rewiring ur thought train...not easy, like i said, but it can be done...just gotta want it bad enough or hate what ur currently doing bad enough...food for thought
     
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