Newly Out (and I do mean Newly!)

Hi. I came out last Friday at age - are you ready? 68!! It is something I have been on the verge of doing for over 35 years. A whole bunch of things finally gave me the courage to do this:

1. Last month I went to DC with a gay friend. One of the places we visited was the Holocaust Museum. I have used the "then they came for me" quote lots of times and for many reasons, but being there it just hit me. These are MY PEOPLE both because deep down, even though I hadn't come out yet I am a lesbian and because my grandmother was Jewish. The reality of what silence and hate can do hit me powerfully.

2. On that trip I stayed with lesbian friends and saw how normal their marriage was.

3. Orlando. I can't say anymore about that at the moment.

4. Finally I was just tired of denying who I was.

Once I did (to a couple of grad school friends who are openly gay Episcopal priests), the peace I felt was - well I can't even begin to find a word to describe it)

Today I went to my 1st support group - a Veterans Pride group at the local VA hospital. I felt more at home there than anywhere I have been in years.

When I told another friend who is lesbian and out, her response was "Welcome to the Family". And I do feel welcome. Am hoping this site will give be insight and support.

Thanks for listening

Kateles