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LornTehViking · 5th Mar 2009, 06:11 PM

I wonder how much we all think about each other (other EC members) every day.

Like, if someone were to say something, and you automatically think "Oh! That reminds me of Daniel/Mama/whomever!"

This happen to you guys often?

(At least once a day for me, usually more)

littledinosaurs · 5th Mar 2009, 06:13 PM

probs at least once
usually more
I gets texts yo

RaRa · 5th Mar 2009, 06:13 PM

Me.Too.

A lot actually. xD

Dazed · 5th Mar 2009, 06:15 PM

i think about my friends.
i worry about how they are doing.
and i always wanna talk about them with my real life friends.

it fails at times cuz my normal friends are like "who?"

i think of alot of people on here as friends that just moved away or something.
it feels like i know people so well.

Shevanel · 5th Mar 2009, 06:17 PM

a Whole lot, sometimes i even expect to see you guys on my campus walking around. I wish i could

**Maddy** · 5th Mar 2009, 06:21 PM

All the time. It's weird, I'm always seeing or hearing things that remind me of other members, or getting spontaneous thoughts of people for no reason.

Alex19 · 5th Mar 2009, 06:22 PM

i think about u guys a couple times a day. usually wondering what everyone else is doing at that moment...

Greggers · 5th Mar 2009, 06:23 PM

I thought i saw Helen today in my schools lounge hehe...

And i talk about joey to everyone ALL the time. Im always telling everyone about how amazing my friend joey is :P ...until they ask how i met or know joey then i stfu

DayByDay · 5th Mar 2009, 06:24 PM

In the short time I've been here, I've met some great people. And yes, I think about them. I wonder how their days are going and if they'll be on when I log on. ^_^

Shevanel · 5th Mar 2009, 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Greggers

I thought i saw Helen today in my schools lounge hehe...

And i talk about joey to everyone ALL the time. Im always telling everyone about how amazing my friend joey is :P ...until they ask how i met or know joey then i stfu

no wayyyyyyy

XD

Daniel · 5th Mar 2009, 07:18 PM

I think of people all the time from EC. Cause I love them.

I however just hope when something makes people think of me...it isn't something terribly inappropriate.

Bryan44 · 5th Mar 2009, 07:22 PM

I think about all of the EC people alot during the day.

I feel like I know alot of you personally, and its awkward when I say "oh thats what "insert EC name here" said". Then people are like "who is that?" then I feel dumb.

But idc, I love you guys!

**EM68** · 5th Mar 2009, 07:36 PM

I think about my fellow EC'ers a number of times during the day. Especially ones who are sad and hurting. I hope they find happiness during their day.

Wander · 5th Mar 2009, 07:36 PM

*puts on a bulletproof vest*

Not that often, actually. My real life and my "life" online usually remain separate, even mentally. It's almost like I have a totally different mindset depending on where I am.

interstella · 6th Mar 2009, 02:51 PM

Sometimes I randomly burst out laughing at something that has been posted on EC

Yeah, I'm that sad

It makes for some awkward conversations with friends...

Dazed · 6th Mar 2009, 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel

I think of people all the time from EC. Cause I love them.

I however just hope when something makes people think of me...it isn't something terribly inappropriate.

hahaha daniel funny you should say that...cuz when i think of you and you think of me...we are doing teh same thing haha.

>_< matter a fact ima be thinking of you in a few minutes.

sdc91 · 6th Mar 2009, 03:28 PM

I actually never think of anyone here when I'm offline. :/
It's just not something that happens to me. My brain turns off from it, I guess.

pirateninja · 6th Mar 2009, 05:20 PM

Yep

Whether it's a name or a phrase or something (for example, I cannot watch Canada on Strike without thinking of Phil, nor can I hear the song 99 Red Balloons without thinking of Helen and Jazz, and Sailor Moon makes me think of Tyler and Tim) I do think about guys on this site a whole lot. Or if we discuss an issue IRL, and there's a thread posted about it here etc.

