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diegon3 · 28th Feb 2009, 06:47 PM

I had a dream (no not starting a speech here but) it was a while ago I remember dreaming I had a boyfriend and that for some reason I could never really see his face but he was so sweet in my dream I felt scared going out in public with him and he just held by hand tightly
then I woke up depressed cause I don't have that life.

has anyone else experienced this?

stilsurchin · 28th Feb 2009, 07:00 PM

I used to dream about my best friend when I was your age, and he was gorgeous. But we would never get it on in the dream (probably cause it was like that in real life). But I felt good and then woke up. The neat thing was, I could see him that day. btw, we never did come out to each other.....

waitingsucks · 28th Feb 2009, 07:22 PM

Yeah I have experienced shame and even lied to people when I was holding hands with another guy in a dream

musican · 28th Feb 2009, 08:56 PM

I had a dream that this guys was sharing a seat with me and was holding me and when he first came over to me and sat down, I thought "what's going on" and then I thought "oh, this is nice". Then I woke up and was sad.

Sarah · 28th Feb 2009, 09:04 PM

not exactly, but my crush(chelsea) for some reason i was in some department store and it was my birthday. she got me all these presents. nd then she said "so im going to help you find your dream girl" nd i just felt so crushd bcuz SHE is what i want. nd i just looked at her and started running away nd she was screaming and running after me apologizing and asking if she did anything wrong.

Jack2009 · 1st Mar 2009, 12:00 AM

I want a bf so bad right now!

Phantasma · 1st Mar 2009, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Jack2009

I want a bf so bad right now!

Join the club, I definitely do too.

I don't even get to have one in my dreams.. my dreams are all very confusing and frankly weird enough that I'm scared to try to interpret them sometimes. I've definitely had a lot of dreams that were like heaven though, where I had everything I wanted and everything I had was perfect. Those really, really suck to wake up from. It can be depressing.

I had a recurring dream a couple of months ago where the same person would regularly surprise me by appearing shrouded in bright light before me when I opened the front door. Over a couple of dreams the light faded until eventually the dream itself did as well. Since then my dreams have been fairly random and seemingly unimportant.

I think we need a dream interpretation thread - they reveal a lot of interesting things about us.

3104 · 1st Mar 2009, 12:28 AM

hmm....dreaming about having a boyfriend, I dont think I have ever tried to do that...perhaps I will try tonight

diegon3 · 1st Mar 2009, 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by SimplyChaotic

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jack2009

I want a bf so bad right now!

Join the club, I definitely do too.

I don't even get to have one in my dreams.. my dreams are all very confusing and frankly weird enough that I'm scared to try to interpret them sometimes. I've definitely had a lot of dreams that were like heaven though, where I had everything I wanted and everything I had was perfect. Those really, really suck to wake up from. It can be depressing.

I had a recurring dream a couple of months ago where the same person would regularly surprise me by appearing shrouded in bright light before me when I opened the front door. Over a couple of dreams the light faded until eventually the dream itself did as well. Since then my dreams have been fairly random and seemingly unimportant.

I think we need a dream interpretation thread - they reveal a lot of interesting things about us.

do it it would be fun see what other ppl think our dreams mean

Dazed · 1st Mar 2009, 07:08 AM

im such a nerd..i read the title of this thread and thought of the "i had a dream" speach >_<

Sarah · 1st Mar 2009, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Gin Uh Fur

im such a nerd..i read the title of this thread and thought of the "i had a dream" speach >_<

ur not the only one! XD

1st Mar 2009, 10:48 AM

Luckily or not, my dreams don't tend to be 'like heaven'. They're just weird and twisted. And now that I think about it, I have the impression that my sexuality is not usually directly addressed.

Ty · 1st Mar 2009, 11:39 AM

I had a dream that that people weren't judged on the colour of their skin, but of the content of their character. But then I woke up.

bex22 · 1st Mar 2009, 11:56 AM

i have dreams about being with girls, usually people i know... the dreams are always so simple, just holding hands or hugging. I always feel so good when i wake up but then i also feel awful because these are my friends/acquaintances and they're either not gay or they are older and they are with someone. it makes me think that there is no hope for me.

