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Gay guys- Would you date a male who lost his penis in an accident?

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  1. thepandaboss

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    Refer to the title. The accident can be assumed to be an explosion, industrial incident, or a botched circumcision.

    Cause penises are all that matter, right? :rolle:
     
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    Tbh I was just thinking about making a parody thread about the same thing!
     
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    Of course. People's value in a romantic equation is not equivalent to the variables below the belt.

    Even so, I personally do not care about genitals or even sex for that matter. What would matter to me is that my partner and I have compatible personalities.
     
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    Byron, I am literally cracking up at this title (does that make me a bad person?)!!!

    I am not a sexual person but nature, and could not care less about sex. With that being said, I would not care if he does not have a penis intact.
     
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    Probably if it ever happened
     
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    The shade of it all.

    And the answer for me is, yes. Personality > Parts.
     
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    Probably not, seeing as though I'm a bottom.
     
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    That's the miracle of strap ons

    Yes I would date such a fellow.
     
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    If he wasn't a dick (bad pun, I know lol) then sure
     
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    Yes. I don't see that as a valid reason to not date someone.
     
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    For me I guess it's one of those things when I don't really know how I'd react until I'm actually faced with it. Like, what would be there? A stump? A man made vagina? Just his balls dangling down? I'd feel really bad blowing him off (no pun intended) because I know it's not their fault.
     
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    I think I agree with vytas.
     
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    wouldnt this sortof be equivilent to would u date a trans guy?
     
    #13 thrashgal, Jun 23, 2016
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    That's exactly the OP's point (at least I think it is?)
     
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    Yes I would. I like penises and all, but it's not a deal breaker or anything.
     
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    Yeah, I'm gonna explain why I made this thread. The thing I hear all the time is that gay men can't date trans men because we typically don't have penises.

    I'm not saying preferences are wrong BUT I think we really need to think about why we have them. For example, I used to always say I would never date a feminine man. But you know, I had to ask myself why that was a thing for me. While I still prefer masculine partners, I also thought it was important to consider whether I felt my attraction was based more from my ideas of masculinity and what a man should be or whether it was because I could relate better to a more masculine partner.

    This is not me saying you're transphobic or cissexist not to be attracted to trans men. But I think it's an interesting little thought experiment.

    Is someone's refusal to date a trans man just based on your preferences concerning genitalia or because of something else? So my idea was "well, how important is the penis anyway? Would some of the same people who don't want to date a trans man date someone who was born with a penis and lost it?"

    I know I definitely acted like an ass earlier and I really do want to apologize. I haven't been in a good head space and it's honestly been rough for me navigating being single along with some other unrelated issues I've been dealing with. But that doesn't excuse me lashing out and for that I really want to apologize. I'll be mindful of how I address people going forward. And sorry once again.
     
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    I over heard that you develop sensitivity in another area.. So per say the neck, or inner thigh; could be sexy :3

    In terms of trans men, they can be just as hit-or-miss as most people. Typically most people label it as an exotic relationship; but it really is just like dating any cis male.
     
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    oh..haha...yea that make sense..
     
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    That's actually a question I've never thought about. I'd say it could work (if I really really had feelings for the guy), but I don't see it happening. :/
     
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    I can't stop cracking up about this
     
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