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Sarah · 7th Mar 2009, 10:22 PM

When i grow up i want to own my own dessert resturant and id be head chef. And i want to be an author and publish a least 10 books. And i want to have childern. And i want to paint and draw. And i want to live in a small town that has all the seasons, where it snows in the winter and its HOT in the summer and ya. lol.

what do you guys plan for your future?

Greggers · 7th Mar 2009, 10:26 PM

I plan to be married to the most wonderful and artistic or political man, live in a nice apartment downtown in one of the cities with a bigger gay population, and raise a little Chinese baby with two adorable puppies! In my spare time i would either be a writer or a graphic designer, working from home as i take care of my little family :3

But this is my DREAM, and its not going to ever happen i know...sigh....

Sarah · 7th Mar 2009, 10:36 PM

AW! how do u know it wont happen?

Paralyzer · 7th Mar 2009, 10:38 PM

I want to own a house like the one Forrest has at the end of Forrest Gump with all the fields and curvy southern trees..

I want to be in a good proximity to the beach where people aren't pricks

I'm still not sure what I want to pursue as a career, but I'd like to be married to someone who was passionate about theirs.. just not to the point where I'm second priority.

To be perfectly honest
I want to start my own country..
My only problem is that my ideas revolve around a lot of innovative technological advancements that would be too difficult to supervise as a new and unrespected country since I wouldn't have the correct resources to make such devices..

I haven't really thought about my future too much :/
All I want is to be with the one that I for sure know that I love. Where I am won't matter as much if I could just find that person that I will forever fall in love with and they would me too.
Lies are a terrible thing.

**Maddy** · 7th Mar 2009, 10:48 PM

I honestly have absolutely no idea. I look to the future and I can't see anything. I know what I want, but I have no idea what will actually happen.

partietraumatic · 8th Mar 2009, 03:01 AM

i have simply NO IDEA what i want to do whatsoever.

But i dont see this as a bad thing, it means im still open to anything i might come across in the next few years.

Tho i suppose what we all want is to fall in love and live happily ever after lol

Lychee · 8th Mar 2009, 03:32 AM

I really want to become either a mathematician or something to do with international relations. Maybe get into politics later in life.

I also really really just want to pack up my life one day and move overseas without telling anyone. I know it probably won't happen but I wish it would. I don't particularly like my life and would like to start afresh.

I don't want to fall in love. I don't believe in love. And I don't want to get hurt.

I do eventually want children if my lifestyle and working hours allow for it.

And I really really want to have travelled to over 100 countries in my lifetime. 89 to go

**Ben** · 8th Mar 2009, 03:36 AM

I plan to live happily. Anything else is just a bonus.

Gumtree · 8th Mar 2009, 03:55 AM

My only goals are to be happy and comfortable, not be lonely and live by the ocean (I REFUSE TO MOVE AWAY FROM THE SEA!)

SexyTimeInTent · 8th Mar 2009, 04:19 AM

well. hopefully I'm going to university next year to study Maths with secondary education, in other words I intend to be a maths teacher in a secondary school.

most importantly I want hapiness, I want to fall in love and have a loving family and a beautiful wife (and neither of us would ever cheat on each other and we'd be completely honest) and for both of us to have jobs we love in which we earn enough money to be able to save loads. and then even though we'd have enough money saved to retire young we'd continue to work part time just cause we want to.
then perhaps we'd create a holiday resort or run a bar or a coffee house (cause I'm a coffee addict) or something similar that we'd want to do.
perhaps we'd move abroad somewhere nice and hot at some point and have children.
and go on holiday skiing every winter and on sunbathing pool side (cause I dont like sand) holidays in the summer.

that or if I'm not lucky enough to fall in love (again) and have a perfect relationship and a wonderful life, then just loads and loads of money and a dog and cats and a nice house, but I'm a people person and I get lonely so that could be bad. lol

really I just want happiness.
surely we all do, but nothing is ever that simple and everyone gets hurt and there is always difficulties in life!

so just to have fun for now and enjoy myself.