Yeah, EC just is my life

5th Mar 2009, 06:11 PM	#1
LornTehViking Banned Gender: I walk on the line you're not 'supposed' to cross. Orientation: Gay Out Status: I wasn't ever in. Location: Bumblefuck, Illinois Posts: 997 Join Date: Jul 2008	Random, but... I wonder how much we all think about each other (other EC members) every day. Like, if someone were to say something, and you automatically think "Oh! That reminds me of Daniel/Mama/whomever!" This happen to you guys often? (At least once a day for me, usually more)

5th Mar 2009, 06:13 PM	#2
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Random, but... probs at least once usually more I gets texts yo __________________ Âllo Là

5th Mar 2009, 06:13 PM	#3
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Random, but... Me.Too. A lot actually. xD __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

5th Mar 2009, 06:15 PM	#4
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Random, but... i think about my friends. i worry about how they are doing. and i always wanna talk about them with my real life friends. it fails at times cuz my normal friends are like "who?" i think of alot of people on here as friends that just moved away or something. it feels like i know people so well.

5th Mar 2009, 06:17 PM	#5
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Random, but... a Whole lot, sometimes i even expect to see you guys on my campus walking around. I wish i could __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

5th Mar 2009, 06:21 PM	#6
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Random, but... All the time. It's weird, I'm always seeing or hearing things that remind me of other members, or getting spontaneous thoughts of people for no reason. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

5th Mar 2009, 06:22 PM	#7
Alex19 who else but me? Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: homo Out Status: I think everyone knows by now Location: New York Age: 21 Posts: 1,301 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Random, but... i think about u guys a couple times a day. usually wondering what everyone else is doing at that moment... __________________ "It's always darkest before dawn."

5th Mar 2009, 06:23 PM	#8
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Random, but... I thought i saw Helen today in my schools lounge hehe... And i talk about joey to everyone ALL the time. Im always telling everyone about how amazing my friend joey is :P ...until they ask how i met or know joey then i stfu __________________ "It's a male duck."

5th Mar 2009, 06:24 PM	#9
DayByDay Bengal Baby Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Location: New Jersey Age: 23 Posts: 290 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Random, but... In the short time I've been here, I've met some great people. And yes, I think about them. I wonder how their days are going and if they'll be on when I log on. ^_^

5th Mar 2009, 07:18 PM	#11
Daniel the great cheese danish Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Buffalo, NY Age: 21 Posts: 2,874 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Random, but... I think of people all the time from EC. Cause I love them. I however just hope when something makes people think of me...it isn't something terribly inappropriate. __________________ "Nobody can teach me who I am, who can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need, these are things I have to find out myself." - Chunua Achebe

5th Mar 2009, 07:22 PM	#12
Bryan44 Dork Full Member Gender: Male Location: Georgia (the state) Posts: 2,065 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Random, but... I think about all of the EC people alot during the day. I feel like I know alot of you personally, and its awkward when I say "oh thats what "insert EC name here" said". Then people are like "who is that?" then I feel dumb. But idc, I love you guys!

5th Mar 2009, 07:36 PM	#13
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Random, but... I think about my fellow EC'ers a number of times during the day. Especially ones who are sad and hurting. I hope they find happiness during their day. __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

5th Mar 2009, 07:36 PM	#14
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Random, but... puts on a bulletproof vest Not that often, actually. My real life and my "life" online usually remain separate, even mentally. It's almost like I have a totally different mindset depending on where I am.

6th Mar 2009, 02:51 PM	#15
interstella Don't call me GaGa... Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Queer Out Status: Everyone Location: London, UK Age: 18 Posts: 700 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Random, but... Sometimes I randomly burst out laughing at something that has been posted on EC Yeah, I'm that sad It makes for some awkward conversations with friends... __________________ Lesbian? Gay? Bisexual? Transgender? Queer? Whatever.

6th Mar 2009, 03:28 PM	#17
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Random, but... I actually never think of anyone here when I'm offline. :/ It's just not something that happens to me. My brain turns off from it, I guess.

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6th Mar 2009, 05:20 PM	#18
pirateninja EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: Random, but... Yep Whether it's a name or a phrase or something (for example, I cannot watch Canada on Strike without thinking of Phil, nor can I hear the song 99 Red Balloons without thinking of Helen and Jazz, and Sailor Moon makes me think of Tyler and Tim) I do think about guys on this site a whole lot. Or if we discuss an issue IRL, and there's a thread posted about it here etc. Yeah, EC just is my life __________________ Holly the Pirateninja Ars Longa, Vita Brevis.