Hi! you can always post a thread in General Support and Advice forum in EC And if you want, you can talk to me too!
Hi Nikebox4, you can also send a private message to the advisors in this forum. They'll be able to give advice for your issues. Here is the link: Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out - Show Groups ---------- Post added 13th May 2016 at 08:26 PM ---------- Hi Nikebox4, you can also send a private message to the advisors in this forum. They'll be able to give advice for your issues. Here is the link: Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out - Show Groups
Tried posting in more specific forum zone but its not working for some reason, just wanting opinions and advice on my sexuality and how to deal with it. Basically straight male got a gf etc dont find men attractive but gay porn turns me on. Im open to sex with a male but i never find them attractive so ide struggle having sex with a man. Cant call myself straight because i like gay porn but wouldnt say im bi either. Cant tell if its a porn fetish or ive got a slight gay side. Im not bothered if i am bi not in denial etc just want to answer the question in my head that so far i cant answer.
I think only you can decide how you really feel. What I can say is porn isn't always the best indicator of your orientation, since it's very different than real sex, and it's also very different from you actually being involved in it. Maybe you would like sex with guys, maybe not. Or maybe you would like it, but never really find a guy attractive in other ways. Who knows, maybe one day you will like a guy, maybe not. Either way, it's totally okay no matter what happens because your feelings are real and valid no matter what, and knowing/not knowing what your orientation may be in the future does not change who you are as a person.