SexyTimeInTent · 8th Mar 2009, 04:20 AM

^sorry about the rant

Ionless · 8th Mar 2009, 05:53 AM

Move out of this country, pursue criminology / psychology.

More importantly re-discover myself.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 8th Mar 2009, 06:18 AM

I want to have children

**Martin** · 8th Mar 2009, 07:40 AM

I am hopefully going to become a sociology teacher.

I have no idea what else will happen in life, but I shall take each day as it comes. ^_^

Apocalypte · 8th Mar 2009, 08:56 AM

Haven't a clue - overall though, I just want to be happy. Anything else is a bonus.

carrie90 · 8th Mar 2009, 09:28 AM

i want 2 still be with my girlfriend maybe married and have children one day ( i wanna name my daughter after my sister cause she my best friend) o and a cat that looks like a mini tiger (but i dont think they exist yet) i want to be a vet and live in a nice suberb like somat out of desperate housewives or all my children

7th Mar 2009, 10:22 PM	#1
Sarah my mind just blanked Full Member Gender: birth certificate says im a F(w/e tat means) Orientation: bisexual(more guys than girls) Out Status: people who hav asked Location: the place around where i am Age: 17 Posts: 527 Join Date: Nov 2008	futures When i grow up i want to own my own dessert resturant and id be head chef. And i want to be an author and publish a least 10 books. And i want to have childern. And i want to paint and draw. And i want to live in a small town that has all the seasons, where it snows in the winter and its HOT in the summer and ya. lol. what do you guys plan for your future? __________________ "Walk Proud and we will walk with you. Stumble and we will lift you up" stilsurchin, EC member,I don't know if they thought of it on their own or heard it from someone else, but who ever said it is very thoughtful and insightful

7th Mar 2009, 10:26 PM	#2
Greggers Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: futures I plan to be married to the most wonderful and artistic or political man, live in a nice apartment downtown in one of the cities with a bigger gay population, and raise a little Chinese baby with two adorable puppies! In my spare time i would either be a writer or a graphic designer, working from home as i take care of my little family :3 But this is my DREAM, and its not going to ever happen i know...sigh.... __________________ "It's a male duck."

7th Mar 2009, 10:36 PM	#3
Sarah my mind just blanked Full Member Gender: birth certificate says im a F(w/e tat means) Orientation: bisexual(more guys than girls) Out Status: people who hav asked Location: the place around where i am Age: 17 Posts: 527 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: futures AW! how do u know it wont happen? __________________ "Walk Proud and we will walk with you. Stumble and we will lift you up" stilsurchin, EC member,I don't know if they thought of it on their own or heard it from someone else, but who ever said it is very thoughtful and insightful

7th Mar 2009, 10:38 PM	#4
Paralyzer Steven Brightside Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Friendly Out Status: A lot Location: Virginia Age: 20 Posts: 1,091 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: futures I want to own a house like the one Forrest has at the end of Forrest Gump with all the fields and curvy southern trees.. I want to be in a good proximity to the beach where people aren't pricks I'm still not sure what I want to pursue as a career, but I'd like to be married to someone who was passionate about theirs.. just not to the point where I'm second priority. To be perfectly honest I want to start my own country.. My only problem is that my ideas revolve around a lot of innovative technological advancements that would be too difficult to supervise as a new and unrespected country since I wouldn't have the correct resources to make such devices.. I haven't really thought about my future too much :/ All I want is to be with the one that I for sure know that I love. Where I am won't matter as much if I could just find that person that I will forever fall in love with and they would me too. Lies are a terrible thing. __________________ every line on your face makes a beautiful maze for my eyes to trace

7th Mar 2009, 10:48 PM	#5
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: futures I honestly have absolutely no idea. I look to the future and I can't see anything. I know what I want, but I have no idea what will actually happen. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

