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Would you date yourself... Past or Present?

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  1. Phaidra

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    OK ill start this off... Ive always been told i look really good but you know self esteem issues... Looking back at older photos im like omg i was HOT!! So yeah id date that!! haha

    However im not sure i could date myself because of my personality/problems... So all in all i wouldnt date myself in the present.
     
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    I'm the opposite. I wouldn't date my past self but I would date my present self.

    In the past, I was too withdrawn and kept to myself. I wouldn't interact with anybody. Nowadays, I am effectively the same but at a lesser extent.
     
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    Haha no I would never date anyone who looks as bad as me lol
     
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    I would never date my past self, but my present self I'd give a try. She'd probably annoy me after a while though. I can be a control freak.
     
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    I have a twin brother...we're not identical, but still...the idea of dating myself kinda creeps me out for that reason. :eek:

    That said, I could date someone with my personality, though we'd probably both be very stubborn and difficult, though we could have interesting intellectual debates :wink:
     
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    I don't really like myself, but weirdly, I'd date myself.
     
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    I'm a difficult person, I'd never date myself.
     
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    I don't think I would date either versions of me. I am still working on the whole self-love thing.
     
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    Any point from age 22 but on a purely friends with benefits basis. I couldn't cope with living with myself full time. :confused:
     
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    Aw man, no! I think I need somebody very different from me. I'm stubborn, distant, shy, and neurotic, I'd be no good for my own health.

    As for my past self... Well, the idea of dating anybody more than a year younger than me weirds me out, so still a no.
     
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    Maybe, I don't know, I guess I would be happy to be friends with me and who knows, maybe in time I would fall for me, especially once I start to transition and physical attraction kicks in. :astonished:

    I would on the other hand undoubtfully date the online version of me! :lol:
     
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    Yeah. I want to date someone totally similar to me.
     
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    Idk it would be nice in many ways. I mean, we'd have a lot in common. :wink:
     
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    Past self: AHAHAHAHA hell no.
    Present: Nope.

    I'm not my type and don't think I have a good enough grip on my emotions.
     
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    hell yea! id love to date sumone like myself (not myself cuz thatd be like third party conversations hahaha!) fuuuuk tho all my problems and struggles would be solved and id live happily ever after...
     
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    Well let's see, among the past selves in the past we have the naive child, the awkward more-robot-than-human, the edgy semi-radical phase, the depressed wreck and the phase-which-must-not-be-named... I'll pass.

    Present me... I wouldn't. I know how busy I am right now, I wouldn't have time for me~
     
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    I wouldn't date me in general, past or present. I get annoyed and tired of myself without trying, so I can't imagine being with an exact copy of me.
     
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    I'd date my future self in a heartbeat, because I have lots of plans for him. :wink:

    Now? If I was presenting how I want to, I might think of my copy as at least interesting, but probably also fairly creepy. No date though.

    Past? No chance. I was horrific in many ways.
     
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    Im hot enough but naw i wouldnt i would date someone similar