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xXHolic · 7th Mar 2009, 03:27 PM

so, tommorow (actually, today for me) im going with my class for four days at Giannena, a place at north Greece, as we usualy go every year..
but this time, my crush is gonna be there too, and i dont know what to do

im gonna miss the site (hah ^^) but will keep informed all of you when I get back for everything that will happen!!!
do you have any last minute advice?

if not, talk to ya on wednesday (most prop)

7th Mar 2009, 03:30 PM

Don't do something stupid. Lol Don't try to make a move on him or anything that can compromise your situation with him.

RaRa · 7th Mar 2009, 03:44 PM

Use Alcohol.

Lychee · 7th Mar 2009, 03:45 PM

Have fun, but make sure you don't get drunk/do anything you'll regret

Try to get to know your crush a bit more

Talk to you when you get back xx

Bryan44 · 7th Mar 2009, 03:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RaRa

Use Alcohol.

Alcohol is win. Lol

But seriously, have fun. Cant wait to hear about it!

xXHolic · 7th Mar 2009, 10:55 PM

thanks people

im off to the airport!
see ya ;D

xXHolic · 12th Mar 2009, 02:30 PM

so.. we are back and guess what. NOTHING HAPPENED!
well, i used the alcohol advice and when we went out we drunk a lot.. i saw him behaving weird-ly and I asked him what's wrong like I would ask my boy/girl-friend.. he told me I am the only person he can trust and he started talking about his x-girlfriend and stuff and how he still wants her..
i was so moved and i knew i shouldn't chase anything more.He told me again and yesterday that he is thankful he can talk to me anytime he wants to and that he won't forget..
so, that's my/our story =/

Lychee · 12th Mar 2009, 02:37 PM

That's really good. Except for the whole nothing happened thing, but still... It's great that he trusts you that much, and that you guys are that close

I'm glad your trip was great

xXHolic · 12th Mar 2009, 02:52 PM

i don't think we are close anymore

we used to hang out when whe came to school(i was the only one to care for him, he was hot even then :P ) and now he has other friends and i have No friends! [what a surprise for me =/] we might be hanging out with the same people, but he treats me like he barely knows me for time to time..

Lychee · 12th Mar 2009, 03:14 PM

Aaww, I'm sure you have friends. And he still likes you from what he said to you.

See, if he has all these friends and he still said that you are the only person he can trust, it's worth a lot more than if he doesn't have any other friends coz it means that you're obviously great

12th Mar 2009, 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xXHolic

i don't think we are close anymore

we used to hang out when whe came to school(i was the only one to care for him, he was hot even then :P ) and now he has other friends and i have No friends! [what a surprise for me =/] we might be hanging out with the same people, but he treats me like he barely knows me for time to time..

haha I hate having crushes, mine is very shy but I never see him enough to talk to him, when given the chance I do...but most of the time it would require walking across the room just to say 'hi' or something, which is awkward and all.

Well, doubly-awkward because people tend to act paralyzed around their crushes

punkrocker99 · 12th Mar 2009, 08:44 PM

hmmmm i had that same problem when they go from being all deep with you to seeming like they're avoiding you.

I think i probably would've gone insane from worrying too much if I thought to much about it, so I just say random stupid shit to cheer myself up and try not to dwell on the negative. i do that too much, and trust me, it isnt good for you.

xXHolic · 13th Mar 2009, 05:23 PM

that's true..
idk.. i sure am confused about how i might be feeling about him =/ facts do say he is str8 afterall..

7th Mar 2009, 03:27 PM	#1
xXHolic Κοίταξέ με δυο φορές.. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: though was bi, but something has changed =/ Out Status: 99.9% Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 368 Join Date: Jan 2009	4 days.. so, tommorow (actually, today for me) im going with my class for four days at Giannena, a place at north Greece, as we usualy go every year.. but this time, my crush is gonna be there too, and i dont know what to do im gonna miss the site (hah ^^) but will keep informed all of you when I get back for everything that will happen!!! do you have any last minute advice? if not, talk to ya on wednesday (most prop) __________________ all the birds shall sing at dawn, blessed and wet with joy. you and i will meet one day, under the night sky lit by soft black stars.

7th Mar 2009, 03:30 PM	#2
The Enigma Guest Posts: n/a	Re: 4 days.. Don't do something stupid. Lol Don't try to make a move on him or anything that can compromise your situation with him.

7th Mar 2009, 03:44 PM	#3
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: 4 days.. Use Alcohol. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

7th Mar 2009, 03:45 PM	#4
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: 4 days.. Have fun, but make sure you don't get drunk/do anything you'll regret Try to get to know your crush a bit more Talk to you when you get back xx __________________ We we we so excited.

7th Mar 2009, 10:55 PM	#6
xXHolic Κοίταξέ με δυο φορές.. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: though was bi, but something has changed =/ Out Status: 99.9% Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 368 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: 4 days.. thanks people im off to the airport! see ya ;D __________________ all the birds shall sing at dawn, blessed and wet with joy. you and i will meet one day, under the night sky lit by soft black stars.

12th Mar 2009, 02:30 PM	#7
xXHolic Κοίταξέ με δυο φορές.. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: though was bi, but something has changed =/ Out Status: 99.9% Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 368 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: 4 days.. so.. we are back and guess what. NOTHING HAPPENED! well, i used the alcohol advice and when we went out we drunk a lot.. i saw him behaving weird-ly and I asked him what's wrong like I would ask my boy/girl-friend.. he told me I am the only person he can trust and he started talking about his x-girlfriend and stuff and how he still wants her.. i was so moved and i knew i shouldn't chase anything more.He told me again and yesterday that he is thankful he can talk to me anytime he wants to and that he won't forget.. so, that's my/our story =/ __________________ all the birds shall sing at dawn, blessed and wet with joy. you and i will meet one day, under the night sky lit by soft black stars.

12th Mar 2009, 02:37 PM	#8
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: 4 days.. That's really good. Except for the whole nothing happened thing, but still... It's great that he trusts you that much, and that you guys are that close I'm glad your trip was great __________________ We we we so excited.

12th Mar 2009, 02:52 PM	#9
xXHolic Κοίταξέ με δυο φορές.. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: though was bi, but something has changed =/ Out Status: 99.9% Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 368 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: 4 days.. i don't think we are close anymore we used to hang out when whe came to school(i was the only one to care for him, he was hot even then :P ) and now he has other friends and i have No friends! [what a surprise for me =/] we might be hanging out with the same people, but he treats me like he barely knows me for time to time.. __________________ all the birds shall sing at dawn, blessed and wet with joy. you and i will meet one day, under the night sky lit by soft black stars.

12th Mar 2009, 03:14 PM	#10
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: 4 days.. Aaww, I'm sure you have friends. And he still likes you from what he said to you. See, if he has all these friends and he still said that you are the only person he can trust, it's worth a lot more than if he doesn't have any other friends coz it means that you're obviously great __________________ We we we so excited.

12th Mar 2009, 08:44 PM	#12
punkrocker99 Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 10-ish friends, 0 family, GSA teacher Location: Rhode Island Age: 17 Posts: 115 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: 4 days.. hmmmm i had that same problem when they go from being all deep with you to seeming like they're avoiding you. I think i probably would've gone insane from worrying too much if I thought to much about it, so I just say random stupid shit to cheer myself up and try not to dwell on the negative. i do that too much, and trust me, it isnt good for you.

13th Mar 2009, 05:23 PM	#13
xXHolic Κοίταξέ με δυο φορές.. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: though was bi, but something has changed =/ Out Status: 99.9% Location: Athens, Greece Posts: 368 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: 4 days.. that's true.. idk.. i sure am confused about how i might be feeling about him =/ facts do say he is str8 afterall.. __________________ all the birds shall sing at dawn, blessed and wet with joy. you and i will meet one day, under the night sky lit by soft black stars.

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