How do most guys feel about girls?

Actually kind of interested in this too...lesbians and bisexuals? ;D

 

There'll probably be something less tangible I like about her before I start thinking body parts. And I can notice a girl's nice ass and still have no desire for her. The two ideas of that elusive feeling and that physical side sort of have to collide. I think us girls are much less visual than guys in general so I don't think my opinion would be at all indicative of how straight guys feel though.

 

Well my brother is as straight as an arrow and constantly talking about hot girls. Whether hair, body, face... Seems to be a big deal and very distracting - at least for him. Also what SHACH said, the combination of personality and appearance is a factor.

I'm not a typical straight guy, sort of bi/ace, but I tend to notice a girl's face and overall body shape (or clothing/hair style). I don't care about particular body parts. A few weeks ago, I saw a really gorgeous girl at an aquarium and had to do a double take. The main things I noticed about her: she had beautiful long curly brown hair, olive skin tone, was slim with soft features, and had an old fashioned looking dress on (kind of floral, collared, went to right above the knees). I'm boring and non-sexual so I will notice clothes before tits.

 

I remember walking into a store with my dad and after we left talking about how cute the shopkeeper was (Probably the only time I ever did that and truthfully I did it because it felt like it was expected of me.), he looked at me in surprise, "but did you see the shape of her body!" and I was completely confused, apparently she had a really bad figure but I just responded to her voice and her feeling to me like a nice person. There is two interesting elements here, my own blindness and my father being aware of the shopkeepers figure even though he is obviously not searching for a partner. As mentioned earlier, guys who are attracted to girls seem to be much more visual. I tend to connect emotionally and in an empathetic way to girls, I understand them and connect with who they are as a person.

 

Personally, I'm waaaay more bothered about personality than I am about physical features. This sounds weird, but it's as if once I know somebody is a horrible person, I'll think of them as ugly no matter what they look like. Whether this means that I start noticing all of their bad physical features or if my feelings cloud my visual judgement, I'm not sure. Then again, I'm like 60% sure that I'm demi as well as bi.

That said, when I do feel physical attraction then I tend to look at faces first, body later. A nice body, whilst definitely a plus, is not something that I'd be very bothered about in a partner.

 

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Kind of odd. I can find some guys attractive in my school even if they're assholes. I tend to notice their physical appearance first then focus on if they're nice or a douche. Though, it would put me of them a little if they're horrible, but not much. Interesting to see the difference between us guys and girls, eh?

 

I can tell when a female is attractive. I can say a female is attractive. Doesn't mean I am attracted to said female. I know when a dress is cute, doesn't mean I want to wear it.

Guess I'm trying to say I don't feel attraction to females. They do nothing for me. But as friends I love them dearly.

Men on the other hand....I notice them right away. Facial hair and an epic jawline can do wonders for me. Bonus I'd they have a great personality.

 

I've found quite a few asshole-ish guys attractive. Maybe it was just because it was mostly banter but it didn't turn me off them. But yes, figure first when it came to those guys.

 

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Oooh, I guess I am a little odd, haha. I mean, I can still see why people might find them attractive but I personally will view them as unattractive, mostly. Maybe it's just because an unattractive personality - especially a bully - would forever put me off somebody, and because of that I can't find them physically attractive either?

You know that grudging mutual attraction in romantic comedies? Like, they hate each other one second and they're making out against a wall the next? I always found those extremely weird, I'd always be like "adults are strange" when I was younger, because if I ended up in that sort of situation I would make the other person REALLY regret it.

 

Come on cis bisexual men! We can get answers from you lot.

 

All of my straight friends love boobs, V, and A the way I like D, so yes, that's how straight guys are

 

Well... can't say I am a fan of females, vaginas and the whole female reproductive system. Periods, moodiness and a host of other factors makes me wonder why more men don't turn gay or bi :lol:.

In all seriousness, I can judge how a woman looks, aesthetically, but that's it.

 

When I say the elusive factor... I don't even mean personality. Like AlamoCity talking about "moodiness" just reminded me of this crush I had/have on this girl who is like a fucking emotional whirlwind and for a long time I couldn't even work out if she liked me or hated me - that is not a personality trait I like but she still sorta got me. And another girl who was just a bit of an ass. All I'm saying is... I'm not surveying body parts to decide whether someone is attractive. Personality, looks, the way they carry themselves, and like... their smell or something can all contribute but I don't really know what it is that does it. I do think that men are more visual than this and that they can be quickly attracted to someone with a nice body... I can't though. I think as someone said we need some bisexual guys on this thread.

 

Haha, rude :icon_bigg To be fair, the whole moodiness thing is a stereotype, when one of my cisgendered female friends is "on" I don't notice a difference in their behaviour, generally speaking.

But in all fairness, my own mood swings - not PMS related - can be pretty intense. Like yesterday, I was in a decent mood until somebody brought up a low grade I got in something, and then I got all miserable and frowny, oops. Which is probably one of the several reasons why I'm still single, haha.

 

Take something that automatically catches your eye or turns you on with guys (for me it's broad shoulders and butts, but we're all different). What you feel in this is how most straight men, bi men, lesbians, and bi women feel when they notice boobs.

 

...You caught me.

Seriously, though, I tend to be more focused on somebody's face than anything else. My current sexual orientation is Emeraude Toubia, who as far as I'm concerned is physical perfection. :eusa_danc