8th Mar 2009, 03:01 AM	#6
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: futures i have simply NO IDEA what i want to do whatsoever. But i dont see this as a bad thing, it means im still open to anything i might come across in the next few years. Tho i suppose what we all want is to fall in love and live happily ever after lol __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

8th Mar 2009, 03:32 AM	#7
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: futures I really want to become either a mathematician or something to do with international relations. Maybe get into politics later in life. I also really really just want to pack up my life one day and move overseas without telling anyone. I know it probably won't happen but I wish it would. I don't particularly like my life and would like to start afresh. I don't want to fall in love. I don't believe in love. And I don't want to get hurt. I do eventually want children if my lifestyle and working hours allow for it. And I really really want to have travelled to over 100 countries in my lifetime. 89 to go __________________ We we we so excited.

8th Mar 2009, 03:36 AM	#8
Ben Was Invisible. EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: futures I plan to live happily. Anything else is just a bonus.

8th Mar 2009, 03:55 AM	#9
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: futures My only goals are to be happy and comfortable, not be lonely and live by the ocean (I REFUSE TO MOVE AWAY FROM THE SEA!) __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.

8th Mar 2009, 04:19 AM	#10
SexyTimeInTent Hannah Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone (though I think my Gran's forgot) Location: Southend-On-Sea, Essex, South East, England Age: 21 Posts: 142 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: futures well. hopefully I'm going to university next year to study Maths with secondary education, in other words I intend to be a maths teacher in a secondary school. most importantly I want hapiness, I want to fall in love and have a loving family and a beautiful wife (and neither of us would ever cheat on each other and we'd be completely honest) and for both of us to have jobs we love in which we earn enough money to be able to save loads. and then even though we'd have enough money saved to retire young we'd continue to work part time just cause we want to. then perhaps we'd create a holiday resort or run a bar or a coffee house (cause I'm a coffee addict) or something similar that we'd want to do. perhaps we'd move abroad somewhere nice and hot at some point and have children. and go on holiday skiing every winter and on sunbathing pool side (cause I dont like sand) holidays in the summer. that or if I'm not lucky enough to fall in love (again) and have a perfect relationship and a wonderful life, then just loads and loads of money and a dog and cats and a nice house, but I'm a people person and I get lonely so that could be bad. lol really I just want happiness. surely we all do, but nothing is ever that simple and everyone gets hurt and there is always difficulties in life! so just to have fun for now and enjoy myself.

8th Mar 2009, 04:20 AM	#11
SexyTimeInTent Hannah Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone (though I think my Gran's forgot) Location: Southend-On-Sea, Essex, South East, England Age: 21 Posts: 142 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: futures ^sorry about the rant

8th Mar 2009, 05:53 AM	#12
Ionless Depressed, Lost. Seeking Solace. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: about a 4.5 Out Status: Family only Age: 19 Posts: 162 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: futures Move out of this country, pursue criminology / psychology. More importantly re-discover myself.

8th Mar 2009, 06:18 AM	#13
Eleanor Rigby Filip's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,400 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: futures I want to have children

8th Mar 2009, 07:40 AM	#14
Martin EC's Red Queen EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,046 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: futures I am hopefully going to become a sociology teacher. I have no idea what else will happen in life, but I shall take each day as it comes. ^_^ __________________ The blue whale ejaculates up to 40 gallons during sexual intercourse, but only 10 gallons enters the female. Do you still wonder why the sea tastes salty?

8th Mar 2009, 08:56 AM	#15
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: futures Haven't a clue - overall though, I just want to be happy. Anything else is a bonus. __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

8th Mar 2009, 09:28 AM	#16
carrie90 The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: futures i want 2 still be with my girlfriend maybe married and have children one day ( i wanna name my daughter after my sister cause she my best friend) o and a cat that looks like a mini tiger (but i dont think they exist yet) i want to be a vet and live in a nice suberb like somat out of desperate housewives or all my children __________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester