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Gay guys- Would you date a trans guy?

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  1. MusicalGlobe

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    Let's say you're a gay guy and you're really into a trans guy but he's biologically a girl. Would you still consider dating him? What about a genderfluid person that's a biological girl? I'm curious what people will say.
     
    #1 MusicalGlobe, Jun 22, 2016
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    I'm bisexual, but no, most likely not. Just not my preference (for both trans and genderfluid). I have no issue with anyone and wish everyone the best in discovering themselves, but we all have different tastes, likes and preferences.
     
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    I think I'm bisexual, but I think I would only date guys because I'm not very comfortable with girls, so maybe I count as gay. Sorry if not. I would date a trans guy as long as I liked them. Again though, I'm probably bi, so idk if I count.
     
    #3 Plattyrex, Jun 22, 2016
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    If we have a good connection, then yeah. But if it starts to get sexual during the relationship, we have to talk about it.
     
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    Get rid of "bisexual" and this pretty much matches my opinion on the matter
     
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    Yes. However, there should also be sexual compatibility too. That can be fixed with a discussion about how to proceed. There will be some levels of compromise though but if my relationship with this person is strong enough and if we both face it together, I think we can manage.
     
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    Doubtful, more than likely not. The ones I've met so far were not 'compatible', let's say, with my tastes and preferences. But, who knows. I'm open minded, and I won't exactly say no to a transguy if I'm genuinely interested.
     
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    It would depend more on their personality than what equipment they have.
     
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    Yes, but I'm more pan, I guess.
     
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    I find I can be romantically attracted to trans men but not sexually attracted to them. That might make a relationship hard for me, so I'm not sure I could be in any longterm relation with a trans person. But who knows, I've never been with a trans guy to know for sure.
     
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    I'd for sure date another trans guy if I ever met one willing to put up with me :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes, I would date a trans guy that appears male. Being attracted to the guy, the person that they are, and their personality are the most important. The sexual aspects are secondary and I believe could be worked out if I cared for the person.
     
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    What he said.
     
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    This
     
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    Yeah, I'd date anyone if I liked them
     
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    I wouldn't be opposed to it.
     
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    I personally wouldnt
     
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    I am 100% gay and yes I would, if and only if they looked like a man and had all the correct body parts. In fact I almost dated a trans guy, the only reason I didn't was because he was 19 and I'm 16 so It would have been illegal.
     
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    Normally I would say no, but there was this rare exception of this transgender guy that I saw on a talk show once. She or maybe I should say He, was hot so.. I guess I could never say never.
     
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    Um... If someone's a trans guy in that this is an assigned-female-at-birth person who transitioned to male and lives as a man... You call him a he. Please tell me you know better than to misgender a trans person.
     
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