MyLife134 · 11th Mar 2009, 05:57 PM

Definitely! It is annoying!!! Because you want it to be that way and when you wake up you realize it isnt!

twilight lover · 11th Mar 2009, 11:08 PM

yes i experience it every night.

**Maddy** · 11th Mar 2009, 11:11 PM

I dreamed a few months ago that I'd moved away and started uni and all I remember about that dream was a dark-haired girl named Ellie, who I think was starting to become my girlfriend. The other night I met a dark-haired girl named Ellie who I talked with for a pretty long time. Hmm.

11th Mar 2009, 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SimplyChaotic

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jack2009

I want a bf so bad right now!

Join the club, I definitely do too.

I think we need a dream interpretation thread - they reveal a lot of interesting things about us.

Lol, that's not the only thing we need, we need a "Users Who Want a Boyfriend/Girlfriend" thread... or do we already have that?

jsandoval1192 · 11th Mar 2009, 11:47 PM

I keep having dreams about my best friend. Heres the background story: He claims hes straight but weve hugged/cuddled and weve done stuff most straight guys wouldnt be willing to. And hes said things like when i said i wish i could hold him forever and he said he agreed. Plus just the other day he tried explaining how he feels differently about me compared to his other friends and so i jokingly asked if i held a special place in his heart and he said yeah. He knows im bi too. Now onto the dream: I dont know where we are but my head is rested on his lower shoulder/upper chest and he has his hand around. Next thing i know i turn and kiss him and he looks at me and says "no, i cant do that" or something similar. Then i start apologizing and say that it was impulsive and an accident. Thats all i remember before waking up.
What do you think about it? I cant quite figure it out..

tashyyy · 12th Mar 2009, 01:20 PM

if i dream about getting intermate with a girl
which i have done many a time
they are straight
plus i have no chance
it hurts when i wake up

28th Feb 2009, 06:47 PM	#1
diegon3 just another human or am I? O_o Full Member Gender: thinks (ok so if it's..) yeah i'm a guy Orientation: thinks hummm definatly gay Out Status: imidiate family, and a few others Location: SEATTLE, WA Posts: 171 Join Date: Feb 2009	I had a dream I had a dream (no not starting a speech here but) it was a while ago I remember dreaming I had a boyfriend and that for some reason I could never really see his face but he was so sweet in my dream I felt scared going out in public with him and he just held by hand tightly then I woke up depressed cause I don't have that life. has anyone else experienced this?

28th Feb 2009, 07:00 PM	#2
stilsurchin No Longer A Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: British Columbia Age: 60 Posts: 240 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: I had a dream I used to dream about my best friend when I was your age, and he was gorgeous. But we would never get it on in the dream (probably cause it was like that in real life). But I felt good and then woke up. The neat thing was, I could see him that day. btw, we never did come out to each other.....

28th Feb 2009, 07:22 PM	#3
waitingsucks Rainbow Philosopher Full Member Gender: XY Orientation: Guylove (between 2 guys) Out Status: 3 people. Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: I had a dream Yeah I have experienced shame and even lied to people when I was holding hands with another guy in a dream __________________ "Do you think so little of me that if I had a choice, I'd choose to live my life dodging prejudice and discrimination?" What's all this stuff about choice? You are the way you are and no one can tell you contrary to what you know in your heart.

28th Feb 2009, 08:56 PM	#4
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: I had a dream I had a dream that this guys was sharing a seat with me and was holding me and when he first came over to me and sat down, I thought "what's going on" and then I thought "oh, this is nice". Then I woke up and was sad. __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

28th Feb 2009, 09:04 PM	#5
Sarah my mind just blanked Full Member Gender: birth certificate says im a F(w/e tat means) Orientation: bisexual(more guys than girls) Out Status: people who hav asked Location: the place around where i am Age: 17 Posts: 527 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: I had a dream not exactly, but my crush(chelsea) for some reason i was in some department store and it was my birthday. she got me all these presents. nd then she said "so im going to help you find your dream girl" nd i just felt so crushd bcuz SHE is what i want. nd i just looked at her and started running away nd she was screaming and running after me apologizing and asking if she did anything wrong. __________________ "Walk Proud and we will walk with you. Stumble and we will lift you up" stilsurchin, EC member,I don't know if they thought of it on their own or heard it from someone else, but who ever said it is very thoughtful and insightful

1st Mar 2009, 12:00 AM	#6
Jack2009 Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 686 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: I had a dream I want a bf so bad right now!

1st Mar 2009, 12:28 AM	#8
3104 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay, but not done much about it Out Status: A few people Location: Madison, WI Age: 25 Posts: 72 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: I had a dream hmm....dreaming about having a boyfriend, I dont think I have ever tried to do that...perhaps I will try tonight __________________ I happen to pay taxes to a government that says it won't base how it treats me on what a religion has to say about me -Brian Sims

1st Mar 2009, 07:08 AM	#10
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: I had a dream im such a nerd..i read the title of this thread and thought of the "i had a dream" speach >_<

1st Mar 2009, 10:48 AM	#12
Mysterons Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I had a dream Luckily or not, my dreams don't tend to be 'like heaven'. They're just weird and twisted. And now that I think about it, I have the impression that my sexuality is not usually directly addressed.

1st Mar 2009, 11:39 AM	#13
Ty Mints ribbed for her pleasure Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oxford, t'South, UK Age: 19 Posts: 305 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: I had a dream I had a dream that that people weren't judged on the colour of their skin, but of the content of their character. But then I woke up. __________________ Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, exhibit number one is what the seraphs, the misinformed, simple, noble-winged seraphs, envied. Look at this tangle of thorns.

1st Mar 2009, 11:56 AM	#14
bex22 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Not out at all Location: london/new york Age: 23 Posts: 32 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: I had a dream i have dreams about being with girls, usually people i know... the dreams are always so simple, just holding hands or hugging. I always feel so good when i wake up but then i also feel awful because these are my friends/acquaintances and they're either not gay or they are older and they are with someone. it makes me think that there is no hope for me.

11th Mar 2009, 05:57 PM	#15
MyLife134 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Location: Marietta Age: 18 Posts: 40 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: I had a dream Definitely! It is annoying!!! Because you want it to be that way and when you wake up you realize it isnt!

11th Mar 2009, 11:08 PM	#16
twilight lover Banned Gender: men in my case boy. Orientation: to cute to be strate lol(said by my friend). Out Status: out of the closet. Location: australia N.S.W Age: 16 Posts: 110 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: I had a dream yes i experience it every night.

11th Mar 2009, 11:11 PM	#17
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,703 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: I had a dream I dreamed a few months ago that I'd moved away and started uni and all I remember about that dream was a dark-haired girl named Ellie, who I think was starting to become my girlfriend. The other night I met a dark-haired girl named Ellie who I talked with for a pretty long time. Hmm. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

11th Mar 2009, 11:47 PM	#19
jsandoval1192 Swimmer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi Out Status: Opening up Location: That one place, CA Posts: 126 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: I had a dream I keep having dreams about my best friend. Heres the background story: He claims hes straight but weve hugged/cuddled and weve done stuff most straight guys wouldnt be willing to. And hes said things like when i said i wish i could hold him forever and he said he agreed. Plus just the other day he tried explaining how he feels differently about me compared to his other friends and so i jokingly asked if i held a special place in his heart and he said yeah. He knows im bi too. Now onto the dream: I dont know where we are but my head is rested on his lower shoulder/upper chest and he has his hand around. Next thing i know i turn and kiss him and he looks at me and says "no, i cant do that" or something similar. Then i start apologizing and say that it was impulsive and an accident. Thats all i remember before waking up. What do you think about it? I cant quite figure it out.. __________________ Live. Laugh. Love

12th Mar 2009, 01:20 PM	#20
tashyyy Friend not Foe (; Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: here for the ladies :) Out Status: everyone Location: north west england Age: 18 Posts: 240 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: I had a dream if i dream about getting intermate with a girl which i have done many a time they are straight plus i have no chance it hurts when i wake up __________________ I'll believe it all, i won't let go of your hand..

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